Hello.

I post this because I'm a bit curious. Whores are women and humans, obviously, and they can eat, drink, feel and so on. But is it possible that a whore falls in love with one of her, maybe tens, clients?

What do you think?

 

Great you mentioned it, I mean damn its really hard to remember that prostitutes are human. And the even eat!

Nothing is impossible, some things are just somewhat unlikely when you are not the star of "Pretty Woman"

 

Sure they could. They are people like everyone else.

(as long as the client has enough money...)

 

Well why not rephrase that to be balanced and fair? Here, let me give it a shot...

I post this because I'm a bit curious. Whores are women and humans, obviously, and they can eat, drink, feel and so on. But is it possible that a whore falls in love with one of her, maybe tens, desperate pathetic Johns?

There we go, now that we're talking apples to apples fact of the matter is for 99.9% of all sex workers be they escorts, dancers, porn actresses, etc., work is work and is not the same thing as being intimate with someone you care about.

Just like all people they can "turn-off" the emotional aspects of it, and most do as frankly just like any non-sex working gal the thought of their boyfriends or whatever patronizing sex workers is a turn off to them. Think about it, if a guy meets with you as an escort, who's to say once you hook up with him he might not go out seeing other escorts. Same same for dancers, porn actresses and so on.

Most sex workers tend to keep their work and personal lives VERY seperate....IOW, they don't go out to find clients in their personal sphere, nor do they find lovers in their professional sphere.

Can there be exceptions? Sure, yet just like any exception to any rule it would be rare.

Hush......an alias

 

Well said.

 

Maybe you could try buying her for a whole week? Take her to a polo match, then go get her in a white limousine?

 

Weren't you the same person that talked about how amazingly clean, rich, well hung, and non-desperate clients were?

Wait, nevermind, I don't really care about your response.

On topic: I'm sure there have been whores that have fallen in love with clients but most are already in love with their abusive pimps.

 

Maybe you should learn how to comprehend before you begin making fuckwitted posts.....It's really not that difficult, you use your brain.

https://forum.xnxx.com/showthread.php?p=5307802#post5307802

Back on topic......Ya'think so huh? Tell us of all the "whores" you know that have confided in you their emotional interests. Elucidate upon the vast knowledge you have accumulated on the subject and educate the rest of us.

Hush......an alias

 

Well it happened in Pretty Woman but outside of Hollywood..mmm.. Not so sure. It is possible I suppose but I think probably highly unlikely.

The whole dynamics probably conspire against that being a possibility

 

I'm sure it's possible. Just like any person could potentially fall for a client.
Would it happen often? No.

 

I should apologize. I'm sorry your mindless drivel blended into the other mindless drivel of that thread. No seriously, my mistake, I apologize. But, did you really just edit my post in your response? That was some grade school level shit.

Yes, I do think that some (you should know that some doesn't have some minimum value before it counts as some, so even if only one whore ever has ever fallen for a client then my statement is factual, did that eludicate things enough for you?) whores out there have in fact fallen in love with one of their clients but that most (most being a simple majority) are in love with (or should I say co-dependant with delusions of love) their abusive pimps.

Let's see, what whores have I known. Did you want names? No, that would be against site rules. I've personally known at least three escorts, I met them through my friends that work at the one of the Dollhouses in Central Texas.

Out of those three one of them married her client and left the escort business (though she continued to strip), but I think that counts as she was an escort with him as a when she fell in love. Another had to stop seeing one of her regulars because she was getting feelings for him, but that one may not count in your book. The last never admitted any feelings of love for any of her clients.
So from purely anecdotal evidence I know at least one whore that fell in love with a client.

Do I need to support my point that most whores are in love with their pimp? If so I'll just point to the research done by various agencies that show that many street-level whores were recruited/pushed into the business by boyfriends. And I've seen a few documentaries on pimps and whores were the whore talks about loving their pimp. Now, granted the whores might have been lying about loving their pimps but I'll just have to accept their interviews at face value.

You also mentioned other sex workers, like strippers and pornstars. And how most of them looked for love outside their professional circle, just to eludicate I'm including clients in that circle do to the nature of the business. And I'm just going to have to call bullshit on that statement. You are either truly ignorant of the facts or being intellectually dishonest.

Of all the strippers I've known, and there have been quite a few. Only one was with a man that didn't meet her while she was stripping. The straight ones were either with a client, the owner of the club, or the bouncer. The lesbians were either with fellow strippers, the bartender, or the topless waitress. Now if you don't believe me you could always find a copy of those HBO shows/specials about that stripclub. It showed that many of the strippers were involved with the people they met at the club.

