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seriously... girl asks for help and you guys start a cock swinging contest.

 

scarlett!!! *drool*

 

Sorry Goldi *embarrassed*

 

if your just the fuck buddy, your dating the wrong guys. women on this site are probably much, MUCH wilder at fucking than average women. you don't need to make them wait. just find the right guy. guys who just want a fuck buddy, are not looking for a relationship.

if you get a girl who is crazy in bed to date seriously, its like hitting the fucking jackpot.

 

that's what i always thought! and i'm cool and not pushy or a bug. but i guess it's that lifelong saying, why buy the cow when u can get the milk for free? *sigh*

 

I like sex with a girlfriend. gets better over time. your dating the wrong guy. ongoing wild and crazy fucking with a significant other is alot more fun than a temp friends with benefits.

your dating the wrong guys. i think it probably has more to do with girls on this site are attracted to the friends with benefits guys.

 

Men are programmed to think of having sex only every other minute; therefore, if you wish to be someone really really important to a man like me then sex is certainly something that I want more than anything on the planet at that certain moment in time when I am excited.

That is not to say that I am not truly looking for a long term quality life and relationship with a lady which is much more than being a F__k Bud_y … it is called a loving sole mate relationship which we both love it so much that we both have smiles on our face during the daytime, late at night, and in the morning.

All of the women that I know intimately all appear to want to get or be very close to me, which is somewhat of a problem because I too love all women and I can not seem to hide my real feelings toward them but they all know I am very well off which may be the underlying reason.

 

pass the popcorn please

 

My sister has been through one engagement that she cancelled (a nice guy who had no flash), 4 failed marriages to guys who were all flash and no substance, and one live-in arrangement to a guy who she left because he didn't want to take care of her sick child. She sure can pick 'em.

Try watching Two and a Half Men. Like my sister, you are attracted to the Charlie Harpers of the world - flashy, good-looking, good in bed, a lying weasel who can get away with it because he's rich. What you want is an Alan Harper - kind, tolerant, honest, good father, hard-worker, no flash. Alan's also neurotic, but there are decent men out there who aren't.

I'm here because my wife of 35 years became a depressed alcoholic who lost interest in normal activities, me, and sex. I did not lose interest in those things. I was a good father and am a nice guy, good at what I do, not flashy but well-traveled, with interesting stories and a high libido. Would love a girl who is well-rounded, takes care of herself, wants to help her man succeed and knows that doing what that takes, emotionally, physically and sexually, will result in the same for her, but who can also be her own person, with interests and friends. If that's you, there is a man for you out there somewhere. Keep looking!

 

Years ago I had a fuck buddy, it wasn’t coined “fuck buddy” back then, but it’s the same thing. She was a very attractive woman such as yourself and a great fuck. She had 3 failed marriages and never seemed to be able to keep a relationship alive for more than a couple of months before the guy would dump her. Now I’m not saying you fall in this category but it may be something to look at. Her problem was, she was very needy and clingy, she had no self confidence and no interest of her own, she just always went with the flow which the flow at the time was what ever interest the guy she was with at the time had. Guys like confident women, women who can be their own person, who doesn’t need the man to hold their hand every minute. The guys you’re dating probably are wrong for you, but they’re seeing something in you that you are not seeing in yourself, for whatever reason they are getting the impression that it’s all right to just use you as a fuck buddy and nothing more. Try working on your confidence a little (even if you don’t think you need it) you want the guys to know that you don’t have to have them, they are with you by your choice and you can walk anytime you please. Try this and I think the type of guy you attract will improve greatly.

 

The Two and a Half Men analogy is great. That's funny, I'd never go for the dorky looking guy! I know it's in who I choose, but I can't help that I like attractive people! I'm a lost cause. Go on without me! Save yourselves! LoL

I guess it would be really hard to "diagnose me" without actually knowing me and knowing how I act personally. I am by far clingy or needy, was discussing wth someone else that maybe I'm actually too cold. I try to be the cool chick, and they'll get around to asking me to exclusive eventually, but noooo 7 yrs pass and it's the same shit.

Fuck it. I'm just gonna "do me" and maybe someone will come along. I cancelled my dating profile. What a fucking waste.

 

There are actually good looking guys who want relationships and aren't dorky out there. But maybe you do send wrong message too. Hard to tell without people knowing you.
Maybe date a guy a little older than you might work if he didn't just get divorced recently when he'd probably be looking for fuck buddy.
Also you are a pretty girl but you should downplay dressing sexy and such until seeing if he likes YOU.
Then when you glam up he'll be amazed.
Good luck!

 

Well, I grabbed a man that was younger then me and not as experienced as i was, he figures I hung the moon. Would some good old fashioned cradle robbing work?

 

I thought about what I said, and I'm not a lost cause! I will do what you all suggested and check back in a few months. Thanks again for the advice, I appreciate all the replies.

 

It takes forever...I was the fuck buddy for 6 years. You said you were going on 7 years?

And *cries* I miss your old picture. Beautiful face though

 

thnx for the compliments

yeah, 7 yrs. he's gonna be 30 this yr. maybe he'll wanna settle down eventually. *shrug*

 

if you ever come to england, i'll take you on two dates a week until you go home...

if you decide you want to go home afterwards, that is

 

You're coming at my posts that I have accumulated over.. 6 years? You're showing how much of a catch you really are, dude.

You don't have a life if you're on a porn forum as old as you are. Be real for once.

I went to HS, was in college for a bit and will be going back at some point. I've been out there. I've been around new people and out in the world quite a bit in the past 5 years, even when I wasn't at school.

You're a middle-aged loser who is on a porn forum because he can't handle his "normal life". You should never be giving advice or talking shit to anybody. You're exactly the type of guy to avoid.

Here's the problem with that.. Both guys are douches. Charlie Harper is a spoiled douche who has been allowed to think his money and privilege makes him an Alpha Male and anything more than a spoiled douche.

Alan Harper is a typical "nice guy" who isn't a complete man because he wants what Charlie has because he can't have it himself. Guys like that are no better than the Charlie Harpers of the world.

What she needs is somebody who is neither. She needs somebody who can get ass and has gotten his share of it in his life but who sees all of that for what it is, and somebody who actually has something going on that makes him more than both of those types.

It's actually not hard at all to diagnose you.

However, that last line is the best self-advice you could ever take.

Apologies for the late bump but I didn't feel like reading/responding to this before.

 

Here, a man's "duty" is to try and to make "the first move"...

The "secret" that has given me access to so many pussies, was that I WASN'T making the "first move"!

Just chatted, made them feel good around me, but no "phisical attack"!

Not even a kiss (except the hello and good bye pecks on the cheeks).

1-st encounter, 2-nd encounter, 3-rd encounter - I've even been asked by some of them if I didn't have "a problem"...

When I was telling them that I love to make love, but I respect them too much to force myself on them, they just "jumped" at me.

But, yes, I know, I'm just an idiot...

After three months of having "wild" sex with my first wife, I've fallen in love so deep, that I've "jumped the broom" without taking any precautions - THAN, yes, I've been an idiot and I admit it! :rose: