Ok..I'm 18 and my gf is 18,we met in middle school and recently got together..I've told her bout my everything I've done sexually and I told her I was bi,she said she was a virgin and bi and hasn't done anything sexually but touch herself,well 2 weeks into the relationship I accidentally logged into her email thinking it was mine,apparentaly she sent tit pics to a couple of random guys,so I ask her bout it and she tells me she's just sent tit pics,but a couple months ago,but she did it cuz she was bored and she felt unwanted,so then I got a text on her phone from a old friend of hers,"we live together I use her phone often"she never deleted old messages so every convorsation is on there,apparently she show her tits to him to and so I checked her old text and she sent tit pics to a couple of more dudes and sexted with them,I was mad cuz she lied to me bout all this,and were very much in love but I just feel like she will cheat on me later on,she promised the only pics were tits and she hasn't done anything sexually but touch herself I don't know if I can believe her,I know she was a virgin..but honestly she lied bout all this so should I break up with her or wat?

 

Shes just a normal young girl who is curious about her sexuality. Its not easy find spirted young hot sexy ladies. Better hold on for awhile until you two really get to know one another.

 

Maybe she does just needs more attention from you. Have you read what she was sexting? Maybe you could act them out with her and scratch her itch. There seems to be something she is lacking and that doesn't mean you particularly are unable to provide it but maybe she is too afraid to ask.

On the other hand, I don't know that I did anything like that when I was a virgin. I had an awesome body and more confidence back then and was still afraid to let anyone see it. Maybe it's just my shyness.

 

My gf did that before me like months,and she's kinda fat so she's real self conscious,I give her all my attention and love,I make her feel special everyday,I let her know that I love her and her bodie,she promised to never do anything like that again and she deleted all the texts and her contacts and told any guy friends to fuck off and leave her alone,she told me she want to b with me forever and wants to marry me I wanna marry her to it's just should I judge her on the past or forget all that and enjoy the future I'm gonna have with her,and also were very open with eachother we explore each others sexual disires and everything like that

 

i would tell u hold on to her as long as she tell u what she is doing , she might have issues but she cant blow u off them she need to include u in the pic, anyway i cant recommend giving her a 3rd chance , she lie time after time , if it was me i wont be able to trust her and this will cause problems , u can either break up with her or give her a 3rd chance but as for me i would break up

 

Ok thanks,I really do love her,but again she hasn't done that in a long time,she hasn't sent pics or sexted in a long time!like months before we got together,I don't trust her that much due to the fact she lied but I try not to think bout it cuz it honestly did kinda break my heart finding all that shit out and knowing she lied,but she swears all of that is done it's just me she wants and she tells me everything now and we have no more secrets between us...but I still have a trust issue

 

Maybe you should stop invading her privacy!

 

Umm ok,but all that was by accident!she is more into my stuff,she has my passwords to everything and she checks all my messages I got nothing to hide,she gave me all her passwords...and the point is she had a week to delete all her old texts,I was outta town,a week and I would have never came across any of that

 

i will just say, texting/sexting/and communication in general has changed a LOT in the last few yrs. you seriously cannot talk to ANYONE wihout them asking for naked pics. they might not even know our name before they ask for revealing pics. and if you're a chick who has a lil bit of low self esteem, that does put you in a predicament-- you want the attention and you think doing it will make them like you more (that doesn't work). i wouldn't say sexting is "having a sexual encounter". i'd just assume that every chick has done it, and this is the world you now live in. believe you me, most chicks aren't the ones starting up the sexting or sending of naughty pics, we're persuaded or talked into it, sometimes even pressured. i am sure she didn't just wake up one day like, "i'm gonna show my tits to everyone today!"

now, if you asked her point blank, "have you ever sexted anyone or sent pics of your naked body" and she lied, that'd be different.

and personally, if someone asks me about all the things i've done sexually i am not gonna mention sexting or sending nauighty pics; it totally doesn't count!

 

Then it sounds like she wants you to know. Maybe she wants to do you and someone els at the same time?

 

It was months before you got together and you are upset? That's wanting your cake and eating it too. What she did before you doesn't matter, what she does WITH you, does. It's not even sexual contact, she was exploring whether she liked being n exhibitionist.
If you hold that tight she'll end up feeling angry and resentful and you'll lose her. In the end, it's none of your business what happened before you started dating.

ps if she didn't delete it, how can you say she lied? She wanted you to know about it.

 

Have her send me some pictures of her tits and I can give a better answer to your question

 

I asked her when she asked me and yeah she lied,and she never intended for me to know,it broke her heart to know that i saw all that,and she's tells me constantly she wished she deleted those texts,her phone is shitty and slow it took a couple of hours,days to delete them,the phone froze up several times,and my gf doesn't wanna share me and she doesnt wanna b with anyone else trust me...the oppurtunity has came up,she declined

 

if you're this worked up about it, i don't have much hope for the relationship. you're always gonna be suspicious and she's always gonna be guilty. just end it now.

 

sounds like she didnt lie.. she never fucked em.. Just showed some nice titties

My Ex when we were dating, asked me if i was okay with her playing with girls.. I said i had no problem as long as i could chime in every once in awhile for a 3some.. She agree'd..

We broke up tho :/ But i wouldnt consider it as cheating..
- Would you break up if she sent tit pic's on here? would that be considered Cheating?

 

Seriously, I wouldn't worry about it. It's in the past. Thanks to you, she's just starting to realize how attractive she is. Stay with her, stop holding it over her head, and enjoy how the relationship is right now.

 

Very good call

 

If she lies to you now,,You can be certain she will lie to you from now on! I would break it off before you get any more involved!

 

fucker then chucker your better than that dont let some girl fuck with your head ive been with girls like that there poison plus your not even fucking so why stay if shes playing around on you.

 

i agree, i would say more but it would just piss people off.