As for pornstars, so many of them are in relationships, including marriage, with each other as to make your statment laughable.
Hope that cleared things up for you.

 

*Biting knuckle trying really hard not to give in to sarcasm*

I don't know even where to begin with this, but since I can't find anything nice to say I wont say anything at all. Instead:

¿Hola cómo estas? ¿Cómo está el tiempo en España? Tienes una buena dia.

 

i beleive so..especially if she sees the guy on a regular basis

 

Are you kidding? Whores? Pimps? Strippers?......Your very verbage explains your ignorance of the industry and of the individuals, but what say we count them up......3 escorts you "met" through a friend, seen documentaries, points to research by "various" agencies (though that's the extent of that), HBO TV shows, and dancers you again "met" most likely as a patron.

Hmmmmm.....

Okay, let me consider what I might know....Lets see, 19 years, 365 days a year working as an escort, dancer, exotic/erotic performer, some low budget porn, round the world, in more countries then you can name. I have personally spent time with on a personal level hundreds+ of the same, and on a professional level thousands. The last three years before I retired even owning two of my own houses (brothels to you)......Since retiring I am still in contact with hundreds of current and former sex workers, still approached to help organize and build up new businesses due to my experience in the industry, and regularly entertain more sex workers in a year, then you will see in your lifetime.

Past that, oddly, having worked in the industry my entire working career, being female, and meeting with these people as friends on personal social levels they "might" just tend to be a tad more upfront and honest with me then some stranger, a male, a patron, who they just "met". Lastly, to simply understand my own life experience I have performed more research on the varied subject of the adult entertainment industry, forced slavery and sex work then most PhD's.


Well I guess you must know more then I as I tend to not watch the in depth educational programs HBO and the like tend to offer.......

Now tell me again......

Hush......an alias

 

No

No they can't. They are not like normal people. They have no feelings. They are dead inside. Just like porn stars. Most of them are fucked up on drugs or alcohol. When a woman becomes a whore, she agrees to give up her dignity and humanity. She can't allow herself to date or fall in love. She must remain single, unloved and alone for the rest of her life. A whore will never fall in love with a client. A client can never love a whore. It's tragic, but that's the price a woman must pay to sell her body to strange men. If a whore ever dares to fall in love, she will be severely beaten by her pimp or madame. That is how it must be. Whore love is forbidden love.

 

I will tell you if the occasion rises to leave the business without a coffin, sure...but reality must be faced. Are you in love with the whore and needing us to tell you it will be alright. Facing up to falling in love with the whore will save you a lot of grief in the end. Most first seem like love, but face this, a hooker will tend to migrate to what they know.

 

:-~ Oh brother....:-~

Hush.....an alias

 

Julia did...So Yes they Can.....

 

No, I'm not kidding. Yes, whore, a person that exchanges sex for money. Yes, pimps, men that exploit whores for monetary gain in exchange for "protection" and are often abusive. Yes, Strippers, I know this is difficult to grasp but not all strippers out there feel the need to call themselves exotic dancers. And quite frankly most of the girls working these days can't be considered dancers with the piss poor performances I've seen. The title Strippers fits perfectly.

If it makes you feel better I also refuse to call garbage men "waste collectors" or whatever other silly title they're trying to be referred to at the moment.

Yes, three escorts that I met through a friend. There's no need to put quotes around the word. See here's how I met them

Kat: "Ryan this is Stacey, Scarlett, and Mandy. Ladies this is Ryan, he'll be joining us tonight."

Ladies: "Hi Ryan"

Me: "Hello ladies"

Seems like a pretty normal meeting to me.

Actually, I met Kat in a college computer course, Networking Essentials I believe. But I'm not sure if it was the Microsoft Net. Essentials course or the Novell Net. Essentials course. You see Kat was a stripper that was actually working her way through college, cliche I know but whatever. After we got to know each other we started dating. I met most of her friends (strippers and their SOs, some of her family, and a few people from college), including the three ladies above at her birthday party.

I got to know all of them pretty damn well. And I did in fact see many of them dance. But I met them long before I ever slipped greenback into any of their g-strings.

I snipped the rest of your post because if you aren't going to give respect to my personal obsevations I see no reason to respect or consider yours.

And since neither of us are going to respect or consider each others arguments there's no need to waste anymore of either of our time.

Good day.

 

Sure it's possible, the problem would arise if she wanted to pursue it, if person she chose was single (clients are usually married), the fact of what she does for a living and his take on it for a long term situation. She'd probably have to separate from her job to approach him since most men would have a hard time believing her sincerity, I couldn't fall in love with a whore or porno star! (Too much baggage!)