It is not if the woman will do something but HOW she gets there. Even if it is nothing too extreme.

I can desribe it as an opening of a flower. It is always magical, no matter the kind of flower.

For that reason I can never go to a prostitute. The "HOW" is out of the question, even if she really tries. No flowers there.

 

If you're asking about a particular guy with whom you intend to have an enduring relationship, then to make it enduring, you need to share your kinky side and encourage him to do the same. Most guys have 'em, though they don't want you to know.

My wife is awesome! She loves anal, light bondage, and has fantasized about licking pussy. I like anal (had some unexpected anal earlier this week ) and would love to watch her with a woman and enjoy tying her up and playing with her relatively helpless body until she convulses uncontrollably. But it was only through communication that we got to this point. Prior experiences had left me wary of sharing, particularly anything that may be perceived as degrading to a woman. It was only through much communication and some therapy that we got to this very happy place.

If your guy isn't willing to share and trust in you, then you may have a less than satisfying relationship with him in the long term. But you may choose other elements of his personality that make it all worth while. I got incredible lucky as my wife and I laugh a lot, enjoy similar foods and great wine, movies, politics, and love making / sex.

Good luck sorting it out!

 

Unfortunately, guys like this ex of yours make lots of girls/women feel insecure when it comes to having oral or anal sex...

I cannot even remember how many women, after sucking my dick for the first time, were saying: "Now you probably won't kiss me no more, after seeing what I've been doing to you!'...

Make him lay on his back, and start kissing him on his mouth, than, slowly, go to his neck, chest, belly, lick his belly button for a while.
From time to time, look into his eyes.
While you are kissing his belly, if he starts raising his hips, or even pushes your head lower, than be sure that THAT is a sign that he won't mind if you suck his dick.

Anyway, after touching his dick with your mouth or only tongue, don't go up again to kiss him on his mouth!
Unfortunately, I know some men who would freak out if you try that!

 

Oh no we do all of those things I gave him throat underwater the other day..... I just don't know how to ask him to tie me up, or really dominate he does kinda but not like I would like.

 

just tell him thats what you want most guys will play along

 

Well done

No. I respect a woman for wanting what they want they are strong willed women,you only get one life, live it how you want. X

 

Every guy wants a lady by day but a freak in the sheets!

 

I think being a freak in bed is a great thing as long as he is the only who receives it. There is nothing wrong with a woman whom likes to please her man!!

 

try easin into it. eventually he will want to fuck you the way u want

 

I like a lady on the street and a freak in the bed:excited: