While I still love women I did suck off a few guys(3). The 3rd guy if I did him a few more times I might even let him take my anal cherry if he wanted to.

 

Here's an observation from "years" of being active and a friend in the gay community as a straight man? Men seemed to secretly expose their bi sexual side early in life when the old phrase "Any hole will do after enough booze" applies so that they can bury that part of themselves well before the wife and 2 1/2 children! While it seemed to me most women (although experimenting early) seem to come into their own later in life, I assume with all the boundaries historically placed against a woman's sexuality their permissiveness to themselves comes later than sooner?

 

I can't offer any theories, but I have definitely observed that trend, particularly when guys crest the 50-year mark. Truth be told, I LOVE it! Watching a guy I'm sexually attracted to sucking off another man gets me hotter than anything else these days, especially if one of them is black and the other is white.

 

Good discussion.

Personally, I find a common expressed desire of bi-men as something I also wish to find: a bi-buddy who is more than just a suck-mate, a bi-buddy who is also a friend. I've read posts where a guy wants a fishing partner, or golfing friend with benefits. Someone who they see frequently and is not suspected at all as being their man-sex relief partner.

I'd like to find a motorcycle touring friend, someone who likes to take trips and has the time to ride, who would also enjoy a little man-on-man after the day's ride is over. I don't want to whore around, I'd like a regular cock to suck and a regular person to suck me off and a reason to be alone with that person in a shared non-sexual activity.

A cliche - but I'd like someone just like me.

 

Ì became bi when I was really young, 14-15. Got off with my first guy around that age, it really fucking turned me on but I never really wanted a 'boyfriend', just lots of hidden, flirtatious rubbing.

Just being around another guy I know is gay/bi and fancies me gets me fucking hot. I like guys for pure pleasure, women I mostly stick to for pleasure and for sexiness.

I don't really find men 'attractive' but cocks turn me on and some men, feminine ones, soft skin and a throbbing cock. Best of both worlds really.

 

Bi from the start!

I can honestly say that I was bi-sexual from the moment I discovered sex.
I had sex with boys my age because we were all curious and discovered that it felt pretty good playing with each other.
But curious girls weren't as available and those girls who did play with me didn't know how to keep it on the 'down low' either.
I caught hell and it was embarrassing!
I enjoyed sharing sex with all my partners back then and still have fond memories of it.
I've been strictly hetero since I got married decades ago but I'd love a 'bi' relationship and would be happy to share my female partner in a threesome or more-some if the opportunity came up. I miss those days.....

 

Both men I have had sex with were older men who were attracted to younger guys. One I believe was in his 50's and the other in late 40's. I had just broken up with my girlfriend and wanted to explore some fantasies. So I reached out to some gay men I knew who were more than happy to show me the ropes. Definitely enjoyed the experience, I would do it again if I were single. But having experienced sex with another man, both giving and receiving, there is nothing like a woman.

 

Curious from the start as well it started like others exploring with some friends, but a person has to be comfortable with himself (sometimes it takes years). Also, I think its more than society is slightly more free than 30-40 years ago, we also have the net, were many people with similar interests can share stories, and connect. This connection allows us to feel more free, as we find more people with similar interests.

 

Seems like universal agreement that the internet has changed our sexual lives, fortunately for the better because it's not going away.

 

Its probably more due to the fact the older you get the more you understand yourself and care less about how people see you. Also with the digital age it is a lot easier for men to get together and experiment without the worrying about making the wrong move or reacting to incorrect signals in a bar ect.

 

What if one of them is brown hun

 

when i was young i sucked my cousins cock and he sucked mine. we did it quite often. but that was when i was young. then like 12 years ago my g/f had a fantasy to see me suck cock for her. i did it and have been doing it since.i love pussy but ill take a nice hard cock anyday too.

 

In a Dilemma and need advise

So when I was about thirteen I was talked into having an affair with a friend and I got it in the ass not as much as I would have liked, I wished I known how to clean myself out back then, and I liked it very much, and gave head also, I liked doing that as well. But being raised in a good christian family and the times as they were I felt as if it was not right and it eventually went away.
Now that I am older I let my girl friend do things to me that really turn me on, dildos strap-ons even though she doesn't like to wear them.
Now I find myself looking on craigslist for Mr. perfect and never finding him or having the nerve to just go do it. I also used to party and it would really lite me on fire and make me want it even more.
I feel stuck and don't know what to do, I want to get bent over and give a good blow job and get screwed really good. I just can't go forward for some reason. Any suggestions, before I get any older.
Thanks

 

My interest began at about 55 but had no idea how to act on it. My wife has been celibate for WAY TOO MANY YEARS and masturbation and self exploration became a way of life. As I found more and more porn sites I found myself seeking gay movies. One day about five years ago I was watching a porn flick and saw a gal sucking a guy and wondered what it would be like to be HER. Eventually I found a guy, we sucked each other, first time for both of us, and we both enjoyed it. However, it's been very difficult to get together again and I do look forward to round two.

 

It seems as I've aged and after experiencing years of many dalliances of long and short duration, with women, I have realized just how time consuming creating these pleasurable scenarios required . Living in a sexless marriage for years that survived only because of a heavy worldwide business travel schedule and newly retired I now feel tempted to find a simple relationship with a man whereby the simplicity of mutual masturbation may be appealing and without the attendant bullshit that a dalliance with some woman would necessitate. It would seem far easier to find sexual relief without the many complications so often the result of a new affair with a woman. Expediency is my mood at this time of life..

 

I started giving blow jobs in HS, I hide it because I didn't want people to know. Being older hasn't made me more bisexual I just care less about what people think now.

 

not this man

Not me...at least if you are talking about the homosexual kind of curious. As for straight sex curious...my kinky side has definitely exploded over the past 5 years. I'm now in my 40s, and it seems that my mind entertains wilder and wilder sex acts. Things I would have never thought of when I was younger now seem like "fun things to try" LOL

 

I am inclined to think that this is what is now motivating me as well. Well said.!

 

Difficulty in finding a location to play, having the time, hesitancy of your suck-buddy?