So me and my girlfriend got to talking about fantasies and all that which lead to talking about a threesome. Now my girlfriend is a real romantic, relationship type of person but shes a freak when it comes to sex (Her words). She had a mmf threesome with an ex a long time ago and hated it. She has no interest in having another guy touch her but she's open to having a mff thresome being that she'll be in control and whatnot.

Anyways the threesome talk got a lil serious and she laid down some ground rules.... well 2 main rules:
1. No making out....she doesn't want any passion between me and said female
2. No vaginal intercourse... Oral is tottally okay..and anal (if the other female okay with it).. but she doesn't want my dick inside anyone else's pussy..

While I find all this slighty amussing, I will respect any rule she has as im almost certain this will be the one and only time ill be in bed with 2 woman...

Just wondering if any couple had any "rules" regarding threesomes?

 

Rules for 3somes

Had a 3 some with my gf and a hooker while on holiday. Didn't have make rules, we decided beforehand that we could do whatever we wanted (if the hooker was up for it). As it was she was very happy to indulge us in any way we wanted.

A great time was had by all

 

Just make sure that said rules are conveyed to the third party as well. There's very little that ruins the fun quicker than one or all parties being timid simply because they don't know or aren't sure what those rules are.

 

Here here threesomes should be enjoyed go with flow and love the ride

 

We've got a rule like this, except that it's anal we save for each other.

Nothing else has come up yet though.

 

HEY...if she is make'n all the rules maybe she don't realy want it.....
we had a MFM with a guy from out of state...see he don't know are friends and can't say the wrong thing ever!!!!!!
just saying be careful......alot can go wrong.............

 

You guys are newbies; while I am for respecting boundaries threesomes should only be undertaken if the relationship is strong enough to survive them. Ask her what would happen if you wanted to fuck her pussy? Would she freak? What happens if her blow jobs are better than hers? She doesn't want you to have fun so I would caution you against it. Suggestive boundaries are ok, but strict rules ruin the fun.

 

I agree with Windy. Rules are the death of spontaneity and the death of sexual pleasure. If you're going to do something like this, be sure you can both deal with it, and let the chips fall where they may. If you're not sure, don't do it...because there ARE risks.

 

In other words the No Vaginal Intercourse rule isn't going to work with you.

Well that's a surprise!

thinskin

 

There are some serious warning signals here.

'quote' - She had a mmf threesome with an ex a long time ago and hated it.
She has no interest in having another guy touch her

Then , you'd not be allowed to fuck the third party , or to do anything with them that looked anything like makeing out or passion.

So how can you realistically have a threesome ?

You could of course , but very limited .
You could lick the visiter out , so long as you don't put any passion into it , and if your lucky , you might get to bang her up the arse.
that's about it.
But , what happens if your visiter gets carried away , gets passionate , and in the heat of orgasmic exstacy passionately begs you to fuck her ? [just for example]

Is that worth the risks ?

Personally I really enjoy threesomes and have had many , over many years , but if my partner said all that to me , I'd be leaving it as a fantasy.
I would not even think of going ahead with it.

 

I guess I'm just an old-fashioned girl that way, eh?

 

Rules

So just last week my hubby and I had our first threesome. we set our rules as such. No anal (per her request). If either of us gets uncomfortable then we call a time out no questions asked. And last that the three of us enjoy each other fully, meaning to be careful of not making someone feel left out. Ok so we go forward with it and I had never been with a woman and neither had she so I felt a lil more comfortable and wouldn't you know it.....hubby was so excited he never fucked me not even once that whole night! He broke a serious rule....he left me out! I broke a serious rule, I didn't call time out and remind him that I was there. She didn't say much either as she was a lil more into him then me cause she knew what to do with him. By the next morning I was so pissed and thoughts of self loathing were running through my head."oh he just wanted her not u cause your not enough and blah blah blah." Let me tell you we talked it over (loudly) and we decided that fantasy is much easier then reality. So our girl contacted me (as also I get to decide on the girl) and said she wanted to do it again, apologized saying she realized that it went all horribly wrong and that she was so nervous about being with a woman. But that now that she had and thought about it she was really excited to try again. Ok, so with her and I talking and lining hubby out. We are going to try it again. (If he repeats his previous performance then he knows he's in trouble and won't get this opportunity again) anyhow, even with clear defined rules it's doesn't always work that way and you have to be prepared to deal with it. Potentially one night of living a fantasy can destroy a relationship.

 

For the record, what you had was a foursome, not a threesome.

 

How?

How is it a foursome? If its my hubby and I and another girl that's three. Not 4

 

Okay, I read it again and now I see where I was led astray. Sorry about that.

 

If there had been 4 our rules really wouldn't have been followed lol! We are trying again Tuesday so hope it all goes well! Would hate for it to be a bust and us end up being in a hurt relationship over it.

 

Good luck. When do you get a MFM ??

 

more fun being taken but...

Do the threesome her way
to begin with !
to get her into them.

feel free to cunt fuck the other chick when girlfriend is too gone. :excited:

 

I can tell just by your "rules" that your girlfriend is gonna have a real shitty time. If she needs rules like this then she's not even close to ready to deal with what it's ACTUALLY going to be like to see you have sex with another girl. Tell her to imagine the following:

1.) The other girl giving a much better blowjob than her (maybe the other girl deepthroats like a champ or something...)
2.) Your dick goes in some other girls ass and then goes where?? In your girlfriend? Doubtful. In your girlfriends mouth? Doubtful. In your girlfriends ass?? You better have a backup plan there, stud...
3.) So let's say you actually DID somehow get to the point where your girlfriend is willing to watch you assfuck another girl. Do you think she's going to be OK with it if it turns out she goes all Sasha Grey on it while she sits back and watches?

I know from experience that this is NOT as easy as you think. I did this with my ex-boyfriend and another girl. He came on my face after railing one of my ex-friends doggy style for what seemed like 30 minutes. Our relationship took a long slide after that.

 

Building up

She is open to a threesome - with limits. Best way to deal with limits is to see how they are open for real fun. Once you've tried it her way, she might surprise you. Or, if she doesn't - ask yourself what is so important about the threeway if she is satisfying you other ways.