Hi there, been a while since I came to this forum.
As should be obvious, I have a question guys... and a plea of help

Im 20, and Ive been dating my current GF for two years. Other than some childish exploration we were both virgins when we met... and after two years of having sex, I still experience premature ejaculation 99% of the time.

What the hell is wrong with me?
I don't even last that long when Im masturbating, too. Im thinking it was from all those years as a kid trying to cum as fast as I could so I wouldnt get caught... But now its became a curse I want to reverse!

Tips?

 

Do NOT believe the myth of "premature" ejaculation as it is a foul trick played on a male's mind all because we possess a natural ability to be efficient with time and the ladies are super jealous!

This ejaculation of yours is "premature" for whom, exactly? If you've blown out a nice load, sounds like you nailed it to me. Maybe somebody else in the scenario might be a little tardy, hmmmm? You have a lot of things to do and ~BAM!~ you just crossed another one off your list. Tell her to prep a little better - get 97% of the way there - is this all your responsibility somehow . . . I think not!

Be strong - you represent all of mankind to your girlfriend - don't fuck it up!

 

Not sure if troll, but Ill answer anyway...

Believe me, its premature. I can last anywhere from three minutes to three seconds, and it is both a bother for her and for me. An orgasm at three seconds of penetration isnt nearly as powerful as a full blown one thats being built for hours.

I definitely need to resolve this.

 

I know that feel bro *hug*

 

Have you tried using a rubber.

It can deaden the pleasure a little?

 

a solution, that worked for me

hi, first of all: nothing is wrong with you, it´s all natural to cum early. Imagine an animal in the wilderness fucking for hours, the both lovers whould have been eaten before cumming, lol and the animal would have gone extinct:excited:

but for the solution: try masturbating whithout cumming, just stop before the climax,and then continue, do this over and over for like 15min. (cum if you like then, i prefer not to.) This will first help you to register the moment you cum, and eventually teach you, how to stop. (contracting, and relaxing the right muscles)

can be hard at first, but just try until it works.

also, after doing this on a regular base, it will lower the sensivety of your penis, and so help you to last longer. (can take a few weeks to a few month, it woun´t come over night, sorry)
doing this: try to stimulate your genitals as much as possible (use lube and stuff),

It´s hard to explain this more in to detail, but you´l find out yourself while trying.

Greetings
C

Ps: Congratulations, making the first sexual experiences for both partners in a long time relationship, based on trust and love, will give you both self-confidence, for the rest of your (sex)live, no matter what comes after school or collage.

 

Rest your heart. 99% of men are pre mature ejaculators.

 

I have tried the start and stop techinique, but while ti at first seems like its working, if only slightly, after a while I go back to normal. But I'll keep trying, and I've never really tried to do it without actually cumming. That might improve my training even more, though the blue balls will be a pain.

Thanks for that!


@Treen: Is that so? I can honestly hardly believe that.

 

Try to do other things while having sex, not only penetrating: "in-out-in-out-in-out". Stop a few moments, kiss her neck, grab her boobs, say naughty things in her ears, finger her a little, etc. Don't just go and have the in and out movements.

 

There is a thing called the Asian Method, which strengthens the muscle beneath the penis. Porn stars use it for extra staying power. It works as long as you keep up with the exercises. If you'd like details, PM me.

 

try to jerk off the day before, whenever i do it takes me forever to cum