when she sucks my dick I cum too early. I want to enjoy it as long as it is when I fuck her.
any suggestions

 

Maybe after you pop once you can convince her to give it another go, or jerk yourself off first so you can last longer the second time.

 

Practise

 

Yep practise practise is the only way to go, and maybe have a little drink to but not a lot

 

Try edging. Like all the cool kids.

 

As others have said, practice and perhaps jerking off beforehand will help. Another technique is to draw in your penis. Use the same muscles you use when you pull in and stop peeing mid-stream. When you feel yourself getting close, draw in and you can become less sensitive. With practice you can last a very long time.

 

Have a cup of wine first

 

That's the way it is for me, but with red wine.

 

Relax, tensing up your muscles will make you cum earlier. Like others said, repetition will allow you to only cum when you want to.

 

I feel really, really sorry for you. You're complaining, because you cum to quick when your wife blows you? When she stops blowing you, then you have something to complain about. Did you ever think of pulling her head off your prick? Or telling her to stop, you don't want to cum to quick. Did you ever think of giving her my number? She sounds like she sucks incredible cock. You lucky fuck. When my wife's blowing me and I feel like I'm getting ready to cum way to quick. I'll open my eyes and I'll be like, fuck, she's blowing me. And my prick will start going limp. Then close my eyes and start all over again.

 

Damn I wish I could come quicker but unfortunately I last an extremely long time that way which is good sometimes

 

Eat more potatoes.

 

Viagra!!!

 

Perhaps you got best cock sucker girl friend.

 

Yeah, sounds like she's just really good at giving head!

I like seafoam's idea of going twice. Get off, then go down on her and get her off (always a huge turn on for me) then while she's in a good mood ask her to suck you a second time. I like any solution that involves more orgasms.

 

Too bad your so far away you could throat fuck me we could practice!

 

An old, but valid trick is to exercise the cock through the use of hanging varying weights (wet washcloths, towels, etc) on a rigid cock on a semi regular basis and lifting them with your dick. While once thought of as a strengthening exercise it can extend a man's immediate release time, as well learn to shift your focus while she's doing what you like to her a bit more. Note the psychological aspect of premature ejaculation is that we hyper focus on the cock's every sensation too much which by shifting to teasing her tits, ass, etc; splits the focus not the sensation and can slow down the response dramatically.

 

Seems like you have the ideal woman - be thankful - there ain't THAT many of us about! hehe

 

I was seeing a guy with the same issue. We made a deal where he would get himself off for me first and I would help him recover for round two. I do admit I used this to my advantage, almost abusing our agreement. I loved having him start before we got out of the car or even at the restaurant before we left.