I have a question. I think my girlfriend may have cheated on me. She has admitted to having feelings for another guy, and told me she has talked to him about her leaving me for him, but she told me she wouldn't have and she hasn't done anything. Granted this is after I found out she was sexting him, and even though she told me she stopped, she didn't because I went throu her phone and saw them. I confronted her and she said it was only sexts and nothing else. She now has his texts password protected so no one can see them, and she says she does it because she doesn't want me to be angry that she is texting him even when she says she isn't sexting anymore and that they talk about things that is private to him. She also gets calls from him all the time and she normally walks out of the room when he calls and tells me they dont talk much even when they are on the phone for an hour. Am I over thinking it or do I have serious reason for worry and asking to see these texts?

 

My advice is leave her. Don't put up with all this nonsense. There are many signs and prove of boundaries being disrespected. She shouldn't be changing passwords secretive. If she has nothing to hide, then she should show you the date and time of their conversation and texts. But you already found prove of things that shouldn't be spoken amongst themselves.

 

In my experience if someone is pass wording things they have something to hide. If she wanted to make things right she would do everything in her power to prove to you that you have nothing to worry about. Once trust is broken its so hard to regain, if I was you I'd sit down and lay it on the line she either is completely open with you or she goes.

 

In your eyes is sexting cheating? If so then she has done it that way that you can prove. Like the poster above pointed out, if she is not doing anything wrong then she shouldn't have his texts on private. If she isn't guilty of something then she shouldn't walk out of the room away from you to talk with him. The fact that she is hiding things from you is because she's feeling guilty. Honestly dude she is walking all over you! Tell her its over and move on to someone who will treat you with respect.

 

She's cheating on you. Either dump her or accept that you're sharing her. If the latter, get tested often.

 

Dude..leave her right now. I doubt you deserve that. Just fuck the slut one last time and break up with her.

 

I think she is just sexting him and having phone sex with him.

Honestly, leave her.

If you asked a girl not to sext, and she said she stopped, but she still did it than she will lie about other things.

If she said "I want to sext, I get very horny. No, I'm going to keep doing it" and was honest that would be different.


SHE IS DEFINITELY fucking him on your phone. Go to her, confront her, demand that you read her texts from her. Tell her you don't trust her nearly as much as you used to after her last lie, and so you need to see his texts in order to feel happy again.


Ten bucks says it's all dick sucking and emotional bonding.

It was good of her to talk to you about getting feelings for someone else- it was not good of her to stay around that person after realizing she was getting a crush (or more) on him.

 

Why does using someone for sex whose wronged you sound so hot?

 

Good question! I'm not exactly sure..but I like to be a little dominant anyway so I guess its just another form of that. I like the idea of fucking her hard and punishing her with my cock..like bottoming out in her pussy with no mercy. :excited:

 

u lost me right there , so she comes to u , saying i love another guy and i might leave u for him , but hey the good news is he didn't fuck me and u just just took it?!


dude the moment she told u she has feeling for other guy u should have broke up with her on the spot

 

If there are no dependents and very little to split up, I'd just walk away. She has admitted to being emotionally involved and continues to have private discussions with the person.

She has no respect for you. Show some respect for yourself and tell her to Fuck Off.

 

Leave her and move on.

 

Leave her. She's fucking with you and making a cunt out of you. It's unfair on you and she is clearly putting her needs before yours.

 

she's cheating on you dude, should talk seriously with her or just leave her.

 

Tell her Adios. The woman/girl is playing you cheap dude. Don't let her continue to make a sucker of you.

 

Leave immediately shes a liar!

 

Show her tits.

 

Tell her to stick her iphone up her twat and walk out. She is playing you for a total sap.

 

Any lasting relationship has to be based on trust.
Can you love someone you don't trust?
Can you respect someone you don't trust?

For whatever reason, the minute you decided to sneak a peak at her phone you showed that you didn't trust her.

It's time for both of you to get out of the relationship.

 

The fact she is hiding things from you is clue number one to get out. It would be different if she was being honest but thats not the case.