Well I'm sorry the guy was so hot I couldn't help but stare!!! The acts of kindness I witnessed??? That was just a added bonus. I mean who knew that the driveway was the only way to get turned around inside the resort to head back out the same way I entered!!!! Learn something new every day!!!!

 

Aahhh you two kill me!!! I love it lol

 

OK put your wedding dress on while shadow and me fuck your brains out.

Real bad boy put his cellphone on record.

thinskin

 

Listen Umpire can just stand in line.

thinskin

 

My wife always says that you should treat your wife or girlfriend the way you did when you were first trying to get in her pants.

 

You mean use brute force and bodyweight!

G'night all this side of the pond!

Thinskin

 

chivalry today

I am in my late 40s, raised in the north, went to college in the south. Been here ever since. Men should always open or hold the door for a woman. And never expect a thank you. You do it for her. And not to make yourself feel better.
As for sex...be the quiet confident gentlemen in the room .....at least in the south.. And nature will take its. Course many times over

 

Gallantry

I don't usually feel the need to reply to topics on this forum but I will on this.
First I never wonder why I don't have sex, I think it has something to do with obvious flaws. That aside chivalry is defined as the combination of qualities expected of an ideal knight, esp. courage, honor, courtesy, justice, and a readiness to help the weak. I am not chivalrous to impress anyone or to feel better than anyone who isn't. I am chivalrous to keep those ideals alive because they are good, that's all. These qualities may not be needed as much at the moment but we should try to remember them anyway.
Thank you to anyone who took the time to read this. Please forgive my spelling and grammatical errors for I do not write often.

 

I couldn't have said it better myself

 

Thank you for your response. Very well said!!!

 

Women have to love a true Southern gentleman!!

 

Yes, exactly!!!

 

interesting topic... so i have a confession... I never once received flowers or had a door held for me until i was well into my late 20's . With exception of random men at stores or local eateries... I have had more guys within 5 minutes of meeting them yank out their cocks and expect a blow job than i have had hold a door on a date. i dont think chivalry is dead i just think a large part of my generation was skipped on the common sense gene .. and raised without that filter that makes one stop and question the impending actions before they become actions. in more aspects than just romance and relationships.

 

Thak You!

I wish everyone (or at least my wife) would act this way. Instead sex has turned into something that happens 2 maybe 3 times (tops) a month and is awkward and uncomfortable. It is always when, "she is in the mood" (2+ glasses of wine) which works fine for her. I'm so sick of it at this point I may decide I'm not in the mood the next time she decides it is time. I'm certainly not approaching her to get rejected. Of course then the double standard kicks in and she will endlessly ask me what is wrong, why, etc. Of course when she isn't I'm just suppose to accept it.

I have treated my wife like Sweet said above and it just doesn't seem to carry over for day to day.

 

Would-be King, you did good, sir. And welcome to the forum.
Looking at the posts, it seems that chivalry isn't dead by no means, but possibly misplaced at times. And GingerLeo brought up a good point. I'm sorry that you didn't get flowers all along as you should've. Guys, let's remember what flowers do. Even after all the years I've had my bride, I want her to know she's being thought of. It doesn't take a dozen roses every time, just a flower to make ladies feel special.
No lack of sex here, but I think communication is a good word. I can never second guess my bride, and have never really figured out what makes her tick. I believe in communication, and let's not forget about timing. Probably not a good idea to jump into a lack-of-sex conversation right after she burned the biscuits. In this day & time, we're all consumed with work, or lack thereof, and it's hard to sit down & have a nice generic conversation. Mayhap a bit of mental role reversal just to see what she sees.

 

That's probably because that was his mistress

No, but really... being a gentleman still works. I have had 3 girls in the last 6 months tell me after a few times hanging out that I "scored a ton of points" by opening the door for them or whatever.

Its a simple gesture. Doesn't take much effort.

However, on the other hand, as a cynical but honest person said the other day, how romantic you think a guy's actions are is directly proportional to how attracted you are to him. An ugly fat guy rushing to open the door for you is creepy and desperate. ADMIT IT, LADIES!!!! ADMIT IT!! YOU KNOW ITS TRUE.

 

False. I expect a thank you. I don't expect you to bang me, but I expect a thank you. I expect a thank you if I pay for dinner too. I treat women like ladies just like any southern gentleman should, but I am not a pansy who puts women on pedestals and doesn't think that courtesy should go both ways. That is the #2 reason a girl doesn't get a second date with me, right behind being too self absorbed to show any interest in what's going on in my life.

 

That could be very possible that she was his mistress. Lol If she was I bet she's begging him to leave his wife for her. I bet he's very good in bed!! Lol okay but seriously....yes, it's those little simple gestures that some women still appreciate. Those same women actually try to return the favor cause she knows how to treat a man. It's really that simple sometimes!! I'll be the first to admit women respond differently to a guy that is nice looking and well dressed. But given a chance to communicate with that not so nice looking door opener?? Well we do or would get to know the gentlemen more and respond to a wonderful personalty and the kind gestures. We aren't all that shallow.

 

It's not about any "thank you" or "appreciation" that you're even there. A guy that truly wants her doesn't care about that. Expecting appreciation for helping her out of the car is a sure way to let her know you're shallow and only there for yourself. If she says "thank you" she just gets a smile.

Sometimes it's about wanting to help her out so you can continue the journey to wherever you're going with her hand in yours. Even if she's already yours forever, why waste even a minute on the other side of the car without her.