I'm 19 and I've known that I'm bisexual for about 5 years. However, I'm not really into relationships or even kissing other guys, I just enjoy the sex. After sex though, I feel terrible- almost guilty for some reason. I'm just wondering if there are other guys out there who know what I'm going through and could offer any advice. Thanks!

 

While I have had an experience that is purely guy on guy in quite a while I don't recall feeling guilty so much. It more like a "wow, did I really just do that ". You should relax and not think too much. Are worried that you are really gay?

 

I think its commen when your younger, I used to feel the same way when I was 19.
I'd fool around with a guy friend and then feel guilty for doing it and swear I'd never do it again but then I'd get all horny again.
I think its an age thing that you grow out of.

 

Age has a lot to do with it just enjoy yourself

 

I agree, although everyone's different. Some experience stronger pangs of guilt than others. Give it time.

 

I used to feel the same way but I got over it! You just have to accept what you are and you will learn to enjoy what you do!

 

I think that's society putting into your mind that same sex sex is "wrong", and it makes you feel confused. It happens. Once you reverse that brain washing, it gets much better.

 

I think I know what you mean. I get so horny all I want is sex and to feel good. And if I get it from a male after I finish im like yuck ..what the heck.. I just get too horny and have to get some or pull on off or ill be looking for sex from anyone that is willing.
But then again i was young then also.20 years ago..hmm maybe I need to try again to see. Just dont know any bi men.

 

Thanks for the help guys I'll go get fucked tomorrow!

 

I feel exactly like you at first I felt guilty after having sex with a guy but mean you wanted to get fucked in the first place soo just enjoy it noo need for remorse

I does feel good dont it ???

After a while you wont care or feel guilty you'll just want to get it any time

 

I boy, I watched the couples on the beach and I always wanted to touch a naked man.
When I finally got my first man was happy. no guilt or remorse.
you must face the reality for what it is.
If you wish to leave cock remorse and guilt and enjoy the cock

 

Listen it's easier to have sex with men (no strings attached) then it is with women unless, she's a whore? That guilty feeling is the straight side of you that doesn't want to hurt anyone I'd categorize you as bi curious more than bi sexual, you want the sex side with no attachments to the deep feelings and most guys will appreciate the honesty of,"Listen I only want to fuck around?" I know a few bi sexuals and they seem open to new relationships wherever they come from direction wise so, don't feel guilty if your not out intentionally hurting anyone!

 

I always feel so guilty in the window of time between when a guy cums inside your ass, and when you get a chance to go push it out. It's like he just emptied his testicles and you have to carry it around with you indefinitely just because you know how to milk with your ass while you're gettin fooked

 

I was in a similar boat as you were. I knew I was bisexual since I was 14 but I didn't do anything with a guy besides an occassional make out session until I was 18. Afterwards, I felt incredibly guilty and that I did something wrong. I guess it's because the way gay men are treated and the close minded people around me that had me feeling this way. I recently turned 20 and now all I can think is fuck them. If being with a man makes me happy then I'll be with a man and I will fucking enjoy it too!

You will grow out of this eventually so you don't stress out about this. Just keep enjoying yourself.

 

never been bi....but I want to touch maybe if feel right suck it...but I don't want to hug kiss or any thing I just want to feel a dick thats not mine....so your not alone here.........................

 

I've felt bad but after a while that feeling went away.

 

Let's face it being bi where sex is concerned has many advantages over being so called straight.

Guys who think they are straight might go for years before getting laid. Bi-guys only have to go to a gay bar or an adult book store where there is a glory-hole. Hell I get fucked as often as three or for times a night when I feel the need. I might suck twice as many cocks.

 

I didn't know I liked cock until I was 24. At first, I wrestled with my pride a little and got over it and enjoyed what I was doing.

As for you. I'm sure you do like dick on some level but if you feel that guilty after makes me think you are catering to some emotional need as opposed to just enjoying sex with men. What I mean is, it's not really your nature to be bisexual and you are compensating something with a man's penis subconsciously and completely unaware of it.

Hard to say for sure because I don't know you or exactly how you feel before, during and after. The only thing I can recommend is if you continue to feel terrible after you might want to consider the fact that you are not bi. I'm not being a jerk when I say this but at this point I would talk to a therapist unless your "after" feelings level off. Ultimately, catering to some deep-seeded issue can only make it worse and can effect you in negative ways in the long run...

Hope that helps.

 

I agree about age bringing self acceptance.I was in my forties before I really let myself enjoy my bi sexuality with no guilt or negative feelings.

 

Again, please don't take this the wrong way I am not trying to insult or flame you. This sounds like needy sex. No different than binge eating...instead of food it's with cock. The trait of people under a lot of pressure and can't handle it. This is your release...Proceed with caution.

Again, not trying to offend you.