I am a long time lover of fantasizing about great hardcore sex while masturbating, so why is it I don't turn to sex instead?

I have a ready, willing, and wonderful man available for all the fucking pleasures I could ask for. Yet, I still very much prefer to play alone.. with or without toys.

I like sex... I just like playing with myself, more... Why is it more fun??

 

No expectations, More focus on you and Your the only one if it goes wrong (although I can't imagine that?)

 

All the focus are on you!
You can teaze it out longer and the toys are always hard and shaky :excited:

I think you want your partner to dominate you hardcore, not becouse you ask him to, but because he wants & urges for it out of his own desires..

Attraction is builded through whats runs in your mind,
The reality isn't the same as what runs in our minds..

A pornstar can be like a sex god to watch and fantazise about

 

I too enjoy pleasing myself but it does not compare to the pleasures a woman gives. Apparently, you have the special touch.

 

I masturbate at least once a day. I have pretty much since I learned about masturbating. Despite that, I much more prefer the touch of another person and the physical contact and friction of two bodies rubbing against each other, licking, kissing, grabbing, stroking, spanking, pulling, nibbling, sucking, etc. So much better and much more of a satisfactory experience.

That being said, when you masturbate, it's your way on your terms. I suppose as a guy, there's no such thing as being premature when it's just you so if you blow in 60 seconds, who cares? You get to take a nap faster. For a girl, I get to cum on my terms to my fantasy via my own avenue (fingers, vibrator/dildo, etc) with little to no concern for a partner that isn't there. It's very stress free. If I want to make it a 30 minute endeavor, so be it. If I want to go for multiples, great! There's no disappointment from masturbating.

 

Ah "To wank or not to wank?"

 

Thanks for the words of thought. I just enjoy it so much, I look forward to it when I'm at work. All I can think about half the time, is when I will get home so I can encourage the Mr. to leave for a bit. (mutual masturbation or just watching me play doesn't turn him on.. so I have to do it when I'm alone.)

I don't know what it is.. I can turn myself on and off so easily with no apologies or formalities. I love it. Why is sex so much more complicated?

 

I also find jerking off to be much more fun than sex. Don't know why, it's just how it is!

 

Strange man you got..
Ever tried it to a videocam?

 

My girl blows me and I shoot a load like a fucking bullet. Can't do that when I'm masturbating.

I can get myself off faster but, the orgasm itself is less satisfying. I prefer fucking and sucking over myself any day.

But, masturbation is fun. It's great. Just don't do it too much that you lose your passion with a partner. That's when you need to take a break.

I think you should talk to your partner about the things that get you off. Toys, fingers, mouth and tongue etc.

I mean honestly, nothing can replace a nice warm tongue licking by either sex.

For me, I can almost cum from eating my girl out. When my girl finishes giving me a BJ, her pussy it so wet. She almost came from blowing me a few times. She always gets aroused by it.

Shit, I just fuck her and tell her I'm going to pull my cock out and fuck her in the ass and she has an orgasm. Just dirty talk and a cock!!!!

None of this could be achieved on my own or her own.

So, I say you need to open up with your partner and tell them the things they could be doing to reach a better orgasm.

Which reminds me, my ex used to love rubbing herself up against a pillow as I was fucking her from behind. I would just let the tip of my cock play with her pussy lips or slide into her ass. She told me it was the best orgasms ever!!!!

 

I rarely can get myself off so masturbation isn't that much fun for me. I can jill off 5 times a day and feel unsatisfied but a great session with my husband and I am content... still want more but not because of being frustrated.

 

Sex is as much mental as physical. When I masturbate I can create the perfect fantasy in my mind and rub my cock exactly as I like it.

Sex involves another, or more than one, person. They have their desires, thoughts, judgements and expectations which may not be the same as yours. So sex becomes complicated. You want to get yours, help them get theirs and hopefully not have to fart in the middle of it all.

 

For some the axiom is true - who could love you better than yourself?

 

People who masrarbate, use their imagination . At that time they fuck other persons who m they cannot fuck in real. That includes neighbbours, teachers, students, por stars etc. Why not they in fantasy also fuck some family member . (INCEST ). Needs not to wait for the satisfaction of the partner and control the time of orgasm .:excited::excited:

 

I used to masturbate 10 times a day when I was much younger. Now, jerking off is nothing more than a temporary release...and when I say temporary I mean like an hour or so, especially if I'm at home not doing anything. If i'm at work or mentally engaged in some other task I don't have the urge, but the minute I sit down to take a shit or have a break I have the urge to have sex......Being as how I don't get sex all I can do is try to stave off the urge by jerking my meat....problem is I'll be hard again in an hour or so, maybe earlier if I'm watching porn...I don't get a whole lot of satisfaction from jacking off, but I love the feeling of ejaculating...

 

Don Jon

 

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I'm curious. Have you always preferred masturbation over sex? Do you always cum when your husband fucks you?

 

jilling off

I'm stymied by this! I have never met anyone who says masturbation is frustrating.... Have you tried lots of toys or porn or erotica to get yourself going? When my wife masturbates she uses those things to turn herself on even more as she builds to her climax.

And to the lady who said her husband doesn't like to watch her masturbate..... Wtf is his issue with it? He doesn't like watching his wife cum? That ain't right darlin.... Watching my wife do it makes me crazy! She's evil sometimes though, she ties me up so she can do what she wants for as long as she wants without worry of me deciding i can't take it anymore lol.... sadistic little wench!

And I'd LOVE to watch you masturbate if you ever recorded it.... When my wife is feeling extra naughty she audio records it. Hearing her play and cum is awesome....

 

I have used many things, the only time I can get myself off is if someone is watching but I don't want to just give shows to strangers just so I can get off. My husband doesn't like sex so I don't get to get off that way either. He will get me off sometimes but go and jerk off to get himself off, saying sex is just takes too long and he just needs a release. **sighs** I can't wait until my boyfriend moves here so he can tend to my need but I am still 226 days until I see him again.