I don't understand!
I am a female with a very high sex drive!
I love to have sex all the time, and I love getting off my boyfriend!
But here's the problem! .....

I can never get off!
Not just with him but anyone I've been with! I always feel really close but it never happens! We can fuck for hours at a time and nothing!
Doesn't matter what position or how much I play with my clit!

I get off all the time when I masturbate! Whether it's just my rubbing my clit or using a vibrator! Most times atleast a half hour but I still do!

I don't understand!

Anyone else have that problem?

 

Never have

 

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With intercourse, it can be hard to rub just the right spot, the right way. Sometimes I imagine being a guy is like having a 6 inch clit. No more "too small target area" problems.

Yes, I've had this problem myself, too often. I don't remember my "fucking for hours" days though.

 

Then why don't you masturbate as he Fucks you ?? I made it a point to learn how to help my lovers how to cum. It takes some stimulation on your clit. Not just getting fucked. With my 3 wife, she would sit on the edge of the bed. Lay down with her legs rolled back. Standing on the floor I could enter her. Lean slightly forward
with one hand on the bed to hold my weight. I would wrap my other hand in her hair. I could then fuck the hell out of her as she used her hand to finish the deal !!
Or I could eat her pussy until she came.

 

Perhaps Im speaking out of turn here but I would say that if you can get off on your own then you ought to be able to get off having intercourse.

Have you tried using a bullet vibe as you are being fucked for example or get the guy to use a vibe cock ring

 

To me it sounds like a mind issue. They say the biggest sexual organ is the brain so perhaps you need to work it out there. If you can get off alone then it is not physical.

 

Lets see them boobies.

 

Yeah, could be mental block. I'm not an expert on how to fix that, but maybe try not putting so much emphasis on the orgasm as a goal. Relax and enjoy the journey.

They make cock rings that hold a bullet, my girl and I have had lots of fun with them. I think they even make one-time-use ones they sell with condoms in drug stores. Ours is washable and reusable from a sex shop.

Or have him get you off separately, either orally or manually. When we do that I always go second or I'll get all horny again getting her off.

 

What about use your vibrator, dildo, hand or whatever you use to get yourself to the point where your ready to cum and then put his cock inside of you to let him try to finish it. That's just a suggestion, I have never had that problem so it's just a thought. I think.

 

Remember this....you can cum....because you do. I know it is very difficult but try to enjoy it, the sexual release. My wife had "church" issues when we got together. You?

 

I've tried a cock ring before with the vibrator and the guy cummed in minutes!

It must be a mental block!
It's hard to enjoy things sometimes because I try and concentrate on having an orgasm and then I get really frustrated when I don't!

i guess I just can't relax

 

Why don't you have him just eat ur pussy and play with it at the same time so u can orgasm and then fuck lol that's what I did with one of my friends who couldn't have orgasm haha

 

Isn't this a common problem for some women? Maybe try to use the vibe a little less, you could be hooked on it

 

Lol the guy in with would spend all night doing that if he knew it would make me cum! ... It doesn't do anything for me when he eats me out

 

I would tie you up and tell you that if you cum you will get a red hot spanking and you better,not cum unless you ask permission.

 

Shit lol I would have my fun eatting it pussy hitting the right spots making ur body jump n twitch from the pleasure. And after you orgasm then fuck the shit out of you haha

 

N if it don't do anything for you he's doing it wrong haha

 

I think it's me stressing out about not being able to! I am my worst enemy!

I barely ever use I vibrator!

He's amazing in bed and I love him, I'm comfortable with him
He hates that he can't make me but doesn't understand I haven't been able to
I almost think he thinks I'm lying and that its him

 

Yea you over thinking it will kill any chance you have from hitting ur orgasm like for me if I'm fucking a girl n I over think it my dick gets soft n that's sucks hahah