My wife developed them after giving birth vaginally twice. Before the kids she was willing to do it but now not so much. She blames it on the hemmoroids. Any truth to this? Anyone have an experience similar to my situation?

Feedback will be appreciated.

 

I have heard that anal sex is quite painful if one has hemorrhoids and should be avoided. It certainly rings true as well. Probably not what you wanted to hear, but I believe your wife is being sincere.

 

If you've ever had hemorrhoids you wouldn't be asking that. It's sort of like getting ass fucked in reverse.

 

Hemmoroids is a fucking pain the ass. Literaly, man. It has to be completely healed to have any anal sex.

If the hemmoroids are healed, some anal sex can take place. But you have to take time. Give her ass a few sex sessions to adjust to a finger (or a small toy), then a few to adjust to two fingers. A few to orgasm with a finger in her ass, and so on... Just like you would with someone new to anal.

Anal sex, if done right - does not cause hemmoroids. It's caused by pressure in the abdomen and has some more risk factors.

After one has had hemmoroids a few times, it is likely to come back, anal sex or not. Sorry. Depends on a few things, like how severe it was and does it run in your family. Those are major things. Other risk factors are constipation, any strainous activity that increases abdominal pressure like lifting heavy objects (giving birth is on the extreme end of that), alcohol, heat, sitting for long periods of time, little excercise, high blood pressure.

In extreme cases it's actualy better to go for some sort of procedure to have them removed rather than using ointments for 6 months and have it come back in 6 weeks.
But in most cases, treating it and with little changes to living habbits (good for you in general) it can be avoided or kept at a minimum. Unfortunately, anal sex can become a very rare pleasure for people prone to hemmoroids. Rare, but not absent.

Some gentle and thoughtful anal sex, can help a person relax the anus a bit, and this comes from personal experience only, but when my ass is hemmoroid free, I have my girl play with it just a little, and my asshole actualy feels a little better.

Disclaimer:
I am not a medical doctor. This is a medical condition and you should talk to proffesional. Everything I wrote comes from from a fair amount of research I've done on the topics of anal sex and hemmoroids. I love asses and anal sex, and I suffer from hemmoroids from a very young age for this desiese. I wanted to keep any asses I fucked hemmoroids free, I battle my hemmoroids often, and anal sex is something I like reading about. No woman I've been with ever developed hemmoroids (and I've done some pretty extreme stuff).

 

Well it has been 3 years from the last kid where the Doc had her push on 7cm diallated. Now that i know she isn't denying me for lack of fun and thrills, i can move on. Thanks everyone!

P.S. Move on from asking, not to another women.