I've been dating this wonderful man a while now. When I suck it up we will probably get married. I want to hook up in some fashion with another girl. I'm not sure really what I want to do with her. I just want to see what it's like. He is 100% supportive as long as it's something I'm doing for me. I would like him there. I feel like I am the most comfortable when I'm with him and he can help me. We agreed he will not be having sex with her but there just for me unless this is something we want to do later but the first time is about me. I have no idea how to go about setting this up. I don't want to do this w a friend but yet I'm afraid of hooking up w a complete stranger. We are going to baltimore next month and have been talking that may be a good time...suggestions? How do I meet someone I can trust and be open with and not insult? How do I even go about asking someone? He said that it all up to me, if this is something that I want then I have to work for it...suggestions?

 

Sorry, no suggestions, but I'll say he's lucky.

 

Me an my girlfriend are basically in the same situation as you two. The only diffirence is she wants me to fuck some with her. She has a lesbian friend that we all got drunk one night an the three of us hooked up. It was a lot of fun for all of us an believe it or not all three of us are still good friends. But I can honestly say that is a 1 in a million situation. We both really want her to hook up with someone but we are absolutely CLUELESS on how to find a girl to do sexual favors with. We were thinking a swingers club but at the end of the day we both feel that's a little weird an dirty. The only place I can think if is a bar or club. Other than that we are just as lost as you. If u guys have success or think of anything that would work please let me know!!

 

I looked at 3ender last night. It only lets you search locally. Ideally it would be to start talking to someone now, getting to know them and meet up in BAltimore area. I'm terrified of catching something. Urg. Life struggles.

 

Yes I agree. Even though I am a dude an sometimes we don't think logically when it comes to our dicks, I am also afraid of catching something. Because let's be real, what's a threesome with a condom? To me it would suck.

 

You guys could try going to craigslist.org they have all kinds of things that you might be interested and also many listing in the large city for what ever you may want.

 

I don't have advice but I am inthe same position.

 

I really don't have any advice but I'm in the same position so when U get some good advice let me know

 

I dont have much advice either, but I would like to discourage the comment about craigslist.

 

If you happen to have any friends who seem a little wild, flashing, taking dares, that stuff, just be honest and ask them what they are in to. It's not a sure thing, but in my experience, people who are sexually open to things tend to be a little wilder around others, though this doesnt always work the other way around. It could be a good icebreaker though, especially if you decide that friends are the better/safer option.

 

You could try the gay village?
Hold up a sign
'Tap me for lesbian sex please'.

...not that I have tried or anything.