how do i tell my wife her blowjobs aren't that great and how do i teach her to do them better? i always do my best at oral and she is always surprised but she needs to get better. any recommendations?

 

does she watch porn of any kind,if she does you could find a good video with blowjobs in it and suggest you watch it together? think if you come out and say "darling,you suck at blow jobs" you may not be getting any more so tread lightly,what is it about how she does it that is lacking or wrong,does she go at it like a bull in a china shop (bit rough) perhaps you could suggest a few thing while shes down ther?.mag.

 

well she does give the good old college try. she is really good about trying to deepthroat but she has a problem doing that. lots of time i just feel her teeth on the tip of my dick. its actually kind of funny. it's like i am getting a bj from a virgin. i think maybe that you are right and she hasn't seen a good porn where a bj was given properly. usually if we watch porn together its lesbian porn. thats a good idea though and i may put that into practice today. thanks.

 

Most women seem to be afraid to use their tongue.

 

"Honey, your sister sucks it like <this>, and I REALLY like that a lot better than how you do it"

 

Good oral sex is the spice of life

Find a very descriptive story, something to light your fantasy. Pick the time, after you have her mildly arouses, and suggest reading it together.

 

Put her on here. I'll talk to her.

 

I am sure Kimiko will confirm this. She will be much more enthusiastic if you tell her how pretty she looks with her mouth full of you.

Oh yes and tell her to look you in the eye!!

thinskin

 

Excellent advice.

As far as the teeth go, there's really no way around it -- someone has to tell her that teeth scraping against penile flesh is a no-no. But there are subtle ways to deal with the issue. Maybe you should tell her that you love the feeling of just her lips and tongue on your cock. You know, kind of accentuate the positive.

And don't get too hung up on the deep throat thing. No matter what you see in porn videos, most women can't do it, or it takes them a lot of time to LEARN how to do it. Let her focus her attention on the head of your cock...it's nice and sensitive, n'est-ce pas?

 

When she is goin down on you. When she does something that feels good just have her keep doing that. Maybe she will get into the habbit of doing that and not revert into her bad ways.

 

just tell her what you want, or direct her to do what you want, and be really positive when it's what you want.

not hard. no need to be mean

 

I think you should just say to her that her oral skills need work. Do it in a polite and gentle way, Don't come off as an asshole. If I had a partner who did something sexually that I didn't like then I would say something in a polite way and I would expect the same from them.

 

i would tell her to watch some good blowjob vids maybe?

 

Just be glad she still wants to give you one. Often after you get married they loose interest in giving blowjobs

 

he has a point, i know plenty of girls that won't even go there.

 

there are some good instrutional video out there, rent buy one and have her watch it. Take her finger and suck it like you want your cock sucked. Tell her to copy it.

 

I think if you show your wife porn and suggest that she try to mimic that you're likely to end up with laughter coming your way.

I think that the best way to do this is gently and very carefully. The best lessons I ever got on this were full of remarks like "exactly like that" "mm... it's great when you suck" "yes, use your tongue on..." just encouragement full of tiny directions.

Or adopt my strategy: I went out with a guy who was shit at oral sex. I didn't know how to give him better directions. So I gave him a massage. And while I was rubbing my hands on his back I leaned down pressed my lips against his ear and told him how wild it drove me when he went down on me. Full of nice strong descriptors... "your tongue flicking my clit while your fingers work my pussy..." on and on and on. I carried on my dirty talk about other things too, but I essentially gave him a "how to" lesson verbally. He went down on me straight after, things were better, enabling me to give some of those "mmm... just like that" cues. Orgasm success....

 

I think if you show your wife porn and suggest that she try to mimic that you're likely to end up with laughter coming your way.

I think that the best way to do this is gently and very carefully. The best lessons I ever got on this were full of remarks like "exactly like that" "mm... it's great when you suck" "yes, use your tongue on..." just encouragement full of tiny directions.

Or adopt my strategy: I went out with a guy who was shit at oral sex. I didn't know how to give him better directions. So I gave him a massage. And while I was rubbing my hands on his back I leaned down pressed my lips against his ear and told him how wild it drove me when he went down on me. Full of nice strong descriptors... "your tongue flicking my clit while your fingers work my pussy..." on and on and on. I carried on my dirty talk about other things too, but I essentially gave him a "how to" lesson verbally. He went down on me straight after, things were better, enabling me to give some of those "mmm... just like that" cues. Orgasm success....

 

First off "suggesting to her" that she learn better skills might just put her off from giving them to you at all. However, if she knows you frequent this site, look over this post of mine and find something in it which she ALREADY does.....Then ask her if she read it somewhere as you noticed she does the same thing. That will get her to read it, and perhaps try a few other things out.

https://forum.xnxx.com/showthread.php?t=53249&highlight=minute

Hush......an alias

 

There is a video in this site ” How to give a world class blow job” watched it with my gf and she has improved significantly. Very professionally done and not a bore to watch