My wife gave birth 3 weeks ago and we need help losing baby bump and getting back to active sex I'm ready and wife is not and keeps saying will sort me out but hasn't help

 

Ask for a blow job. I heard it's somehting like 6 weeks before women can have sex after pregnancy.

 

Yes it's about 6 weeks. I keep asking and getting nothing at moment

 

Well good luck! I can't help much more than that as I'm not married.

 

Enjoy your kid!
Great feeling!

Now, about your problem - ask for a hand/blow job.
You can also, if she agrees, try fucking her between her breasts...

Anyway, DON'T get your dick near her cunt or ass before she lets you know that she's ready for it!

Also, please note that she is permanently tired - the kid needs feeding!
She wakes up, changes diapers, and so on!...

 

Handjob is the best bet.May be a good time to try feet fetish also if you are in to it.
Otherwise it is better to wait.

 

She started with a hand job last night and finished me off with a blow job. The problem I have now is my wife is so horny and she wants sex but her body isn't ready yet

 

Speaking from experience, wait the full 6 weeks. I made the mistake of giving into my now ex and it had painful unpleasant results.

If she is horny try clit play or stimulation. But it is a very frustrating time for normally sexually active ladies.

I did not enjoy sex much until the last 3 years or so. So I can't imagine what I would be like it I was to get pregnant now and have to wait. I am pretty insatiable now lol

 

Thank you for that my wife loves it when I rub her body so at moment I'm doing that but will look at clit play

 

Maybe it's best to slowly warm her back up, instead of going with beating your head against the wall for "getting some" as that angle may just cause frustration try this? Women take a few months to really get back into the swing after months of pregnancy and the intensity of birth try small gestures of returning her vital energy and feelings for you with a surprising long hot bubble/scented oil bath, followed by a back rub or foot massage (Google the basics) for with no expectations of sex. Start taking walks after dinner with the baby tell her,"I'm taking the baby for a walk, you want to join us?" If she says no don't fret it gives her a moment to digest but, if the walk becomes a habit it aids in digestion and begins an active routine for her to get in shape? Be helpful with the chores and most importantly reminder her daily that you love her and desire her still and when she's ready you'll accommodate her needs! Hormones tend to take some time to level off with added responsibility now and women need a loving coaxing back to the daily day to day thoughts of the lover in waiting so, be proactive in that recovery and you'll be back to normal in no time! I speak from experience my kids are now 21 and 24 respectively push and rush don't work?

 

Your wife gave birth 3 weeks ago....and you expect her to be ready so soon!! She needs more time obviously, support her and respect her!! Your sex life will return to normal within a couple of weeks. In the mean time have a wank or two to sort yourself out!!

 

That's what I thought. Dude, ginving birth is like being run over by a truck, down below. Give your woman a little credit and rest before hopping on again.

 

Damn dude. Give it a rest. This is your first kid? lol, your sex life is gonna change....

 

What say we put this into some perspective.....

You eat a watermellon seed and over the course of 9 months it sits in your bowel growing every day, making you feel terrible most days, and some days even you would do almost anything to get it out. Finally the day comes it starts moving, and as you can imagine a watermellon in your colon twisting and turning might not feel too good, but finally after a lot of pushing, shoving, grunting and pain you get it to the end, and in a final push you FORCE it out your ass most likely ripping you up as you shriek in horrific pain.

Naturally, you don't want to even eat after for fear of passing something through there......Yet, 3 weeks after your wife really feeling horny wants to try two handed fisting you up your ass.

So the question is.....Do you feel like butt sex? More so having had to endure that, really any as it probably fucked with your cock and balls too forcing that out of there.

So I don't know, might you ask her to wait maybe 6 weeks before you feel like being fisted?

Hush......an alias

 

1. For the last 9 months your wife's body has gained blood and water volume, in addition to extra weight, to feed and nurture the baby growing inside of her.

2. It took a total of 9 months to put it on, the majority in the last 3 months and you expect it gone in 3 weeks?

3. Inside of your wife is a raw, gaping wound caused by the birth of this child and the placenta. This is not something that is stitched up.

4. If this was a vaginal birth, most likely there was tearing or cutting to allow for the baby to pass through the vaginal opening. Chances are there were stitches to close this wound. They have to heal.

5. For all intents and purposes, your wife's body just went through hell. She is now dealing with the care of a newborn baby while trying to recover.

6. If I'm not mistaken you expect her to look like an model and to have sex with you?

My goodness, aren't you the understanding and supportive sperm donor.

 

I think you need to reacquaint yourself with Pam and her five friends.

Three weeks after a vaginal birth is nowhere near soon enough to resume penetrative sex. And if, as you say, your wife is feeling turned on, then she's probably just as frustrated as you are, if not more so because of your selfish puling.

Go and have a wank, FFS.

 

Shower your wife with love and affection and try to take the household work load off her so she can focus on your child and herself. Also remember to bond with your kid.

And as She-Ra said get re-familiar with regular jerk-off sessions for at least another three weeks so she can heal and tighten up down there.

 

She-Ra is absolutely correct.

Get creative man.......great opportunity to explore your wife's sexuality and help her enjoy multiple orgasms on her terms.....she deserves as many orgasms as she needs to enjoy her body, her sexuality, and also enjoy the relaxation after she climaxes.

Nothing sexier than helping and watching a women orgasm.

 

stay calm

My wonderful wife was high risk, so it was like a total of six months with no actual "sex". Then once our awsome little buddy was born and six more weeks went by she was still very sore. It has been a year and a half and it is still different. She breast feeds him and he is our the center of our world, so with that being said. I know it is a pain in the ass, but be ultra understanding about what she just went through and you will get back to a somewhat normal sex life. Her body chemistry has changed and it could take a while for her to get her drive back. I would watch an unhealthy amount of porn and by a big bottle of lotion! Best of luck and congratulations!

 

I can identify. The mother of my child spoke up months before she gave birth and told me not to worry that she would take care of me through the pregnancy and beyond. Cool said I, what a thoughtful gal. Of course she was full of shit. She felt like crap the last 4 or 5 months of our pregnancy and for the first few months after the birth of our child. It sucked being venomously denied. It is frustrating. It is life. Treat her the best way you know how. It will do wonders for your relationship down the road. You cannot control her inability to be the whore you desire. She cannot control her inability to be that whore for you. What you can control is how you react to the lack of sex. You can be a snivelling dick or you can be the stand up man she needs.