So whenever my gf and I hook up she can never get me off not by blowing me not by giving me a hand job not even sex. I can just last for ever when I'm with her. I cum every time when I masterbate but never when it's her. I don't understand why.

 

google 'delayed ejaculation'

 

This is something you might want to talk about with her if yu care about her. She may be feeling there's a problem with her, when the problem is probably more centered around you.

 

Get her to do the really kinky stuff you want to do before having this talk with her.

Just saying.

 

It's psychological disorder.. consult your psychiatrist..

 

+1 , i had the same problem for over a year with different partners, counselling helps

 

It is possible that you're desensitised to the erotic sensations of sex because you masturbate and have grown used to the feeling of your hand as opposed to her cunt.

Then again, see a psychiatrist too. Sure. Why not. It certainly can't hurt

 

thanks

I had posted a topic about like this earlier today, this helps a bit. I will have to talk to the gf about it, but mine does not happen all the time.

 

This happened with my ex-girlfriend. She tried really hard but she couldn't get me off. We dated for about six months and not once did she get me to cum. It wasn't that I found her unattractive or that she was really bad, it's just for some reason when we were together I couldn't cum

She took this really personally. She thought I didn't like our time together or thought she was unattractive. I tried to explain it to her but she just kept getting more upset. I ended up lying to her and telling her that I had a very low sperm count and that I had cum most the times we had sex.

 

I guarantee you she is thinking its her. If she is someone you care about it might be a good idea to be open and honest with her about it. Women get a little freaked out over stuff like this and assume the worst about themselves. Oh and unless she is super naive she knows you masturbate. If you can't talk about it with her she may no be worth keeping around and if that's the case maybe it is her! Hope it all works out for you!

 

maybe its just gone abit stale sexually, you two need to try new things to get the motor running, before having sex try to get her do do some things to get the motion going.

you need your mind and body flowing with excitement, get her to play with herself or try abit of role play like pretending to meet her in a bar and picking her up for a one nighter.

or get her to dress in a police or nurses uniform or do it somewhere unusual, outside or in a toilet, maybe the fear of getting caught might help.

try new things

 

Keep on MASTURBATING and, when the time comes that you don't have an erection in front of a cunt, just ask yourself why!...

So... you have a girl, but you masturbate...
STUPID! REALLY STUPID!!!

And I was wondering why so many girls came to me, again and again, just because I was FUCKING them!...

 

Thats what i was thinking too.