I have never once dated anyone who was completely sane (at bare minimal they were bipolar) and of those two out of 3 of my longest relationships ever were schizophrenic (hearing and seeing things) Most of my relationships were with girls that most guys in my town wouldn't date (shallow guys and big gals) (I love me a big girl) But to top it all off I've only had sex (vaginal penitration not 4 play) once when I was 16.... I'm 22 now!


It gets worse, I've not had anything other then my own hand and some toys (including a mold of sasha grey) in 2 years... TWO FUCKING YEARS OF BLUEBALLS!!!!

So my question is WTF am I coming across too nice? (I always show allot of confidence but in a polite way)

Am I better of walking up and saying some peice of verbal shit like:
"damn your hot wanna head to my place"

rather then my usual:
"Hey I can't help but notice how good you look today, but you also look bored how about I treat you to lunch"

Because 90% of the time I get a flat out lie about having a boyfriend already or not having the time....

the other 10% they do have a boyfriend but he treats her like shit!

WTF????

 

maybe people are too fucking lazy to read that... let me spell it out.

I HAVE TWO FUCKING YEARS OF BUILT UP BLUE BALLS AND KEEP GETTING COCK-BLOCKED AND OR FRIEND ZONED!!! WTF DO I DO????


thank you.

 

The Approach
Stop using rehearsed lines, women can detect them a mile away and they only "work" if she's already interested.

Requesting further information.
So once you get them to go to lunch how do you behave?

How do you THINK you're letting them know you are interested in them sexually?

Are you adjusting your approach depending on the woman's personality or are you just going "by the book"?

 

Where are you looking?

Try different places, not just "the bar scene". Go to laundromats, book stores ( if there are any left), coffee houses, etc. Strike up conversations with no pressure.

You claim you like larger women, maybe they are insecure and don't want to be a punch line. So you have to tread carefully and slowly making sure they realize you're being serious and are genuinely interested in them physically and mentally.

Good Luck

 

1. that was only one example the real lines are very situational and are only rehearsed in my head like a minute before I approach her. (or less.)

2. That has yet to happen in you guessed it 2 years, and once we start dating its all smooth.

3. I feel like I'm being direct open and honest right out the gate with no messing around.

4. Yes every time.

N.E.: Local small business like bagel shops and corner stores.

 

No. You aren't going to blame the guy for this one. Not wholly. A woman gets treated as badly as she allows herself to be. A guy will in most cases treat a woman how she encourages him to treat her. If she doesn't assert herself then he will certainly be an asshole because the woman is letting him do so.

How do you know if a woman that you've just met has a boyfriend or doesn't actually have the time like she says, but you are unable to convince her to take a ride on your cock?

 

I hate to be brutal but you are not attractive. Losing some weight will help. Shave the facial hair. You can leave the chest-hair but wax everything else.


Move away from NJ. Problem solved. Girls are too rough there...

 

Join Jenny Craig.

 

You sound like a cheese ball (with blue balls). Just say - "Hi, my name is ......, nice to meet you", with a smile on your face. At the very least this will get a conversation going and things may (or may not) develop from there, dont put pressure on yourself cheese ball, there is nothing wrong with being knocked back........cheese ball.

 

For starters do not listen to all the posts about your appearance. Men like women in all shapes, sizes and personal grooming styles, well the same is with women.

If you see someone who is attractive, try starting up a conversation about your surroundings and don't just jump into "pick up " lines. If she feels comfortable, she will respond. After talking for a while, ask if she wants to grab a cup of coffee. THEN turn the conversation towards you wanting to see her again... This is were you can start using more direct terms about wanting to see her romantically.

 

For finding a girl, that is. If you also get in shape at the same time, it's all good.

 

1 hygiene and appearance would help
2 be natural and as Much original as you can in a polite way
3 approach the girls accordingly with a slight smile and something like " hello or hey " and to where they won't feel like if your heading for the coochie right away. If you get feed back then start a conversation with something that relates to her or the sorrounding enviroment etc. After a good conversation if you feel confident ask her for her number or something like that and try not to be too direct about personal things like if she has a bf or if ages married etc.
It always helps to have good outgoing personality and sense of humor even if your bot aiming for the hook up it takes practice and time to make it part of you.
And trust me if you get turned down at least she will know that she has something that you LIKE about her good luck buddy

 

Try this.....

Next time you get a bitch, bi polar or whatever.....do this to her

http://video.xnxx.com/video728545/katja_kassin_face_fucked_throat_job_gagging_

Try and video that shit and show every other girl you meet the video. They'll think youre the man if a chick has let you own her like that......and again, throat fuck the shit outta her and the cycle continues.......

Kevvo