I'm 18 and still a virgin.

I'm going to uni soon and hoping to get laid...

Any tips on what to do and how to actually pull a girl? What is the first time like?!

 

ummm first time is amazing!!but i can talk a person into doin anythin r u a smooth talker?but just be nice and get her to trust u and she should start to fall for u....pretty much just dnt b a dik haha

 

Joined here in 2007, and aged 18 today = :excited: BULLSHITTER :excited: = dumb fucker

 

Since this post was from last year, I'm guessing you're more like the guy below than an untouched, young teen.

 

Fine I admit, I am 20 and still a virgin. Was hoping this wouldn't get any more embarrassing than it already is...

 

What the hell is a "uni", and wtf does it mean to "pull" a girl? I presume this is yet another British thing.

 

Definite British thing!

Uni= University.
Pull= Managing to get with a girl.

 

Ah "University". Here in the colonies, we say we're going to "a university" or "a college" (which mean the same thing, btw). You guys always leave out the "a" or the "the". Ditto with vacations, which you call "holiday". Going on holiday sounds so odd to us. Going on a vacation or a holiday sounds better. Put that in your trunk...er...boot. lol

To answer your question, getting laid requires that you develop self-confidence. Don't feel personally rejected by the first 99 girls to turn you down. The 100th will be great. I recommend you go read the stuff done by David DeAngelo on getting women to feel attracted to you. It goes against the common notion that you have to be sensitive and caring and good-looking. Why are so many women attracted to complete assholes? It's because the guys know how to generate attraction in women. You don't have to actually BE an asshole, you just have to learn how to play one on TV. Toy with them. Set yourself apart from the herd by refusing to compliment them on their looks (because they already know they're pretty and 1000 guys tell them that all the time). Instead, be "cocky funny", which means to say things that are so outrageous that it is obviously a joke, without going over the top, but in a humorous way. Good stuff.

 

I have some advice. Be nice, be yourself, shower regularly, keep your cloths clean, brush your teeth, smile and stop thinking about getting laid all the time. It will happen when it happens, better it happens with the right girl in the right circumstances

 

bob1 needs to pull his head out of his arse and realise that there is linguistic differences even in english, and his country isn't the only one in the world.

 

Hey, lighten up. It was meant to be humorous.

 

Sorry bob, just seemed like you were having a dig at him. xox

 

Hopefully your first time is more pleasant than the responses to this thread..

 

I agree with this dude. Also,..if you get to eat her pussy on the first time, be gentle, freshly shaven (you) and moan,..let her know and hear that you love it (you better!). She'll wanna come back and feed you more :excited:

 

A virgin is a virgin/

Whether 20 or 40 it makes no difference you don't have to feel left out maybe you just haven't found the right one or your shy with self esteem issues (don't know). Anyway get out there and socialize join a club or a gym to build your social skills and know that your time is due but, above all else choose wisely so your first time will be memorable from the start instead of rushing into a regret.:excited:

 

Thank you everyone for all the appropriate responses to this thread! Much appreciated and I'll take all the advice onboard