FOLLOW UP: I tried at it again recently hoping that maybe time was a factor. After 20 minutes straight of my best game and no change in results, I gave up.

 

I don't like it. I don't like giving or receiving.

I've only met one guy who didn't like eating out, and I was very thankful for him.

 

I'm married to one that doesn't like it but she tolerates my licking her anyway; most of the time, she'll cum but she says it's not as intense as cumming from fucking. :neutral:

 

Kind of surprised

At the number of women who think going down on them is 'meh', but giving blowjobs is great. My wife is the opposite. Quite happy for me to go down on her and will orgasm, but won't give a blow job at all.

 

Current GF enjoys giving head so that's nice but I wish there were other non coital ways I could please her.

 

This is my situation. Honestly, she was not into it at first and from what she tells me it was mostly due to the thought of a mouth where bodily fluids leave that initially turned her off. I think that may have been her aversion to blowjobs as well, although I am very careful to stay clean whenever it happens so as to avoid the funk that can ruin a good mood.

My feeling, FWIW, is that it is about 50/50 mental and physical. You have to have the correct mental state for it, and the body's erogenous zones have to match up. If you are not a clitoral orgasmer, or lean very heavily towards vaginal orgasms instead, oral sex is not likely to ever be your thing. Especially if you have had the good fortune of getting the 'best' orgasm based on your own needs and zones.

I am lucky in that I am very oral and her reactions to stimulation takes her to her peak about 80% of the time without extra stimulation. Of course, adding nipples, anal play, sensual massage on sides or belly, and digital stimulation vaginally will kick that up to about 95%.

That last 5% are times when she just needs a good hard fucking to get off!

 

I love going down on a women. But my gf does not like it either. As Khione and Curio said she is just not into it. But she is very willing to let me give it a try on all fronts. She would rather skip the oral and get right to it. However she likes to give oral.... So I'm glad to hear other women feel the same way..

 

I'm just gonna mix it up here and say that no oral = no sex. I know the thread is about those who aren't into it but I'm just gonna buck the trend and say that I absolutely love it and I'm not afraid to admit that I'm rather selfish about it. Truth be told, my boyfriend is much happier to give than receive himself but I enjoy giving back...just not as much as I like receiving.

 

I like giving, but not receiving and I'm a guy. But I've only done it once, so I'm not sure if she enjoyed it or not. But I loved doing it. I just don't like getting a bj. Just doesn't stimulate me.

 

It's actually more difficult for me to come without recieving oral, so I need to have a guy who's all for it. I'm willing to do the same but I don't want it to end that way for him.

 

Communicate, communicate, communicate...

I never used to like it much at all (pre then-BF, now-Husband)and was more into giving. I didn't know why I didn't like it, I just didn't. Well, my Husband wouldn't accept "I dunno, I just don't" for an answer, and I finally realized/admitted it was because it made me feel like I was in control, and that is not what makes me hot--I like/love/need to feel dominated.

So. He took care of *that*, and I have to say that I can have a dozen orgasms (big, small) when he eats my pussy. I no longer "labor under the silly little delusion I am in control...about anything," as he says.

You might have to dig a little deeper. Using your mind--then your tongue.

Good sex is ALL about communication...technique is secondary.

TTFN--it's my bath time!

 

I agree some some of the other, it's a pretty boring event for myself. I get more turned on by giving head

 

Yea, I don't care for it either. Doesn't really get me going. Let me suck that cock.

 

I'm not that into eating puSSY unless I'm super horny. I always do tho cuz I'm wanna satisfy the old lady. I fantisy bout eating other chicks out tho when I'm lusting. My dad once told me when I was like 14 and had my 1st GF- The pussy is always greener on the other side...o

 

As one who would rather eat pussy than fuck it, I married a woman who hated the act. However, that being said, she was raised rather puritanical in all sexual aspects so my entire married sexlife was rather drab. Other women I have been with over the years are about 50/50 divided regarding the issue. It does seem like the aid of a vibrator or other toy seems to drive their reaction better. For me one of the neatest things was for a woman to blow her load while I was eating her. She blew so hard I coughed and gagged a little; totally wasn't expecting that and neither was she. It was her first squirt (but not her last).