Never really thought about it. Most, as in probably north of 3/4 of them were just "normal" sex - BBBJ, DATY / DATO, sex and a sprinkling of anal. I had a handful of guys that liked to be dominated / degraded and I had one guy that I did light submission for.

 

an actual question

Very simply put , does it turn you on to think back at your career (stripping or escorting) I have known a couple strippers that loved getting those dicks all hard and being a tease. But I have also known some that you can tell are just there for the big money cash wad. Those aremy least ffavorite personally . But what about you ?

 

Question

Did the client have to let you know ahead of time that he wanted greek ? Or, were you always prepared and ready to accommodate the request ? Enjoy the thread, thanks for your answers and insight.

 

ROFLMAO!!!! I'm sure you meant no "slight" by this comment, but I cannot help but laugh at the inuendo.

Still, thank you very much for being so open and accomodating by answering all of these questions. Stories like yours reinforces my thoughts that prostitution ought be made a licensed profession. I know that it is brutal on women, particularly in its current state, but I think that has a much to do with the fact that it is forced into the underworld of society as the act itself.

One question, though, someone else brought the question up originally. I am still unclear how one goes about getting referals without having one already?

Thanks again for the answers!

 

Talking about it over the past month has really made me miss it in a weird sort of way. I'm not going to quit what I'm doing now (consulting work) because that pays amazing, I get to travel the world and I genuinely enjoy the work. That said, I had a friend snap some pictures a few weeks ago in the event that I wanted to go back and escort a bit on an extremely limited basis (as in one or two days a week max). I've already written my ad but I'm not convinced I should do it again. It's one of many battles raging in my brain.

The answer to your question, though, is both. The money was fantastic and that's a big reason I kept doing it however I did make friends, I did enjoy the job and the activities and I learned a lot about myself and others. I wouldn't change anything about my past which is why I'm leaning towards doing it again on a very limited basis.

 

I was pretty much always ready. My digestive system is very predictable AND I've been super clean back there for a long time. It was nice to know ahead of time but since it was included in my price, I was prepared 95% of the time.

 

You'd have to go see some other girls first who would then vouch for you. In looking at other advertisements, some higher end girls require 2 references and if you don't have any, they flat out won't see you. So in order to get those references, you'd have to see another girl who is a bit more newbie friendly first.

 

Oh holy shit, that was some narrative right there.

The girl I lost my virginity to actually also tossed my salad for the first time. Ever since then I just thought it was a normal part of sex, so I always kept a clean, shaven ass.

Hair around your asshole is unsanitary in so many ways. Not even mentioning the possibility for unwanted smells, the hair is just a fucking PERFECT trap for the same stuff you are trying to keep off of your body. The guys with fucking jungles around their assholes make me LOL.

 

How did you prefer to handle the money exchange part of the encounter. Money placed in an envelop and left on some piece of furniture ? Money being handed directly to you ? Would the transaction occur at beginning or end of the session ?

 

Interesting story. Why not tell them like it really is? Get the guy to pay for an hour, make him blow his load in fifteen minutes or less (even better) and then push him out the door. With any luck you're doing the same to the next guy and still haven't worked the first hour...

 

Because I only worked that way for the first 3 months I was turning tricks. I started slowing down as far as the number of guys I would see and my level of service significantly increased. As a result, I literally was booked 3 weeks in advance for my last 4 years of working. I would only see 1 guy a day and only 3-5 guys per week with most of my dates being 2-4 hours long.

So while there absolutely is a market (and a majority of the market is exactly that) such as you describe, that was not the niche I was filling. If a guy paid for 2 hours, unless he chose to leave early, he got the full 2 hours.

 

For guys that I was seeing for the first or second time, it was money in an open envelope on a stand in the bathroom. I would then "freshen up" (count) and then we'd begin.

For guys I had seen a number of times, it was just whatever and whenever. Most guys just politely laid the money down on the dresser and I didn't bother with it until after but again, that was only for regulars.

 

Great thread, EroticaLady! And thanks for taking the time to reply to each question in such detail.

I had a few questions myself (sorry if some overlap with previous ones):

What particular style of dress did you prefer to wear when you were "on the job"? For instance, when you entered a hotel, would people know by your dress you were a prostitute? Would that turn you on?

Also, did the idea of selling your own body sometimes give you a special kick when having sex with a customer? Does the idea still arose you?

I got a few more quesitons, but I'll leave it at that for now. Thanks in advance, EroticaLady!

 

If you did outcalls, did you ever have trouble with hotel staff when entering and going to a client's room ?? If so, how did you handle the situation ??

 

Right On

I was so impressed by your discussion of sexuality in our culture that I read it to my wife. You need to write a book so it can reach a broader market.

My wife and I are what I'll call "sexually liberated" Christians. That is, we believe the morality taught by the church today isn't Biblical, but based on the repressed idiology of the Puritan early settlers.

Both the Bible, and the non religious histories of the early days of Judiasm and Christianity reveal a much different culture. Sex wasn't a dark shameful secret usueful only for procreation.

Be fruitful and multiply!

Prostitution was legal and accepted as neccessary!

"Tis better to spill your seed in the belly of a whore than to spill it upon the ground" wasn't a condemnation of masturbation... they MEANT IT literally, it was an encouragement!
But how many generations of young men raised in "church" homes go through adolescence and long into adulthood feeeling guilt and shame over masturbating? I did.
And of course for women, as you say, the stigma is unmeasureably worse.
Sexual issues plague so manh families, and so many of the poster's HERE, because we have such repressed, unscientific, and unreasonable beliefs about sex.
I am here because my wife and I aren't having as fulfilling a sex life as we could... because of many of the issues you mention. So much involves fighting against barriers inflicted by what we are taught, that are in contradiction to what we FEEL.

