opposed to rape

Just like a male would, only without a penis. A dildo or other phallus devise maybe but rape is forcing another to have sex in any form with them self or other. Yes holding a gun to a women or man telling them to jerk off is rape. Gun could also be do this or else, do it or lose your job, do this or you don't get a job, or any other form of threat.

 

She is hot but no woman deserves to be raped. It takes a sick freak to want to have sex with an unwilling participant.

 

I understand that some women really get turned on by the idea of being "forced" but only if its acting out a fantasy, and their "assailant" is someone they trust at a time of their choosing. I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that's what you meant.

I know there are also men who fantasize about their female partner being raped. Having to watch helplessly as some other man uses her for his pleasure. I understand that most men are voyeurs, and at least toy around in their heads with the idea of watching their partner have sex with someone else. For some, its less threatening if its a woman rather than a man. And for the majority, they want to watch their lover being pleasured, rather than being abused. I know I've thought it might be a turn-on to watch my lover get pounded into dick-drunk happiness by some hot young stud. But its not a fantasy of mine, and her attitudes mean it would never happen.

When it comes to wanting to watch your partner be raped, or wanting to be "forced to watch"...and it seems like inevitably in these fantasies, the other man is bigger, stronger, and has a cock like a horse...my two-bit psycho-analysis is that the woman in that scenario is really just being used as a kind of surrogate, so the husband or boyfriend can be "dominated" and "humiliated" by the other man. Remember that rape isn't a sexual crime...a point many people miss. Rape is about violence and power. And playing around with issues of power and dominance are very sexually charged for many people.

But like I said, I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt. I had a lover once who had this particular fantasy. She wanted to role-play that I was a
I understand that some women really get turned on by the idea of being "forced" but only if its acting out a fantasy, and their "assailant" is someone they trust at a time of their choosing. I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that's what you meant.

I know there are also men who fantasize about their female partner being raped. Having to watch helplessly as some other man uses her for his pleasure. I understand that most men are voyeurs, and at least toy around in their heads with the idea of watching their partner have sex with someone else. For some, its less threatening if its a woman rather than a man. And for the majority, they want to watch their lover being pleasured, rather than being abused. I know I've thought it might be a turn-on to watch my lover get pounded into dick-drunk happiness by some hot young stud. But its not a fantasy of mine, and her attitudes mean it would never happen.

When it comes to wanting to watch your partner be raped, or wanting to be "forced to watch"...and it seems like inevitably in these fantasies, the other man is bigger, stronger, and has a cock like a horse...my two-bit psycho-analysis is that the woman in that scenario is really just being used as a kind of surrogate, so the husband or boyfriend can be "dominated" and "humiliated" by the other man. Remember that rape isn't a sexual crime...a point many people miss. Rape is about violence and power. And playing around with issues of power and dominance are very sexually charged for many people.

But like I said, I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt. I had a lover once who had this particular fantasy. She wanted to role-play that I was a burglar, and have me hold her down and 'ravish' her. I think the whole notion of being "ravished" is more an invention of so-called romance novels than anything like the reality of rape. I never want to make a partner feel self-conscious or weird for sharing a fantasy with me. I think it takes a lot of courage to do that. So when they do, I make my best effort to honor that and give it a go, even if its outside my usual comfort zone. Unless it involves those handful of no-go limits that most people have (children, animals, etc)

The problem for me was that she wanted me to over-power her, and it wasn't just 'she would put forth token resistance'. She struggled with ALL her strength, exactly as if I was a stranger. I had a really hard time with the idea of using enough strength to pin her, because I was afraid I would hurt her. And then, holding her arms down, I had to use my legs to push hers apart...exactly the way I imagine a rapist would...I just couldn't do it.
I felt a rising revulsion with just the imagery that made it impossible for me to maintain an erection, or want to. It was also ever-present in my mind that she had been a victim of sexual assault more than once in the past.
I'm not sure why she wanted to reenact something that was so traumatic for her...I was worried about triggering some of those memories. The whole thing made me feel VERY uncomfortable, and remains one of the most disturbing sexual experiences I've ever had.

That said, the woman in the photos is gorgeous, and produces in me both
an appreciation of her beauty for its own sake (women are works of art!)
and a desire to make pleasure course through every nerve in that wonderful body. But- and this is important - never without her permission.

 

My problem with this kind of thing is that I genuinely love women. As a group. I love the way their bodies look, but more to the point, I love the way they are wired inside, their hearts and souls. I enjoy the company of most women, even the ones I don't want to sleep with, and the honest reality is that more often than not, I'm attracted on some level to every woman I meet. In addition to that, I'm a gentle soul, and my preference is for tender, loving sex.

I'm very "in the moment" and attentive to each expression, sound, and body movement of my lover...the moment I pick up on the fact that anything is wrong, I ask. I've had lovers who had scars from surgery so that they were sensitive in certain places, and you had to be careful to not thrust against certain spots. But more important, I've had lovers who, due to bad experiences of the past, could find themselves just "losing it"...having their arousal just dissipate like smoke on the wind. I would sense it immediately. They would always want me to continue fucking them until I came. But how could I, knowing they were no longer turned on? I had to know they were as in to it as I was, wanted it like I did, or I couldn't leave my dick in them one second longer. It just felt wrong to me.

In similar fashion, when I'm dating a woman, I don't feel right about it if she decides to sleep with me for the first time when she's had a lot to drink. I know that alcohol loosens inhibitions and all that, and that's fine. But I want her to have all her faculties about her and make the choice that's right for her, and not be the choice she'll regret in the morning when last nights a hazy blur. Same difference for sleeping with a woman who's at an emotionally vulnerable moment. Comfort her, sure! Hold her, let her cry on your shoulder, even spend the night if she needs someone with her badly enough. But don't let it become anything sexual in that moment, no matter how much a few orgasms might help her relax! I would be taking advantage of her emotional state, and I will not do that.

So saying that you want to know if I would rape someone? I couldn't if I wanted to, and if I ever felt the desire I would seek professional help. Rape isn't a sex act, its a form of assault - the rapist is just using his cock as a weapon.

 

57% of women would enjoy it (with 38% wanting to repeat the experience)
but
only 5% guys would with a sleeping woman
6% if she is drunk
25% if she was unwilling

weird huh.

 

Stupid ass question. Anyone who would rape anyone deserves to get beat down hard..... Just sayin!

 

I would fuck her brains out

 

Glad my vote was in the majority. I would fuck her though.

 

Uhhhh.......... How about NO. I would not rape her, and here's a question for you.........Why do you keep posting the same pics? I mean it's been at least a year and you've posted the same pics of "your sister" in numerous threads?

 

Creeper perhaps?

 

I am a 40 year old female and yes I would rape her

 

Yeah......I would.

 

More like fuck her while sleeping

 

I don't think that the moderators should even allow the question to be posted.