Not there yet but would like to try it..

Ive always been very oral, love giving pleasure to others and orally lets you really focus on your womans pleasure. I also haved always enjoyed masturbating, as much because I love the feel of my cock as the orgasm itself. Being very oral, but not getting my first BJ until I was in my late 20s, I had plenty of years to wonder what it would feel like, which translated into wishing I could suck my own. I almost could, was very flexible from gymnastics and martial arts, could lick the end of it, but not so comfortably as to be able to really enjoy it.
In my early 20s I realized while watching porn with friends that a good blowjob would turn me on not just with desire to be suckedd, but my mouth was craving the experience as well. As a very homophobic heterosexual I kept this little perversion to my self until I was in my 40s and my wife brought out my dirty little secret.

I started chattin on sites like this and realised its not uncommon and has a lot of different root causes, that basicly heterosexual men can end up having seemingly homosexual fantasies. For some of us its that we love our own cock so much we want to experience it in all the ways we can... but you cant suck or fuck your own, so start thinking about others ( when you watch porn, are the cocks that arouse you usually like your own?) For others, its simple familiarity, maybe you and a friend experimented before anyone taught you it was wrong. I have a friend who was actually molested by his " big brother" that was supposed to be helping him in his fatherless youth, and although he hates what that guy did to him he now likes to give head.

I think for myself, Ive finally matured to the point that labels dont matter, and sex doesnt have to be based purely on attraction... its fun even with someone your not initially attracted to. And since Ive done almost everything I could ever want with my wife, if Im to experience anything new, we need to add another man to the mix.

My wifes told her shrink about my desires, and hes told her that someday I will probably try to realize them.. but Id prefer it to be something we do together, so havent got to the point yet of hooking up outside the marriage... but I do think the shrink is right, Ive supported her in her trying everything shes wanted... if she doesnt ever come around to wanting to go this way with me I may well do it alone. But I would much prefer if the guy I was sucking were being paid attention to by my wife as well... would seem far more erotic and less gay LOL...still a little homophobic after all these years

 

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I used to let guys sucks me off also. Yes I am married to a mean fucking female and 15 years ago I stopped fucking her and started to suck a cock. And then loved it. Wasn't long before I let a guy come in my mouth and I swallowed it. since then I look for a cock to suck.

 

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Im at a campground in Mims Florida. Any other bi guys close to me send me a e-mail and hook up. Or a private message

 

I was a cock sucker before I was married. It turned me on then and still does. I don't consider it cheating. I look at as getting off. I'm not romantically involved with a man as I would be if I was with a woman. To me there's a difference between being intimate and just getting off. With a woman it's more then just getting off. Unless your willing to pay.

 

Don't any of you worry about STD's? You can catch herpes II in your mouth from sucking a cock, even when there are no obvious sores. And you can transmit Herpes I to someone's cock (or pussy) if you've ever had a cold sore (which is most people). I recently broke up with a girl who wouldn't have sex with me because I have herpes, but she didn't have any qualms about giving other random guys BBBJs. That never made any sense to me. At least I was honest about it.

There are plenty of other STDs out there that can be transmitted through oral sex too, although apparently HIV is not one of them. But really guys, it may be convenient because it's all you can get, but is it worth the risk?

 

I was in a sexless marriage also. I would have to beg and plead my wife and still not get anything. I only sucked cock 3 times, but I still want more. The first guy took forever to come
I licked and sucked him for over an hour. The second was a non passable TV. The third was really good. We 69ed and I licked and sucked his smooth cock. If I could have seen him a few more time I would have given my anal cherry to him

 

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im not a confirmed cock sucker but i would try it if given the right situation. i would have to be horny already and the cock would need to belong to a very passable tranny. i am not attracted to a mans body. i would rather suck a womans cock. as for my marriage, the sex life is fine and we have sex often. i just think my kinkiness might be too much for my wife. there are things i would like to do that she isn't interested in at all and i can't get her to tell me her fantasies... mine would be having sex with my wife and a beautiful tranny at the same time where my wife teaches me how to suck cock and we both practice on the tranny.

 

I don't mean to sound like an asshole or anything but using a sexless marriage as an excuse to come out of the closet? Really guys? Really? That's equally as bad as closet lesbians blaming their bad relationships with men for them coming out. I understand that you like sucking cock. That isn't the issue. It just that it just seems to me that the a good number of the husbands that went to sucking cock due to a sexless marriage are making excuses for them being bi. Just calling it as I see it

 

I was a cock sucker long before I was a husband. For 13 years she only knew that I had "experimented" when I was younger. Recently I told her that it was more than that. At first she was grossed out, but that changed when I stuck her life-like toy in my mouth. Then she took it out of my hand and throat fucked me with it. She came almost instantly.

