Hey guys,

I just can't seem to get my bf to cum with my mouth. I have made him cum with my hand and also during sex. And before you say that the problem may not be me, it is me. Other girls have made him cum from bj so it's all down to me IMO. It's really starting to affect my confidence which is actually quite low anyway.

My mouth is very small I feel and I can't fit a lot of him in. A lot of the time he lies there so quiet and I wonder if it feels good, I also can't help feeling that he's bored when I'm down there. I'll be honest and say that this is actually making me not want to do it even though I really want to make him cum with my mouth so bad.

We have talked about it and he says I slow down too much and he gets frustrated. The other night I was licking him and stopped for a second and he got frustrated and annoyed at me and then pushed me away when I tried to go back down there. It wasn't the fact that he got mad that hurt me, it was the fact that he pushed me away.

I love him with all my heart but this is really getting me down. I need some tips on how to get him to cum and how to stop myself being so scared to go down on him again after what happened. I know there are a million and one threads on oral sex but I felt like I needed to start my own.

Help.

 

Because ur in ireland im gonna assume your catholic.

Maybe he is worried that he is going to hell because of sex without marriage.
and thats why he cant cum

 

Don't give up I like my wife to deep throat me and start off slow building up the pace also she has a tight seal around my cock

 

If I wanted ridiculous answers I'd have asked for them. Neither of us are practicing Catholics so that's not the issue although I don't even know why I'm answering you.

I'm trying not to give up but it is very disheartening.

 

my girl was pretty bad at it to..her problem was she was trying to suck to hard..just relax your jaws and go

 

He didn't say I was bad at it. He said I was good at it, I just slow down at the wrong time.

 

well that answers your question..just don't stop

 

If it was that simple I wouldn't have posted the thread. I was actually looking for tips as well if you read my post. I want to be good at it, not just fine.

 

there is no tip for that..you just gotta keep going until he cums..or you can get this stuff called good head,put it on the tipof your tongue and it intensifies it

 

I guess I just have to keep going despite the sore jaws then.

Wasn't aware of that product, I'll keep it in mind, thanks.

 

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wow, i am amazed that this is a problem, i cannot imagine pushing my partner away from doing that, especially if your good.

anyway, i cannot speak for everyone as of course some men have different 'spots' and likes, but i would always say that a blowjob should mimic sex.

it should be constant, rhythmic and wet, i can imagine why he may not like you pausing, as imagine of your about to climax from penetration and he stopped.

using your tongue to start and even during head can feel amazing, some guys also love a women to use their hands, or to lick their balls. and using hands can feel like your able to take it deeper if you have a smaller mouth.

good luck, nicky x

 

just keep practicing making your jaw muscles stronger,and deep throat it,also that good head stuff only cost $15

 

He did actually apologise more than once for that but as you can imagine, it still hurts. I will admit that I don't feel very good about myself right now but my confidence is a problem anyway even before this. I'm trying not to let it get to me, it was a heat of the moment thing.

It is the pausing that is the problem. I've stopped when he was just about to cum. Thing is, I didn't know this and he was deadly silent so this makes me feel like he's bored. I never know when he's about to cum.

Thanks, I'll just keep going.

 

He should tell you so you will know not to stop that is what communication is all about and the same should apply to you while fucking to let him know in some way that he will realize that he should continue.

Keep trying I am sure things will work out for the both of youl.

 

I know exactly what you're talking about because I've had a girl who did the same thing to me. You can't be inconsistent or unreliable if that makes any sense. Everything you do should be part of giving the guy pleasure. When your jaw hurts, do something else. Stroke it and maybe even talk dirty, suck or lick on the balls or the head of the cock, etc. NEVER stop unless you're doing it as part of the pleasure-giving. Also, you should know what you're doing and what you want to do. Being unsure of yourself means it won't be good. He should be letting you know what he likes, guiding you, etc though.

By the way, our jaws hurt too when we're going to town on your pussy but we don't stop when you're about to cum because of it.

 

@ Old Man: I'll have to say that to him. I know there are other signs that would let me know he's about to cum but I'm very inexperienced so I don't know them. Thanks so much for your reply.

 

I'm only unsure of myself because of the fact that he's my first.

And I never said your jaws didn't hurt, I was trying to explain my problem as best I could and that's part of it.

But thanks for you reply.

 

If he's your first then he should be helping you learn. That's part of getting to be the first.

I never said you said our jaws didn't hurt. I'm just pointing out to the women who act like they're the only ones who go through pain to give pleasure that we get the same jaw pain when going down on them.

Np.

 

Okay but I'm not one of those women, just pointing that out. He's made me cum countless times and I actually feel guilty that I can't do this.