Hello everybody,
i been here for a while and im more of a reader than i actually post. But i meed some advice or tips on a 3some and swap, my wife and I are talking to a couple who want to have a 3 some ffm (me) and then a swap. Its our first time and we want to enjoy it as much as we can and have a good time but i need some tips or advice on how to make it a good experience and how to spice it up as well. Please bare with me, i do know how it goes down but i want to see what people can recomend for us before and during the act. Thanks guys

 

Tread lightly and be honest with yourself and the others. I lost the best "friend w benefits" and friend I ever had over a 3 way. People's expectations are different in what they want, will and won't do in that situation.

 

Thanks

 

Try to keep your cock hard.

 

Make sure you give them equal attention. Me and my gf jad a 3some mmf and she was mad couse she said I spent more time sucking him then I did eating and fucking her

 

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Be careful of jealousy. My first ex wife wanted me to have a 3 sum with her and her girlfriend. I was up for a fmf but as it turned out when it appeared I was enjoying fucking her girl friend more than her she got all jealous and ruined it and we'd been divorced 15 years at the time. Alot of inexperienced swingers seem to get upset when they see their mate getting off from another lover though. Just be aware,take your time and go easy.

 

Thx everybody ii will take it into consideration and ofcourse, i will keep you updated

 

My wife and I too want to get into the swapping game. We have a couple we would enjoy. His wife is fucking gorgeous and I know he has a small dick, so my wife won't enjoy it as much. My hopes is they both will prefer my fucking and want a ffm. What's the best way to ease that convo with the other couple. They seem to flirt with us quite a bit, but idk.

 

My wife and I have been in a few swapping situations with some friend of ours. Started off pretty mellow, heavy petting and kissing. Things have progressed every time we get together with the last time I fucked the other wife while my wife licking her pussy. I got to cum in her while my wife licked her clit...very hot. The other husband could not get hard enough to fuck my wife. We talked about it afterward to make sure we were good with everything and set our expectations. It has made our personal sex lives even hotter then it was before! And we had a great sex life! The way it worked for us was to let it flow naturally. Progress little by little and get more "involved" each time.

 

3 some tips

Over all this is something that just takes course, some are comfortable others are not, some are shy, and from what I read with the issue others not fully excited such as getting hard, it is all about the moment, the environment, the scene, or whats going on.
My first experience of a 3 some was very interesting not to mention expected to happen, to give you idea what happen, I was called by a few friends whom were co workers telling me about this hot party going on women with women and such and I should come over, well my coworkers/friends came picked me up and went to this so called party, when I got there, i noticed only one women, my coworkers/friends and one other guy. My coworkers/friends went to get something to eat for take out and come back with food, leaving me with the other couple male and female. What happens next is we all drinking just chatting, his wife walks out of room, he sorta in a way invites me to another part of a room where 3 computers are on and nothing but porn on each.
We are just chatting and some how get on the subject how his wife would love to have a male fuck her being not circumcised, well I knew I was circumcised but said I love to try that and see what happens, next his wife walks back into room with sexy outfit high heels and such, and says so your not cut, humm let me see, of course after realizing i was she still wanted my cock she got excited for the fact she saw how hard I was.
We began with her sucking my cock licking my balls me fucking her, doing her in may positions and she had him join the fun... So over all see how it just happened... Sometimes when we look we are with horns out, when we not looking it just happens because while the horn is out some pick up on that and it comes out in wrong vs just letting things take place....

 

my wife an I had a 3 way ''mfm'' with a friend from out of state see he don't know are friends can't say the wrong thing......and we talked about what can/can't be done.....today every thing is good with all......next is my ''ffm'' we said we'd do both...

 

Ya me and wife been looking for a female to group up with but it's hard to find some one that is down we also had a MFM and it was ok but it like there is no females that want a FMF or FFM ..

 

Get your wife off first then let the women play for a while and just check out the scene. Let your wife bring you back into the action.

 

Sounds pretty good and fair since i have told her that. She can pick the girl so i guess ill stay away from the otger girl until my wife decides is time to get on it. Thanks alot

 

As the man, NEVER blow your load until everyone else is done. If you cum and you have to keep watching your wife with some guy, strong feelings start to brew.

 

If the women are not bi then get plenty of sleep and take lots of vitamins. Carbohydrate loading may also be a good idea.

Is your wife going to reciprocate and give the other couple a threesome?

When you get to the foursome if you and the other guy are not bi then avoid sword fighting.

Thinskin

 

It's been a fantasy of mine since I was little

I've wanted a three or foursome ever since I can remember.
In fact I wonder just how many lucky non jealous people engage in a threesome or foursome who tried it when they were young?
I had a few encounters with boys and girls who were testing the waters long ago. I lost contact with them but often wonder whether they still engage in multiple partner sex today?
I envy those who are free enough to enjoy sex with many partners and not get jealous. My partner just isn't one of them unfortunately, sigh....
I've always wanted to know how to even bring up the subject of wanting to share sex with another couple without seeming too perverted and shock the others if they happened NOT to be into that.....?