She says she'd never be ok with it for real, but I think as time marches on, she'll come around.

I will swallow, but I prefer to have it shot on my face. Then I like to be pissed on. Weird I know, but it's my thing.

I started sucking cock in the 4th grade and literally, the first time that little hairless pecker parted my lips and rested on my tongue, I knew I would be a cock sucker for the rest of my life.

I love to eat pussy, but it's always better with a cock in it. Since my wife won't allow a 3some (yet) I love to fill her with come and go down on her to clean it up.

Craigslist and adam4adam have been my go to...and have worked pretty well when there are serious guys, not just pic collectors.

 

I love to suck cock..my wife loves to watch...its awesome being able to do it with your partner....shes bi also

 

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I was married to a woman for (30 yrs) until our divorce and the past few years I have been thinking more and more about wanting to suck a large cock. The thought of putting a hard cock in my mouth is something I may be able to do sooner than later. I know if I could find a glory hole, that would be the ticket.

 

I knew I was orally bi long before I was married, but never acted on those feelings. As I matured I faced my mortality and realized that you only experience life once and I wanted to know what I had denied myself for the last 30 years.

The first time I felt the cock go past my lips, I felt both satisfied and relieved. It was what I had always imagined.

I on't do it a lot, 2-3 times a year. But when the desire is there I no longer deny it. My wife doesn't know and would most definitely not approve. But we also have not had sex in several years due to a physical issue. I love her dearly and understand her issue, but I decided that my desires are mine and I deserve to be who I am.

 

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I live in UK, I was in a uniformed service sex, at that time with other men was illegal and if you got caught it meant being fired, pension lost as well as a criminal record. I used to watch porn films like most guys and found myself gradually envying the women, when other guys were saying what a lucky guy the actor was I was thinking how lucky she was sucking this lovely hard cock. it did happen I grew close to a guy I worked with we used to joke about sucking cock and one day at his house he asked me if I'd suck him. Although I really wanted to I was nervous at first, what if he came in my mouth or worse peed in my mouth. But I plucked up the courage and did it, and it was much better than I imagined. the taste, feel of it hard in my mouth feeling him squirm and hearing his gasps as I explored with my tongue really turned me on.

 

stunned surprise

Well, my wife and I hooked up with a man we met through AFF a couple of weeks ago. We were talking with him about our sexual experiences, and getting comfortable, when he mentioned he had some bisexual experience. I thought that was it, my wife would probably find an excuse to leave. But instead, she shocked the hell out of me by saying she'd be interested in seeing me stroke or suck on another man.
This had long been an eroticism of mine which she knew about but did not like ( if you've read my other posts you'd know) To have her suddenly switch tracks was a shocker. We did end up playing with the guy... but only heterosexually. He wasn't my type LOL. And unsure if she really means it... will be interested in seeing what happens in the future though.

 

Thing were good but now not so much

My girlfriend talked me into trying it so she could watch...it was her biggest fantasy. We met a guy that fit what we were looking for and quickly took him home. I was scared to death and he could tell so he took it nice and slow. We got naked and went right to it....touching, rubbing, licking and sucking. My g/f went crazy watching us. I finally realized that I was really enjoying myself. And when he moved around behind me I shuddered. He lubed up and started pressing forward. I must have been really ready for this because he slipped right in and it felt wonderful! This happened 2 years ago and we had a few more experiences.....maybe 6 in total. Well shortly after that she lost the desire for sex. So.......I have been in a sexless relationship for a long time. I still desire her and she knows it. I won't cheat on her with male or female. If I had known it would turn out like this.....I would have NEVER fulfilled her fantasy.

 

After being married 40 some years the wife had lost all interest in sex. On vacation and in private, I let my oldest brother fuck me in the ass two years in a row and I really loved it. (Note: he did me a couple times when we were kids; there was no oral.) I really yearned more anal experiences so I clandestinely join a dating site to meet men to screw me. My first date was another married man not getting sex from his wife, and after screwing me he mouthed my cock. That surprise me as that wasn't mentioned in any emails or are first chat over coffee, and it intrigued me so I reciprocated and I loved it. As I did on other dates with men, except I never let them cum in my mouth. But after several years, and again in private with that oldest brother, I sucked his cock and swallow his cum. My only regret was not starting when I was younger.

 

same here..been married several years and now wife isnt into sex..never thought just a few years ago i would be interested in cock.

 

Your oldest brother fucked you?

 

Not that I don't believe in these stories, just think a percentage of the people who went out with their stories here must be gay. Though not a single story teller goes out as such, It's either bi reasons for changing course or their wives simply have lost interest in sex. I know that there are lots of gay people who are married with women (as a cover) and it is not uncommon for those marriages to last very long. And there has come a moment when they can't take it any longer and divorce or cheat. Or have been cheating all the time (with men).