There is a woman in work who I have flirted constantly with since starting there. Last year we shared a drunken kiss and a since a few txt messages and facebook chats that have almost led to x-rated discussions. She has told me she wants to fuck me, amongst other things, which drives me insane. I do although have a very loyal girlfriend who I feel very strong for!

The inpure thoughts of this woman and the subtle hints and expressions she gives me make me very horny, and excited. Even so that driving home from work today my dick was pulsating and I masturbated and came to the thought of me fucking her hard. I even took a picture and considered sending it to her whilst I was in 'blue rage'.

20 months ago I would have jumped at the chance to touch her and turn thought into reality but I'm unsure now because of girlfriend and the risk of hurting her. Part of me says go wild, enjoy!

Anybody else been or is in a similar situation with any advice?

 

Don't do it.

These horny bastards (laughing out loud) will tell you to. I did it and it definitely was not the right thing. I wish I hadn't. The guilt will kill you if you truly care for your girl.

 

ever think of using that "rage" on your gf? just don't call her by your coworkers name.

 

It depends how you personally see the whole situation...

Normally, loving your girlfriend, shouldn't let you have some other erotic thoughts - still, as I see here, you do!

If you think you can arrange with your coworker to have sex without attaching strings, maybe it's worth trying...

On the other hand, you aren't married yet - so why not keep on searching for the best match for you?!?

Anyway, from my very personal point of view, having sex is one thing, and making love is another - technically, they may look as being the same, but the soul involvement is very different...

 

what turned u on?

the part where u two were sexting and flirting?

the thought of having sex with her in real life?

her body?

a new partner?

masturbating to a fantasy is perfectly normal..

the fact that u care about your gf is even better

i like the comment about using this on your gf...

but if u are really really into this new girl

maybe u should talk to your gf..and explore your options


however work affairs....well u know the saying

"never shit...where u eat"

if it turns out bad...how BAD will it be for you

me i would keep masturbting for a bit....

 

Thanks

Some helpful tips....thanks.

Yesterday in work I tried to avoid her as much as possible then in the elevator she got on a different floor and the elevator had just her and I in there. I did fantasize about reaching around her front and slipping my hand down. Before I knew it my dick was rock hard and I was due to get out at my floor. I walked past her and she glanced me up and down, not sure if she noticed my hard dick!

When I got home that evening I couldn't stop thinking of her, when my gf got home from work I pulled her into the bedroom and stripped her naked and had rough sex, thinking of purely the girl at work.

I'm logged into facebook and she has just 'Chat' msged me......off for a chat

 

I wouldn't cheat if I were you, you state you feel strongly about her and that you she's loyal to you, which tells the story.

A bit of fun isn't worth wrecking your relationship with your GF over. Think with the big head not the little one my man, lol!