All Bill Clinton jokes aside, what does the word "sex" mean to you? What does "sex" include?

I have my own definition but I don't want to color people's answers till the thread gets going.

 

Mine definition of sex is lots of touching, kissing & slow foreplay first. I know I'm really ready when my lips get puffy and swollen. All of that then leading to any number of hot and heavy play to the point of making my papi feel really good which in turn makes me really hot seeing that I am making him feel good and ultimately happy happy endings for both of us and followed up with cuddling while we recover. I love it when I'm sexed so good that my breathing is labored, my legs are shaking and I'm dizzy. I think.

 

I have to date nothing else to compare sex to because I've only had it with my papi.

 

Slowly undressing each other. Licking while taking off the garmets. Rubbing your hands over each other's bodies. Nibbling and biting softly at each other's nipples. Slowly kissing your way down each other's bodies. Taking him or her into your mouth. Penetrating or being penetrated. Sorry we got lost there for a second. Basically though anytime someone's genitalia is in your possession.

 

It is sex if one or all of those enjoying it has a climax.

 

When I was growing up sex was pretty much any part of him entering any part of her (not counting French kissing)
His or her hands touching any part of her or him that would be covered by a bathing suit, while not sex would definitely get your ass kicked if her father caught you doing it.
Now days it seems like vaginal intercourse without a rubber is the definition of sex.
Don't think blowjobs are sex? What if you caught your teenage daughter (18 of course) blowing your best friend (or friends). Would you say "No problem! It's not like I caught them having sex."
Guys who say that oral, anal, tits or hand sex isn't really sex, are usually trying to get a woman to give them oral, anal, titty fuck or a handjob.

 

Can a person have "sex" by themselves?
I would say yes, but that will probably challenge most definitions.

 

Sex is pure animal craving. It's an act of pleasure for the sole purpose of climaxing.

 

I would say sex is fucking. Otherthings are types of B-fore sex.

 

I'll give it a while before I fuck up your thread V!!

thinskin

 

or 4 guys and a rum and coke?

 

Anything that can arouse me to the point of climax I consider sexual stimulation. That's just me though.

 

Only girls have sex.

 

Sex is defined by the people.involved and develops within and around relationships and own personal changes. Certainly me and any persons Ive been with for a length of time determined sex differently. Its a personal thing I feel.

The main themes have been though that it is consenting, that both sides came away with equal pleasure even if one was dominant during, and that it didnt necessarily shape who we were ir define us

 

I grew up in a rather conservative family and sex was not generally discussed, and I got no real sex education from my school or family. Due to this lack of education, I always believed that sex was "penatrive sex" a man's penis entering another person (vagina, anus, or mouth). When I got older, I learned about the concept of lesbian sex, which added a new twist to my definition of sex. By the time I was starting to have sex myself, I had finally settled on the description to be any act between 2 or more people involving genital stimulation and usually leading to orgasm. I had to add the word "usually" near the end because I learned that at times, during sex, one (or more) of the parties involved my not achieve orgasm before the completion. I learned that lesson with my girlfriend (who later became my wife) when during sex, she would orgasm, then within a short time I would ned to cum in her pussy, or stop, because she would say that it was starting to hurt.It was still sex, even though I didn't get to cum, but at least back then, she would lay there and let me masturbate and cum on her pussy, unlike now, where when she's done, it's all done, and I either go without cumming, to I have to go somewhere by myself and masturbate to get to cum.

 

Frankly, sex to me is anything wherein two or more people are intentionally arousing themselves as they try to arouse another with sexual intent. As extreme contrasting examples, I have been involved in gangbangs where every part of me was utilized by the others there, and there was nothing sexual about it. In contrast I have done nothing more than look across a table at another person, and them back at me, not a bit of us touching, and neither of us speaking, simply looking at one another with a lot of intense expressiveness for a solid half hour and it was an incredibly intense sexual experience.

Hush....an alias

 

Intimate relationship starting with the mind, being able to excite your partner with the smallest of touch or look. Then pleasuring them by knowing every thing that turns them on and exploring new things together

 

Well it doesnt have to involve a cock or penetration that is for sure. I will come back to this

 

Sex to me is just that it's sex. Sex is just going out to get blown or laid, there's no feelings of intamice, emotions of love or wanting anything more than just sucking and fucking each others brains out. When you put intamice and emotions in that's when sex becomes making love. Wow! That brought a tear to my eye, now let me go see if the wife wants to blow me, excuse me, wants to have sex?