Me and my wife have had sex talk about another guy joining and it so hot and turns both of us on. Now my question is how do you go from here to actually doing it or finding one

 

It's a fantasy of mine also, so if you're in the UK... :excited:

Haha, you could try asking around here

 

I just want to know how couples do it how they started doing it. I know people will say trust issues but me and her have talked about it and we don't have any

 

Perhaps you could try slipping it into conversations with your single friends? Maybe she could flirt a bit more with guys at her work?

I don't know. Hopefully someone with experience will give you an answer, so I can put myself in the position where someone might ask me :excited:

 

Well I know about single friends but we don't feel comfortable doing it with guys we know and as of work she won't because of her position

 

The first time I did it, it was in the aftermath of a party in college. We were all pretty drunk, and when the party ended, the only people left were my then-boyfriend and another guy we both knew, who was there alone. I don't really remember exactly whose idea it was -- but I was flirting with both of them all during the party. I think my boyfriend whispered in my ear at some point that it was something that was a huge turn-on for him. After everyone left, it just happened.

 

Very nice sounds hot

 

Hubby and I were interested too. I invited an old BF over for dinner and let it go from there. If you want more details, the BF was more dom and successfully brought out the sub in both of us.

Some are more comfortable with friends, some with strangers. If you feel comfortable with someone you know, pick a friend who has always seemed attracted to her, or someone she has dated in the past and , well, ask.

If you prefer strangers, I suggest a good club. That gives a better chance of a safe encounter. Pick a sex club, learn the rules, go dressed nicely and find a guy who likes to play. It is not that hard to do in any major city.

 

Thank you for a city that's not as easy because we don't have any around but will look into it

 

my wife and I had are 3 way with a guy from out of state see he don't know are friends & can't say any thing wrong ever....FYI ''mfm''

 

A motel with a club in it is a good place for a couple to pick up a guy to play....

 

Make a game out of it.
When you're out and about point out different guys and ask "how about that one?"
After you've done it a few times take her out to a bar or club and do it again.
If she responds a little more eagerly towards one than the others you might approach him about joining you and your wife at your table.
Even if nothin happens that first night you've at least opened the door.
Eventually she'll cross the threshold.

 

Kimiko....I always love your posts....your hubby is very lucky

 

Actually, I think I'm the lucky one...

But thank you.

 

Swinger's site to find people with the same interest.

 

My husband always chose from close friends and 2 cousins that were trustworthy and known to be involved in lifestyle activities. In most cases I was close friends with their wives as well.

 

We don't have any friends in the lifestyle but we have found some friends parents on swingers sites but we don't have the nerve to talk to them

 

We are in a very very small town so its kinda hard because we know a lot of people

 

Yep....it's a problem

I'd love to share my partner too, and we've fantasized an MFM many times during sex.
I love to whisper naughty ideas about that into ear and it DOES get her off.
Reality though is way different.
It's really difficult to find a 3rd partner willing to join us.
It's just too difficult to bring the subject up with somebody who might NOT be as 'kinky' as we are.
They might be totally turned off by the idea and we'd feel kind of humiliated for bringing the subject up.
Sigh........

 

Sounds like we got a lot in common small towns suck for that. I wanna share my wife too