Ok, I have searched threads but have not found anything that really gets close enough to my issue.

I will make a long, though enjoyable story short. A very young lady, though not so young as to be ilegal has approached me to be her dom. We have discussed at great length the limits to which we are both willing to go and, at the end of the discussion she is still asking me to take her on. The thought is exciting to me and I don't have any concern about meeting her needs or my own. He most recent dom was 45 and not sexual but abusive.

I have been in sexual situations on both sides and enjoy both sides and i know the limits I have when I am the submissive and they are pretty extreme and I know she is not ready to go to such extremes. My question is this, I am 58, she is just 21, is this too great an age difference? Is she looking for a "strict father" figure? How would you respond in this situation (men or women, sub or dom)?

 

You're both consenting adults. End of story.

 

go for it, it will be exciting for both of you. you're both legal, the only thing that can come out of it is enjoyment on both sides. you've got a 21 year old begging for you to dominate her. what are you waiting for??

 

Part of what I was waiting for was for her to convince me she really wants me to be her dom. She asked me on Tuesday and, after our discussion, I told her I would think about it. Since that time she has called me with reason after reason for me to do this and begging me to do it. Thirty minutes ago I told her to come to my place this evening and I would answer her. She has called twice since then to ask what to wear and whether she should bring dinner. I think you are right, this could be a lot of fun for us both.:-D
TJ

 

!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i'm excited for you. keep us posted. with pictures, stories, videos, etc. hahaah, jp. ..... maybe.

 

god damn why doesn't this happen to me?!

 

Do you think it would be interesting enough that people might read something if I maintained a log after each encounter? I know she wouldn't go for pictures because of her job, but, as my sub perhaps I could make her tell her part of the encounter and then post it after each encounter worthy of posting.:mrgreen:
TJ

 

YES. stories would be great. im a BIG fan of dom and sub. i'd read them, and probably half the forum. you gonna keep it like a diary type thing?

 

Good Luck to you - if your only concern is age difference then I see no reason not to carry it out - its only slightly awkward when the Dom is younger than the sub - otherwise its fine

Ive had various expiriences where the age gap has been similar - all worked out amazingly for me

wish u luck

 

TJ, we want a log, diary, whatever!

Just... do it, man! Sir! Master! Whatever your title is!

 

I have spoken to Chunky. I will be placing the log right here in Sexuality, the thread will me named simply Sub Shelia. As I am writing this she is writing her part, I have told her she must introduce herself before we get very far. She may have some interesting words for us all.
TJ

 

Al, I promise you it is true stuff, Sub Shelia has been posted

 

The log is a great idea, I'm going to look for it now.

I think you just became a hero for all of us older guys, lol.

Thanks.

 

Shelia has completed her second post, I would do nothing else for her, to her until this was complete.
TJ