same boat here always has an excuse and rationalization but he still cybers with people online..sick of it and about to move on up and out and he can have his computer to keep him cozy at night and pay his bills...

 

When he comes home does his face, hands and penis smell like pussy? That could be a clue.

 

Suck his cock evertime he comes home. If it taste like latex, or yeast you know he has. If not at least it will fire up your love life

 

If his dick is stuck to the side of his thigh when he comes home.................he is probably cheating. lol

 

If you suspect it then he probably is!

 

Honestly, It's been fun reading all the posts here...
Of course, if given the opportunity, most men cheat, just as many women also do!
Nothing is new!

Now, let me tell you one thing: there is a "slight" difference between cheating, occasionally, and... having a "permanent" lover beside the wife.

Now, about a private eye...
Instead of wasting money and giving the husband a hard time, wouldn't it be better to use that money for making your living together better?!?
Spend it on whatever pleases you both!
Of course, unless you are seeking for a divorce!...

Now, about completely hiding it...
1. When a man cheats, he needs to use condoms;
2. The woman he is cheating with, shouldn't be using a perfume, unless it's the same as the wife is using!
3. He should take care NOT to be seen in compromising postures with the lover in public places - you can never tell who sees you and "reports" to the wife;
4. Always, if needed, he should ONLY use cash! Credit card expenses are traceable!...
5. He must be aware of the priorities... A cunt is JUST a cunt, while the wife is a COMPLETELY different story - assuming that he loves his wife... :excited:
So, from my point of view, (and experience!) the answer is YES!

 

His/her patterns and habits will change. If you're having an "affair", there has to be time made for the other person. If it's an OCCASIONAL fuck, then it is not as noticeable.

 

that could be fun Or just not

 

Before sniffing him, tasting him or being suspicious yourself sit down and talk to him, give him a chance to explain himself for his lack of sexual interest! Calling it anyone's fault at this point is premature as it could be just a glitch that needs immediate attention and the rise in suspicion without the solid communication is just as harmful as cheating would be, give each other that respect first!

 

Well, either my husband has never cheated, or I don't know what to look for.

 

Not all men cheat....I just fantasize and remember my vows.

 

its not your faulr

Its not your fault and it may not be you with the issue my advise is to sit him down and converse with him on how you feel he may be cheating on you because the lack you sex and just be honest. You can't control what someone else wants to do

 

good rule of thumb: if your not cheating and you think theyre cheating youre probably right.