After you fuck her/him... Do you get up, wash up, kiss good bye and leave? Or do you take her/him in your arms, and let your hands and lips assure the pleasure ?

 

I say, "Leave the stack on the nightstand, motherfucker!".

How about you?

 

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that was just plain fucking funny!!!!!
thanks for the laugh, sexkitten!!!

 

You don't get the money up-front? Biiiig mistake!:excited:

Normally I wait for the drugs to take effect then while he's incapacitated I make off with his wallet and watch and as many valuables as I can carry out of the house.

 

WOW! Oh shit!:excited:

 

Neither. I've been through enough bullshit because of other people (I'm looking mainly at you, ladies), that I've no real interest in intercourse, anymore. There's nothing that someone can do for me sexually that I can't do for myself given proper lubrication and choice of toy. Heh..

No, my time is spent working, sleeping, hanging out with friends, reading, playing games, fixing up the house, etc. I take a little time each day to pleasure myself as a sort of stress detox after work, and I set a little time out each week to talk to strangers. I'm looking for a partner in life, not a fuck buddy. And, though there are plenty of mouthy bitches I wouldn't mind shutting up with several inches of "bite it and die," I have yet to find a single woman worthy of my love and trust.

No offense to the ladies out there, of course, but I simply don't see the point in "settling" for any ol' "not-as-crazy-as-the-last-one" type when I know that one day, somewhere, when I least expect it, the good Lord will set a woman to cross my path that metaphorically sucker-punches my heart, and that'll be that. Until then, I'm content to better myself and the world around me as much as I can, and to enjoy ALL the wonders of life, not just those that hide betwixt a damsel's thighs.

When I was still dating and sexually active with my various exes, though, I was the cuddly type. For me, it's the build-up to and the closeness after orgasm that bring me the most pleasure, not the orgasm itself. Odd, I know, but electrical-based nerve damage will do that to a gent.

 

now, now Mercutio...don't give us ALL the hairy eyeball. People are people.
I'm a dedicated single. The "afterwards" depends on who I'm with and how I feel at the moment...
At this point, I'm kind of in the same boat as you. I don't have the emotional capacity or the patience for a relationship.
Not that it can't happen, it's just not something I desire, for now.
So when I'm getting up, putting my clothes back on and giving you a kiss on the forhead, before I head for the door....I still respect you, but I like to have the bed to myself....

 

I'm a big softie, I like to give a reassuring hug and some kisses afterwards, especially after I have been telling her what a dirty little girl/bitch she is.

 

I would say taste yur creamy self of my cock before i get the hell out of here lol

 

Great ideas.... damn I love women LOL

 

*Grins a bit,* I believe my point was that I wasn't giving anything to anyone.
In all fairness though, I didn't mention any of you specifically. While there are numerous members on this forum I would happily chat with, I'm not interested in a cyber-relationship.

Along those same lines, while there are plenty of women I've met in my daily life whom I'd enjoy having a quiet meal and conversation with, not a damn one of them is deserving of my fidelity and affection. In fact, quite the opposite: I've yet to meet the available woman who hasn't lied to get what she wants, cheated on a partner (myself amongst them), or hidden her true self from me until after she believed she had me hooked. They have all proven themselves to be untrustworthy, irrational, emotional, manipulative twats..

I'm lumping them in the same category, my dear, not the lot of you. I've yet to "meet" any of you.

We're not in the same boat, not in that respect. I am quite ready for a real relationship. I greatly desire to have a legitimate partnership with a woman, and I am both emotionally and spiritually in a better place than I've been since before the first time I received a beating as a child! Heh..

My problem is not one of readiness on my part, it's a problem of a lack of suitable candidates. American women are, for the most part, spoiled rotten and mentally unattractive. Looks get you laid, but personality is what keeps people coming back when you're old and wrinkled. I don't want a plastic, materialistic, entitled, elitist, self-important bitch-on-a-stick. I want a woman! A real woman. Something that has, sadly, gone the way of real men in this country; that is to say, they are an endangered species. -.o

Please, Miss.. No soliciting.

 

I take her in my arms and kiss her and thank her for a great time. And asure her it was very memorable even if it is not at times.:excited:

 

Seems like everyone is only into one round and its over! If I only cum one time I feel let down. Even if I am with a guy to swap BJ's, he has been told that he will be needing to make me cum at least twice. My second climax is always more intense than my first, and I usually pump out more cum the second time. So I am definitely into touching my partner after I have cum, as I have no intention of calling it quits.

 

i usually love on him and ask for more...

 

Now THAT'S the way to do it!

 

you girls give me chills lol, jk. I would love for the women i just made love to linger in my arms and i caress her tire body until she falls asleep in my arms

 

like the BIG girls do we ??? lol

 

i hold her close then when i cant stand it any more i go for round 2!

 

I mean no disrespect, yet I wonder how you "choose" your woman....

What traits, in your opinion, make up a "real woman"?
The reason I ask, is due to part of your above statement, that "real men" and "real women" have gone the way of the dinosaur.

Everyone's expectations and experiences are different. I know absolutely nothing about you. However, from what you posted, my perception would be that you are not at all ready for a relationship.
Looking for someone that fits your ideals to perfection, is what most of us strive for, secretly.
Finding that perfection is rare and depends on how much you accept growth and change, of the person you're in a relationship with, and growth and change within yourself.
You mentioned that the women you know, are not worthy of your "fidelity". How much do you really know, about the women you're judging in that manner?
Do they have reservations about giving themselves completely, to one person, because they may have done so in the past, only to find that their S/O didn't do the same?
I try to look at both sides of the coin, before making that call. Sometimes we look at a situation, that may be clouded by our own experiences, with mistrust being the darkest cloud.
Another issue, for many, is that people tend to overlook, or downplay, their own flaws, happily pointing out someone else's, maybe even exaggerating them.
Being truthful, about yourself, to your self, is not an easy task, but if you can't do that for your self, how can you be able to do it for someone else?

 

I like to cuddle and go for five or six rounds, the more the better