Are there any women out there that have challenging thoughts about being with a woman? I get excited seeing sexy women but don't show it. When I get drunk or smoke is when I sometimes don't care and this is when I'm touchy Feely but kinda scared on whom to approach.

Am I crazy to not just act it out already? I told my bf how I felt and I think he wants me to pursue it because he's a typical man. Lol

Help!?!?!?!

 

Does he want you to pursue it if he can't watch? (Just checking.)

It took me a while to act on it once I realized I was bisexual, but when I did - HELLO. It was wonderful.

 

@VenusInFurze
No I he doesn't want me to go alone about it. He said he considers it cheating....which I understand. But I want to figure out if I even like it first. And threesome are a whole different ball game. Urgghhhh!
Thanks for your response.

 

Would you be comfortable with him just watching? That's time for you to experiment and learn about your likes and desires. If you can't do it alone, at least with him being there you have his consent.

 

I kno how u feel I'm very bicurious. I have considered hiring an escort because I have no idea how or where to find women

 

its good you told him.,just be calm .,your almost there..!

 

@onelifeonetry actually him being there would make me highly nervous.

 

Maybe it could just be first time anxiety. It would be your first time being with a member of the same sex afterall.

Generally, as long as it's safe and everyone is happy I say act on these things. Sounds like this fantasy isn't going to die down anytime soon. As long as he's fine with it, you two should enjoy this.

 

i guess i was lucky because i was sort of seduced by a girlfriend before i even realized that i'm bi, and we've had a fwb relationship ever since. if i was looking for a female lover i honestly don't know where i would look. actually, i wouldn't know where to look for a male lover either. i don't think a lover is something that one just goes out and browses for. i guess i believe in fate, that when the right person comes along, your paths will cross.
one thing is pretty certain, i would not let someone watch us, or join us. sounds to me like your bf is hoping for a threesome.

 

That could happen though so understand his concern but at the same time if he doesn't get off even after you try and try the wtf. I don't understand it or him but if you hit it off with a woman and get her off you might want to be with her instead since he cannot get off

 

You are a very sexy woman so how the he'll is he having problems. That would definitely not be an issue.

 

Ive actually tried to leave several times and he swears he loves me and isn't cheating and whatnot. I almost don't want it from him anymore because once I feel like a guy is being weird my sexual drive leaves. We probably have sex twice a week now when it used to be twice a night

 

Yea I can understand. I am the kind of guy that likes to have sex a lot. Feeling a pussy wrapped around my dick or just feeling a woman's body all together is so much better then looking at one on a porn

 

Hope things change and you get what you want in the end weather it's him or someone else. Smile sexy!

 

Yes I'm excited about you being with a woman!!! Go ahead baby.... its ok.

 

You can always find another couple to have fun with, that way he's enjoying it just as much as you. Contact us were willing to so both of you a great time. Cumin alnite. Rough sex is a must. Looking forward to hearing from you.

 

O....to make him cum....play with his balls... suck his dick..... an don't use your hands. your choking it.

 

I think we just need to pound each then trade partners and pound some more.

 

Understandable.

Do what you want. You want to try sex with another woman and he is not another woman. This curiosity and desire of yours probably has nothing to do with him. You know your only need is to satisfy your curiosity about something that he himself cannot offer or provide. The solution you may reach is that having sex with your guy is a private thing and you do not want another person involved. A FFM threesome is a sexual situation that provides another woman for him - but YOU are his woman. . A MMF threesome is a sexual situation that provides another man for you - but HE is your man. You may find an occasional private tryst with another woman is acceptable to you both. I know that can work. I'm speaking from the flip side of your decision.

Sex with a man? You've got one and he is there for your mutual pleasure. Sex with a woman? That is something he cannot be.

 

He is gay and cheating on you with a man.