Been married now for going on eleven years. So here is the deal...

Wow... so I met this girl at work today and omfg she is so hot! There is an issue though... I'm married =/ ... so I have a dilemma lol... do i give in to what the two of us want cause FUCK ME we were like insta ready and DTF on site!! Total electricity... so ya my question is do i do whatever and then introduce my wife in on it cause my wife loves a beautiful girl... just would be her first time ever with a female... and my first time with another girl since we've been married... but man i have always wanted to have a threesome with my wife and another female.

...okay ladies any type of advice, thoughts or whatever is appreciated on how I could get this going with my wife. I just know this other girl straight legit and down =D tytyty so much!!


-wulf

 

Ask your wife if she's interested before you do anything. Otherwise you're just cheating.

 

Okay awesome thank you very much cristina ;-p

 

Talk to your wife first. And not during sex or when you're turned on! Wait till there's a quiet time that you're both together, not doing anything in particular, and no one else is going to bother you. Say it straight out and for God's sake don't harp on how hot the other woman is and how much you wanted to fuck her right there on the floor and how much you want to see your wife going down on her or whatever the hell else.

Then wait for her reaction.

Don't pressure her to change her mind if she says "no." Seriously. Don't pressure her.

Also, slapping you in the face, yelling, crying, and sleeping on the couch (or telling you to) all count as "no."

 

Thank you sweetie I super appreciate your feedback.

 

Yah huh....Well, I'd say it sounds like your ads on this site have been answered....Though, I don't recall you wanting to introduce your gal to whomever answered...odd?

Hush....an alias

 

I agree with everyone else who answered, bring it up to your wife before you do anything with this other woman. I think she would be a lot more agreeable if you suggest going into it together. I don't think you'll get better advice than what Venus said.

 

I'm just gonna throw in my two cents even as a guy because fuck you I can these ladies are absolutely right. You are married to your wife first and foremost, so her opinion is much more important than the other girl, or really even yourself in this context. Talk to her first, present it in a way that is respectful towards her, showing her that this kind of activity won't harm your current relationship nor any feelings towards her, and absolutely, 100%, take no for an answer. It's a sensitive topic, could touch on a lot of potential insecurities. So tread honestly and lightly, and hopefully your wife will have an open mind about it. Good luck with your threesome

 

GIRLS I LOVE YOU ALL!

I really do appreciate all of y'alls input!

I will approach this delicately as prescribed herein.

 

I appreciate your saying what you said... though this is a fantasy of mine and I tend to think it may be hers as well... I want to pleasure her and fulfill it for her... as I'm hoping she will for me

 

If you're not sure if that's a fantasy of hers too, please make sure first!

 

"I tend to think" needs to be "I am certain because I asked her."