Hey there,

Me and my gf been thinking for a while now to have a threesome, with both cases boy and girl.

At first we talked what kind of guy would be cool to find, but it's not that easy after all, cause it has to be a very specific person to satisfy both of us.

After long talks we thought the best idea would be to meet a couple, so we all put the same cards on the table and non of us it's taking advantage, for example in the guy's case he would get a girl bang for free.

So my question is, what are your experiences? where do you like to go when you want to find some guy or girl for some action?

 

I'm calling it, ass kissing and private messages, coming up.

 

LMAO!

....try swingers parties, or clubs/bars.

 

I used to use swappernet as a single guy - it took a long time to find the right fit. Usually - all 3 would be attractive but something didn't spark. I think it's tough with a guy - he has to be just right! I did finally meet a couple that was as into me as I was them and we hooked up dozens of times after that! It's difficult but keep trying you'll find it!

 

are 3 way was with a guy MFM from out of state....see he don't know are friends and can't say the wrong thing ever.......:excited::excited::excited:

 

well...

I've never been a jealous guy, I kinda like to see her fucked hard, try slowly a DP, make her take a bath of cum, you know... that stuff and she likes it aswell, but first of all we need to feel absolutely confortable about this and the person who's participating. Even the idea is to have him as a contact for mutiple meetings

We have an account in adult friend finder but most people there fill your inbox with like "wanna bang that ass or something? just call me" and that's the complete oposite position we're looking for, we want someone who cares about this to comes out right, and don't just take it as a free threesome. There's a lot of bars we could hang out and see what's happen, even my gf have some nice friends who goes often to meet people and have sex, but it's kinda hard for us to talk to her friends and say "hey we want a threesome, got someone to introuduce us?"

So I think after all it's a matter of time and a lot of patience but hopefuly it could turns out really well

 

FYI, when using the possessive for writing about anything that involves yourself and one or more persons, the word is our, not are

 

Hey Sanmoon.... my wife and I are AFF members with the same goal, and same problem as you....

A lot of the people you meet online are either phoney in some way.... say they want real sexual encounters but just making online chat and friends is as far as they will go. Or, they are looking for fast easy no commitment one time encounters.

What you are looking for is a person compatible enough to be a long term friend, but open minded and sexualy playful enough to be a sex play partner. AND, well enough known and trusted to be STD worry free....

And that is a tough order. We had a few experiences sexually with people who were friends already. But it isnt at all easy to figure out among your friends who is actually that sexually open... and you risk alienating your friends. We have had sexual relations with friends...of the 1 woman and 4 men, the woman is no longer a friend, one man is no longer a friend, and one man took it too far and tried to steal my wife... hes not dead but might be soon, I just cleaned my 45.

So we joined AFF thinking we'd meet others who are already openly declared perverts like us, and then try to find people we like as well and can have real friendships, not just bed. But that just isnt working out... the few peopel we have met on AFF who are interested in us, and we in them, and then we like.... most of the time live half a world away...

Its a daunting task..... long term trusted friends, open minded and sexually playful, and STD free and playing only within the group of friends so we can safely get wet and slippery....

In the end I think starting with friends worked better, we had 5 successes there, but lost 3 friendships LOL, while on AFF weve had one sexual encounter and werent comfortable with the way it went.... well, I wish you good luck with it.....

 

You mentioned that finding the right guy might be difficult because you are both rather fussy about who you wish to get together with. That may be the biggest problem you have, because it sounds like you are looking for a personality match as well as a physical attractiveness match.

Saying that, I know my wife and I had limited success, mostly because I found that men are usually less open to allowing another man to do anything to them.

 

Actually our concern focus in the personality rather than appearance, and we must admit we're quite a pain in the butt cause we're very demanding there. We're looking for a guy who respect us, and cares for her, in fact we know a couple of girls who can be a good candidate to get in the threesome, discrete, respectful, even for her manners.

Since my gf is more into a MFM kind of threesome, if we could get a guy with the same characteristics I'm pretty sure she would stand for a menage a trois