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    New users on the forum won't be able to send PM untill certain criteria are met (you need to have at least 6 posts in any sub forum).

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    You can now get verified on forum.

    The way it's gonna work is that you can send me a PM with a verification picture. The picture has to contain you and forum name on piece of paper or on your body and your username or my username instead of the website name, if you prefer that.

    I need to be able to recognize you in that picture. You need to have some pictures of your self in your gallery so I can compare that picture.

    Please note that verification is completely optional and it won't give you any extra features or access. You will have a check mark (as I have now, if you want to look) and verification will only mean that you are who you say you are.

    You may not use a fake pictures for verification. If you try to verify your account with a fake picture or someone else picture, or just spam me with fake pictures, you will get Banned!

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  1. cessna123

    cessna123 Amateur

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    The humorous approach!

    Smile and if she smiles back, say "Do you know your panties are coming down?"
    If she checks and says "No they aren't"
    you reply with a cheeky grin -
    "Yes they are, I've just decided!"

    It has worked for me.
     
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  2. Supersoftball

    Supersoftball Porno Junky

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    One foot in front of the other.....No different then approaching a girl....
     
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  3. babblefunk

    babblefunk Porn Star

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    Don't be a pussy. You're a male and presumably not a billionaire or Brad Pitt. You're gonna hear no more than yes. Who gives a shit. Fortune favors the hold.
     
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  4. whopluv

    whopluv Lucky Lover

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    carefully. :)
     
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  5. Milo Cronos

    Milo Cronos The Sexual Intellectual

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    You lack confidence and practice that you'll never get unless you start socializing inside of a circle you feel most comfortable in clubs or places for people into (Fill in your hobby or interest here) Socializing is the only cure for shyness and can lead you to feel more confident so, maybe you'll feel easier in the future approaching women like you spoke of?
     
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  6. gilgamesh922

    gilgamesh922 Sex Lover

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    Thank the recent posters for very refreshing advice! See, my "circles" only contain about 3-5 people at any given time, most of them dudes. I don't get out too much.

    Bold huh? It's so crazy it might...just...work!
     
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  7. noboat

    noboat Porn Star

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    Take her to the zoo.
     
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  8. Zapgaze

    Zapgaze Porn Surfer

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    He was making an Arrested Development reference. Good on him, boo on you for talking about Mae Whitman and not getting that! *Back into hiding*
     
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  9. gilgamesh922

    gilgamesh922 Sex Lover

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    :(I don't have cable.....:(:(
     
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  10. pi_princess

    pi_princess Amateur

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    She plays the character Ann in Arrested Development and that's a running joke. I have nothing against Mae Whitman. I think she's cute and a good actress. I was merely making an Arrested Development reference because I am a dork.

    I see some one else pointed it out. XD
    The show is instant on netflix. It's a good show that's no longer running because FOX is dumb. New netflix season soon. XD
    (I'd also like to point out that I'm female)
     
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  11. gilgamesh922

    gilgamesh922 Sex Lover

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    I know she was on Arrested Development, I've just never watched it. I caught one episode one on IFC, but I think i missed the context.
     
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  12. Ryan692002

    Ryan692002 Sex Machine

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    Be clean, and don't fucking bathe in cologne or that nasty body spray shit. In fact if you have a female friend ask her to go shopping with you and see what soaps smell best to her. Find a hair style that suits your hair type, a professional hair stylist can help you there. If you have facial hair then make sure it suits your face and is properly groomed.

    Be yourself when approaching women. You seem to be looking for an actual relationship so finding someone that accepts you for you is going to leave you happier in the long run, though the short term may be a bit dry.

    Stop worrying about rejection. You've got absolutely NOTHING to lose. Oh no random girl #247 didn't want to go out with me, I'll never be able to... What? You weren't seeing her before and now you still aren't seing her. In fact you've gained something. You've gained the knowledge that you don't need to worry about her opinion of you anymore than you worry about the opinions any other random person has about you.

    Don't become too invested in any one romantic target. There are a lot of fish in the sea and you don't go looking to catch one specific fish when you go fishing, right?

    The best way to find potential mates is to involve yourself with hobbies, that you enjoy doing, that get you around groups. Or try something new like a cooking class or pottery or dancing.
     
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