I am completely turned on by hearing about a woman pass sexual events, the dirtier/slutter/rougher the better. I wonder what do you think? Women, how do you feel about telling your past? Women, do you enjoy hearing about your man's past? Men, do you get turned on to hear about a woman's past? Men, do you enjoy talking about your past with women?

 

Yeah sort of I guess. I know that's vague but what I mean is it will vary in degrees based on the status of the relationship. If this is a woman that I have casual sex with it wouldn't bother me that she had been the centerpiece of a 6 man gangbang. If it was a relationship that eventually led to matrimony, my emotions would be more mixed about it. It's hot but in the past so I guess it doesn't matter.

 

I can understand that. Although I married the high school slut! At one time we would talk about her past, especially during sex, but not that we are older I do not think that it would be a good idea, she is not the same women I married, more professional now and is nothing like that now...

 

Yeah that's very true! People change as they get older. I'm not very old (35) but sometime's I think thank god I'm not how I used to be! Then other times you like to be reminiscent.

 

I'm quite comfortable sharing the details of my past sexual experiences after I've gotten to know a guy. It's a balancing act and some guys don't react well. On the other hand, some guys have gotten seriously turned on by hearing about what i've done in the past and it's really amped up our physical relationship.

Nearly every guy I've been with in the last 10 years has told me he wants to watch me fuck other men AFTER I've shared my details. It's certainly worked out well for me! :excited:

 

Angel-do you think that they see you differently after they hear you past? or maybe trust you more to share thier real selves? Why do you think they are more willing to be "dirtier" with you?

I tried for years to get my wife to do another man in front of me, for I am seriously turned by that, also! I also wanted to dp her, for we have done that many times with toys and that to is a huge turn on for me....

 

have u ever met some1 curious as hell ... that would be me , i just cant stand me knowing nothing .... if i see 2 friends whispering it drives me crazy

cool now try to combine that with some1 who is jealous

Answer : u got the freak me ... i would die to know my gf/wife past sexual but in the same time i will be annoyed as hell

there is no win win situation here for me or her :sad:

 

Red-I can understand that. I think that it could be bad for many people/relationships!

 

Baby if I told you about mine you'd be leaking precum for a month

 

Damn Naughty, I that is what I am talking about! Good girl!

 

I can give you a solution - try to get yourself a virgin girl

It may be hard, but... not impossible!

 

Not that we're normal or anything but the wife and I both enjoy this. She's had an active sex life before we met and she will sometimes describe in detail about times she got fucked hard . The nastier, the more we get off.

 

lol looks like failure plan , the girl i already like us far away if that path

but thanks

 

I don't particularly like hearing about my husband's past sexual heroics...but I do know that he gets off on hearing me talk about mine, both before sex and during sex. And the more graphic I get about it, the better he likes it.

So there's a sample of one.

He also likes to hear about my fantasies involving other men. If I happen to notice a man when my husband and I are together, he'll want me to tell him in graphic detail about how I would fuck him.

 

I completely understand, that is the way we used to be. It makes sex so much hotter, more fun!

 

Kimiko-what you like about it? Is the sex better? How does it make you feel? Thanks...

 

I think we are turned on and fantasize about the "dirty whore" and "good girl" dichotomy aspects of the women we're with. "This wonderful woman was so sweet and just made me lunch/and 10 years ago she fucked half the football team at a party:twisted:!" I don't know, I may have not described that the way I meant.

 

Pussy-I understand and agree! Although I think I have been this way a long time, for I would make girls in high school talk about it either because I saw it at a party or heard guys brag about it. I would get to talk about it at school or at a party not only while I was banging them, in fact most would not talk about it while gettting fucked but talk about it other times. And of course the talk always turned me on, back then....

 

I guess it makes me feel slutty, which is always good for me, and it probably satisfies that deep-seated male desire to imagine his wife being fucked by other men. I don't think he'd like it if I ACTUALLY fucked other men, but he loves the fantasy. He once quoted me the passage in Orwell's 1984 in which Winston Smith tells Julia that the more men she's had, the more he loves her. He loved it that she was "corrupt to the bones", as she put it.

 

Im like RedRats. I want to know her history, how many guys, if I know any, ect. And I would be mad as hell if she didnt tell me because I feel like shes keeping something from me or cant trust me but at the same time I want the list of guys so I can personally execute them becuase they slept with my girlfriend. Its like the thought of the person I am with having been with somebody else kills me. Its like I want to know, but I dont. But that is for a serious relationship. If it was just a hook up I dont want to hear about other guys unless its her saying that Im better.