So I let my wife fuck this guy who she met couple weeks ago and by the description and details this guy knows what he is doing . He's got a big tool also but doesn't want to have a three way. My wife tells me he unloaded three times without taking his dick out of her . I'm dying to see it in person so I can record it and post it here .
Any tips on how to convince him?

 

Seems like your fucked my friend. You have no leverage. It's hard stopping something you helped start. You can try telling him that he can't fuck your wife again. But I don't think she'll go for that. Sounds like she likes the tool and the multiple loads he shoots. Why do you want in? Are you looking for a drill for your tool box? Or looking for your tool box to get drilled? Either way you read it, it's still the same. Using the wife to get a little cock for yourself? Sorry i meant big cock.

 

That's easy. Let him tap it one or two more times then tell him no more unless you can film it.

 

Try not to bring up the filming part right off the bat.
Give it a few times without taking pix or video
Offer to let him do any editing he might want to do.
(maybe he doesn't want his face showing)

 

experience

You have a real problem...... I am very interested in threesomes with my wife. And having been the extra man for other couples when I was single, can't really relate to an ungrateful bastard who wants my wife but is less willing to share whats NOT EVEN HIS to begin with with me, to whom she is married...
Yet that is what we have encountered....she has had sex with a couple of men as an icebreaker...but letting them know we are actually interested in threesomes, only to have them balk at having me involved.
If you are not into being a cuckold... and get excited by what she does away from you, you are setting yourself up for disappointment as well as eventually being pissed off and angry....
Id recommend, too late now, that you NEVER get involved in something that doesn't involve you from the very beginning if what you want is a threesome...
What DID work for us was when a man wanted to enjoy being with the wife enough that he and I chatted about it first, set down the rules...1) her pleasure comes first and 2) this is just for FUN... and if any f the 3 of us get uncomfortable we speak up and deal with it as friends...3) if it doesn't work out, no harm no foul, it was for fun.
When we did that, we had so much fun in one evening with another man that it energized our sex life for weeks. But when we tried the other way, her getting naughty with a man alone and then trying to bring me into it, it always failed and in one case got seriously fucked up.

You need to be honest with yourself.... does her doing this without you turn you on and are you getting enough out of it to make it worthwhile.... or is the disappointment at not being a part causing you a lot of negative feelings that will eventually get BAD and share how you feel with your wife.... what you do should be MUTUALLY fun....you deserve your share of the adventure as well...

 

Lets be straight here ( assuming this story is true). Firstly you didnt let this guy fuck your wife, you let your wife fuck this guy.. He doesnt want a threesome, which isnt surprising since her gets to fuck another guys wife, no attachments and the apparent whole hearted support of her husband. Hes got it all really, a big dick, a willing woman to unload his multiple loads into and he can walk away anytime he wants.

So please tell me what makes you think he is going to want you in the room having said no to a threesome let alone allow you to film it all and then pot it all over the frikin internet.

 

Usually, we would discuss pics & vids before initial meet - as my husband loves to see pics of me being fucked if he is not there. Tho this other man may not want you to share those pics/vids, which he is in & should be his choice!

As the others have said, 3sum should have been discussed at the start & you both should have talked about if this was a deal breaker or not.

 

You brought that upon yourself dude. I'm not even a fan of cuckoldry and i can even say that you should have set boundaries up for this type of thing from the get go. Hell you should have even brought up threesomed from the start. But instead you're here crying to us about it.