I'm assuming everyone uses condoms when they have casual sex. It seems that many of you do not. Is it worth the risk? Or do you trust the other partner he/she is being honest about their health? Can you tell physically if they are not? Just wondering before I enter into the unknown Lol

 

Fuck no dude, assume everyone is dirty and ALWAYS cover that rod, whether your fucking, or getting fucked.

And if your the bottom always bring your own condoms and lube, and you take it out of pack and roll it down his dick.

People lie like a mother fucker.

 

Always wear a condom unless they can provide medical paperwork stating they are clean and on birth control. But after needing a shot from a navy docs magic needle once in SE Asia I always wear one unless I'm in a commited relationship.

 

Serious answer - you can't tell anyone's medical status by looks alone. Assume the worst and always wear a condom/ have your partner wear one.

Non-serious answer - hell yes, if his dick has sores/spots/discharge ( other than cum at the right time)/ rashes.... I wouldn't even bothering with a condom. Tell him hell no to anything, and run.

 

Stds are not easy to get. Aids is even harder to contract. The fear of these stds makes it popular in our fearful minds but the truth is not that many people have these... in the usa anyways.

Another thing is that most people with serious stds are not sexually adventuring and/or looking to spread the gift. The incubation period for many stds is not very long, and once they know they have it, sex is the last thing they want to do.

This leaves only one category. The ones who very recently contracted an std and don't know they have it. So your chances would be: meeting someone who just had sex and contracted an std and doesnt know and is within 3-4 weeks of the std incubation period. The chances are slim if you avoid some basic health hygiene.

1. If you know this person is a player. Be wary
2. If they are bisexual. Be wary. They just improved their sexual partner ratio from 50 percent(one gender) to 100 percent (two genders)
3. The black community has real issues with stds and aids. Not all, just the guys/ladies who can be found at the strip joint and are under drug and alchohol influence a lot of the time.
4. Weak souls and spirits. These are the people who don't care for themselves enough and engage in reckless sexual behavior. They are the ones that get taken advantage of and are abused sexually as adults. For example, the girl at the bar that everyone has had. You can't miss them, they are ussually low energy and addicted to drugs.

Its good to learn who you are sleeping with before going without a condom. You don't need to keep a sock on it all the time. When you are comfortable that the person isn't promiscous and leads a healthy life you can go without.

 

Surprised!

I'm amazed that a 59 yo man (according to your public profile) cannot tell when a man can go bare back or not!...
Where have you been living your life until now?!?

 

No, you definitely cannot tell. Always wrap it before you tap it unless you know the person really well. Get annual checkups and if you notice ANYTHING unusual (oder, discharge, lesions, ect.) Then see the doc immediately!

 

I think your sadly mistaken if you think people in the U.S. don't have S.T.D.'s http://www.cdc.gov/std/ it's statements like that that'll get you infected! As it's been said,"ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!"

 

+ 1

And not only in the US!

 

It's true

I met my wife when I was 15, we got married at 19. NO SHE WAS NOT PREGNANT. I have little experience in this arena, that's why I'm asking.
Believe it or not.

 

"A WISE MAN HAS MORE QUESTIONS THAN ANSWERS!" Hope your getting the right answers we've been known to have some pretty wise people here?

 

What planet are you on or drug are you doing, because your out there.

 

Respect

Its most of you that are out of here. I do not treat women like prices of meat and I enjoyed my relationship and my family. What do you have to show for the time you have been here? Besides your cock, incase you don't know every guy has one, I guess you do not know how to use it, maybe you could have a steady girl and not have to use a condom when you go for a ride. How does rubber taste anyways.

 

Lol, I'm from the planet that would not sleep with anyone on this forum unless I had a condom.

People believe that they are so unlucky that even a 1 percent chance of contracting an std is a sure sign that they will get something. For example, I took an std and aids test for a girl once. She did the same. The results were clear for both of us but she read the fineprint of the testing disclaimer and truly believed that our hiv test was not enough to know if we really had it. I told her I was not going to take another test , and she took this as some kind of admission of sickness. I was comfortable with her results so I ate her pussy all night without giving her any dick. She finally conceded and gave me that bare pussy and asshole.Here I am today at 34, std free and never having contracted any std. I suppose you'd say I'm lucky but the statistics are in my favor so its not luck. I don't do drugs, am hetero, and don't sleep with everything I see.

The rules are simple.
1.Don't mess with people who have drug habits and addictions.
2. Don't mess with bisexuals or gays
3. Don't be promiscuos and don't mess with promiscous.

If you aren't sure about any of these things then keep the condom on. If your one of these, always use a condom.

No offense to bi's or gays, I love you guys/gals, and I'm sure the upper echelon of your world is a safe and drug free healthy side.

 

I agree, that`s just scary what he posted!
How I stayed STD free?
I always, always, always use a condom, and it's always one I brought the first time. A condom that has been in a wallet could have holes, or be expired and break, where ones you've bought you know how old they are and kept them somewhere safe, I would hope.

Start with the goddamn lights on!
When you meet the person, check them out. Herpes and genital warts can be as small as pinpricks, or a very fine rash, bad smells can also mean they have a yeast infection or other transferable infection. Men get those too! That's how I caught my ex's cheating on me, they'd pick up a yeast infection from some dirty woman and bring it home.
I never let guys go down on me, I gave head with a condom, and I changed it before we had sex. Teeth can open miniscule holes in the condom, AND your skin, which is where most STD's come from, a small wound that you aren't aware you have. So that means no Anal sex till they bring home a new paper showing thier STD free, because vigorous anal can cause miniscule tears.

Also, semi-new information, you can get throat and mouth cancer not from smoking...but from oral sex if your partner has HPV. So ask your doctor about those shots and GET THEM! Out of 10 people that I know well enough to talk about this, 7 women have had cervical cancer, and one man in my family had throat cancer. That's an 8 out of 10 chance of catching HPV.