Hi all this is for men and women. Me and my girlfriend have wonderful sex but it seems we are always doing pretty much the same thing. So here is my question to you. What have you all done to keep you sex life as interesting as your first time with your partner. Thanks in advance.

 

First time with another partner.
Easy.

 

Don't think she would go for that.

 

Ok but as you two are having wonderful sex, then if it is fixed don't knock it baba.
She is happy putting out and spreading her legs for your dick and you like fucking her.
win win.
There is no problem.

 

Don't take it wrong. I we really enjoy our sex and we both always get to cum her usually more then me but that's besides the point. I guess I just want to liven things up to see if we can make it better.

 

Oh fuck.

 

The best thing to do is sit down with her and have an open conversation about experimenting.suggest to her that you each make a list of some things you would like to try.then swap lists and mark down things you would or wouldnt be willing to try.

 

That's a good idea. Only problem is that she has done a lot of thing compared to me she knows what she likes and doesn't. I am here like what can I do next.

 

What you mean by that Gemma

 

Not knowing what all youve tried its hard to answer that.i would suggest watching a lot of porn and picking up some ideas from there.

 

I NEVER ASSUME I KNOW ENOUGH

In 34 years after reading everything I could get my hands on in learning new techniques, there's always more even if it's only a new twist on an old standard. There have been many who have teased my interest in knowing the real sciences that makes up sex like psychology, physics, philosophies and physiology (just to name a few) the approach is unorthodox, but it's sex by design not by chance and over 28 years of sex with the same partner tells me I'm on the right track.

 

Well we have done missionary doggy cowgirl reverse cowgirl we both do lots of oral and 69. Pretty much every room in the house lots of dirty talk. Watched and read porn together.

 

So so what would you say to do can you give an example. It's good to here from someone like you that has been in the same relationship for many years.

 

Lol

Not sure if you wanted suggestions like as follows;


Role plays (have a safety word, for a something like a rape)


Blind fold etc


Spend a whole day in bed together.


Sex outdoors (including ur own garden adds the spice that your neighbours maybe spying on you).


Sub & Dom


Surprise sex, pick her up from work then fuck her at her work car park


Write hot stories to her (long stories and send it to her whilst she is at work to read)


The best advice is good communications (someone has already suggested). It sounds like you guys are doin alright anyway so please don't stress too much


Blk Neighbour


Ps it don't matter if she has done more than you she can teach you stuff which always fun x

 

Thanks for the ideas. I am not stressing and am not worried that she has done more in fact I think it's to my advantage. I just don't want to get into a rut like I know some couples have if that makes sence.

 

How about playing pretend. Meet her at the bar. And pick her up like your total strangers. Ask her name, what she does for work. Make her feel beautiful, sexy and desirable and tell her so. Keep it fresh and totally anonymous. You just meet. Go back to your place and get ready for incredible new exciting sex. Who knows, you might unleash her deepest, darkest sexuall other side you've never seen before. Good luck my friend. I'm not a sex therapist. But I did stay at a Holiday Inn express once.

 

HERE ARE A FEW

Follow the Karma Sutra and use all your senses to your advantage, for every lover there are varying degrees that define intensity where most guys (or girls) would say they lover was turned on or turned off I would say to what degree? By paying close attention to every detail of sight, sound, smell, touch and taste and manipulating them you can bring about changes in intensity for you and her. Where as most may say lose yourself in the moment or go with the flow, I say become laser point aware of the subtle nuances of your lover and make changes with intention

SIGHT: You can try clothing starting in your appearance by what you are wearing to bed by having clothes or a way of dressing for sex some women like funny boxers or French cut men's briefs that excite them and don't fall into the trap of getting undressed too soon.

SOUNDS: What is the soundtrack playing in the background when you make love, is it the sound of the porno you two are watching? Add to that some environmental sounds with soft music as it creates an ambiance conducive to sex.

TOUCH: Sometimes we get so lost in what were doing we forget to touch while it's easy enough to put your hands on the back of her head when she sucks you a soft sensual rub on her back or shoulders during does something different in that it conveys sensual togetherness. So never let your hands leave her body untouched while doing other things, I personally stretch out my arms above me when I'm eating her pussy to tenderly caress her tits and the sides of her belly.

TASTE: Use flavored lubes (find her favorite flavor) a few drops on her clit, nipples and the head of your cock every so often can give a different sensation when our mouths are tasting something rather then just flesh. For eating pussy there's nothing like an extra slick start, on that note keep a travel sized bottle mint mouthwash (the tingling kind) and swish it in your mouth holding it as long as you can then after spitting it out, eat her out. IT'S AN AMAZING EFFECT!

SMELL: Play around with scented candles, incense and what colognes she might like on you, my wife prefers the more musky manly ones on me.

While these tips may seem insignificant they are all conscience attempts on my part to incite her mind and body rather then leaving her orgasm to chance or luck. Think of sex in the 5 senses and come up with a few of your own, feel free to P.M. me if your looking for more ideas.

 

Try sexting her though out the day, I mean it works nothing more exciting than knowing when you get home from work she will be waiting, at the same time (you should) feel the same and cant wait to get home to fuck her real good. Anticipation makes an orgasm really intense sometimes. Have you tired anal play with her? Next time you go down on her push your finger on her ass hole, dont put it in becues that can be a shocker and a turn off if she dont like it, so just by pushing on it you will find out real quick is she likes it or not. Toys, bring toys in to the mix.

 

he wife and I have recently got into anal play. . .she will get doggy in front of me spread wide and after I get behind her and pound her hard I rub my finger on her dripping wet pussy lips and my cock. . . then I slowly rub her ass and work my finger in-love feeling my cock entering her with my finger in her ass!

she in turn tongues me and slowly works a finger in . . . .then once she hits my magic spot it is the strongest orgasm ive ever had!