And its even worse when you think about the fight for equality being waged for GLTB's. An extremist morality which rejects a whole class of people for being simply who they were born to be is, in itself, what is truely immoral.
Oh, and one more thing to add. Had a cousin who stripped in a club called "The Cave" just off Hollywood and Vine, you actually see it movies occasionally in the background. And she confirms what you say, stripping was hell. Her stepfather, who was in "the business" got her a fake ID and had her on stage at 16.... she danced for 7 years and has a lifetime of baggage now....
Thanks for your posts.... sorry I got caught up in the serious debate over sexuality... a lot of what you posted was FUN as well.... especially the asshole who got beat up when it turned out his "easy prey hooker" who "wouldn't dare report his abuse" turned out to be a beautiful and sensual but highly trained martial artist!

Thanks

 

I would dress modestly actually, blue jeans and a t-shirt or sometimes a knee-length skirt and a matching shirt. I rarely did outcalls though so this was a non-issue. When I did use a hotel for an incall, I was very non-descript when checking in. Part of the goal is not drawing attention to yourself.

Sometimes it did, other times it was just part of my routine. I still toy with the idea of working because there was a certain taboo to it. I even placed an ad on MyRedBook last week when I was in the Bay Area but I took it down after 15 minutes. Not sure I'm ready to get back into that.

 

Never. Real life isn't like Pretty Woman in 90% of the cases. If you draw attention to yourself like that, you're asking for trouble. Granted, some girls are in fact overly obvious but I was pretty discreet. When guys are ponying up $500/hour, we're not talking blue collar guys. We're talking guys with a lot to lose financially and potentially socially. I took that part of discretion very seriously.

One time I wore an overcoat w/ just lingerie on underneath (garter, fishnets, matching black bra) but the coat was very non-descriptive and fit the weather so nobody paid me any attention otherwise.

 

Thanks for the answer! It seems you are able to really enjoy sex with a customer - in general, can the sex with clients be better than the sex with just a random guy from the bar? For instance, when you look at your let's say 20 best sexual encounters, roughly how many of them were "for profit"?

Also, how do guys perform differently when they pay for sex compared to when they don't? Are they less eager to please/feel less pressure to perform?
What about you? Also, are the things you do/your routine during sex a lot different when being on the job vs being off the job? If it were just up to you, what would be your ideal fuck?

 

Not really. With guys who were my regulars, yes the sex was generally very satisfying. They took it seriously, I took it seriously, we knew what the other liked, it usually ended very well. Most guys that I saw were interested in a mutually pleasurable encounter but not all. And the truth is, while I am very sexual in nature, sometimes I just wasn't in the mood so I'd fake it for the sake of his ego. Not often, but it did happen (referring to regulars). One-time encounters were very hit-or-miss. I've had some guys blow in 30 seconds or less and others who suffered from frankencock and could pound for 60+ minutes straight.

Guys from bars I've found are inherently more selfish and think they are blessing me with their presence. Not all, just a lot of them. I've found some great lays and I've had more than my fair share of really bad ones (I'm on a completely shitty streak as of the past few weeks and it's getting super irritating).

My best ever was from a paying client. The sex he and I had was life changing. I've never been able to duplicate what he did to me. Beyond that, I'd say 5 or 6 of my "top 20" (which is subjective and can change based on mood) were from clients, the rest from regular guys.

Paid sex is selfish sex. My job is to sell them the fantasy. To that end, I can't make it about me. Now if they want to make it about me, it's their time and money and I was usually more than happy to indulge. Again, sometimes I faked it because the chemistry was lacking or I just wasn't in the mood. That was less likely to happen with a regular but it still happened. A lot of guys, even though they're the ones paying, really got into giving me head. I'd say greater than 90% of my clients wanted to go down on me and about 1/2 of those enjoyed giving rimjobs as well.

But if we really break it down, guys are paying for a no-strings orgasm. And I had plenty of guys that just wanted a girl with a certain look, proclaiming a certain attitude, doing a certain service so they could live out their fuck fantasy and I was the girl they chose for that. Sometimes they just wanted to cum on my tits. Other times they wanted to fuck me in the ass. Some guys just wanted a blowjob (although at $500/hour, there were significantly cheaper choices for getting their dicks sucked...not sure if that's an testament to my oral skills or what). It was a mixed bag across the board.

I'm much more assertive and have no issues saying what I want, what I like and what we should do. I'm very take charge. I'm very vocal. When I was with a client, I might make a suggestion but ultimately it's what he wanted to do. Outside of my former work, I have no issues changing the topic at hand to something more to my liking. Don't get me wrong, I want him to enjoy it too but most men are just happy to be having sex so me mixing it up and being a bit selfish still works for them most of the time unless they have some fucked up alpha-male complex and think that I'm going to be a demure submissive rag doll they can throw around and do with as they please. The sexual menu was very similar as there wasn't a lot that I wasn't into. I even learned a few things while escorting that I incorporated into my personal life as well.

There's no such thing. There's what I want right now versus what I might want tomorrow. Right now, I'd love to lay back and have a man just go down on me and get me off 2 or 3 times. Tomorrow I may want to climb on top and ride someone hard. The next day I may want something more intimate and personal. The day after that I might want to get fucked in the ass. It just depends on the mood I'm in. I have a very voracious sexual appetite and I enjoy a lot of variety. But there's not "one thing" I could live the rest of my life enjoying. Not even masturbating.

Although the thought of walking into the Canadian men's hockey team locker room after a hard fought game, stripping down and letting them have their way with me all sweaty and nasty...yummy. But even that would be fleeting. Unless it's Matt Duchene, Corey Perry and Ryan Getzlaf...I would never get tired of those 3. Marleau and Price would be fun too. Mmmm, I love my men who play hockey.

 

Care to elaborate?