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  1. asmshufty

    asmshufty Newcumer

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    I'm 23, normal guy. But it seriously takes me forever to get off. And lately even after fucking my fiancee for an hour, i'm just not anywhere close to cumming. It makes her feel like something is wrong with her. And even when I do cum its only by my own hand... so fucking frustrating. Anyone else in a similar situation?
     
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  2. sexomaniac

    sexomaniac Porno Junky

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    During that time you are fucking her, what is going through your mind? Any thoughts?

    Just curious. :kiss::rose:
     
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  3. voicesct

    voicesct Porn Surfer

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    I once had a similar problem with a girl I loved but deep down knew I wasn't attracted to anymore not suggesting that's the problem though could also be stress induced from work or out of work stuff maybe like the other person said could be about thoughts overthinking etc.
     
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  4. bongzilla

    bongzilla Porn Star

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    Dude a lot of dudes are like that I would say I am like like that 70% of the time, I guess because I know what I like and how.
     
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  5. mrwhite480

    mrwhite480 Sex Machine

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    are you attracted to her?
     
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  6. rowdy3128

    rowdy3128 Porn Star

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    simple it's like every thing....some cum sooner and some cum later..... there is aways someone better and someone worse at anything..........keep it up and have fun............
     
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  7. Druidoak

    Druidoak Porn Star

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    Are you on any meds? Some meds can cause your problem, I know my anti-depresant did.
     
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  8. Chris665

    Chris665 Newcumer

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    Just curious as to how much you jerk off? I'm in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend and find that if I get too used to jerking off for a week or so, it can take me a long time to cum when we do get to have sex. If I cut down on masturbation a day or two before I know we're going to see each other (which can be tough lol), I find that generally I cum a lot quicker, usually within about 15 minutes or so.

    And as another poster asked, what is going through your mind during sex? Thoughts can definitely sometimes hinder the ability to cum.
     
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  9. asmshufty

    asmshufty Newcumer

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    Thanks for the replies everyone. I don't know that I have anything going on in my head at all actually... other than wow this feels good. And my anti-depressants definitely did that when I took them before, although I'm not taking them now. Could there be some kind of residual damage or some shit? And I'm definitely attracted to her. And like another poster said, it being a long distance relationship I get too used to my hand. I'm flying up to see her next week, so no more jerkin off, and we'll see how that goes.
    Thanks for the help.
     
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  10. josefpret

    josefpret Newcumer

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    Wish it would happen to me!!!
     
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  11. Caticus

    Caticus Porn Surfer

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    maybe try mixing things up with different positions. Some work better than others. Best of luck anyhow :)
     
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  12. cockandload

    cockandload Newcumer

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    If I was a salesman of supposedly performance enhancing and making-you-last-longer substances, I would find this discussion extremely irritating.
     
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