Most of us here are at least somewhat sexually open. Many of us have either thought about doing kinky things or have actually done them.
Consider "basic" kinks like sex toys, wife sharing, swinging, Bisexuality, orgies and gangbangs and you will find someone here who has enjoyed it. Many here are even into advanced sexual practices.
Now when you look at your neighbor, or coworker, or the person shopping at the store, younger or older, and you can just never know if they are "open" to fun.
So my question is how many of the people around us are , for lack of a better word, sexual freaks? It would at least be nice to know that there are a few of us out here but I sense the percentage is small.

 

I regularly attend BDSM parties with hundreds of people, and that's not counting all the other people I know who have private house parties or keep their kink between themselves and their partner. Most of us pass for vanilla the rest of the time.

 

I can only speak for myself. Ten years ago I had a boyfriend who brought out the sexual side of me I didn't know I had. I was pretty new to sex at the time, but he was patient with me and taught me to take it slow and figure out what I liked and what I didn't. I think his patience made me more comfortable and eventually more confident. I still think of him often and wished my current boyfriend was as open and adventurous as he was.

 

You really can never know. No one would ever think I had the kinks and fantasies, or the past experiences I do. Mainly because I come across as a demure and perfect ministers wife.

 

Cannot say that we disqualify.

 

Nearly 40 and been a freak. Still feel like one.

 

I can't say I'm a sexual freak , but I know I have the mind of one and I know I can't wait to find that one right person with a really large cock to fuck me thoroughly and hopefully feel some things sexually that I haven't yet experienced while my papi watches.. I think.

 

Sitting here at a bridal shower...wondering how freaky all the other women are. lol

 

I'm generally into the "basic" kinks, with maybe a little interest into some others that may not be basic to most. In our marriage, exploring our new interests is hampered only by our busy lives. I wish we would've explored when it was just us, but we weren't the same back then, and I was insanely jealous. So, we ARE a little freaky. We just are for 30 minutes every other evening and a little longer on the weekends.

 

I have mixed feelings about this. There was one girl I always wondered about sexualy, I wondered if she liked sucking cock, did she swallow, does she take it up the ass, does she eat ass or if she liked jerking off prick between her big luscious tits and wondered if she fucked a really good prick? Then I actually found out for myself and it blew my mind, the girl was a fucking pig! She actually buried her tongue in my ass, I mean buried it deep like she was checking my prostrate, and she expected me to fuckin kiss her after, please? I'm sorry I got off track like that. But honestly I did find out what she was all about and I have to say it was nice. Then on the other hand it's nice not knowing or finding out what they actually like or get into and just paint a picture of everything in your mind, especially when it's your daughter or niece you're wondering about. It's one thing sniffing and jerking off in their panties but wanting to find out is just sick, fucking sick.

 

Yeah, People who know me publicly would never think of me as being a "freak" (although I'm not sure if I really qualify as a "freak"), and most of them probably wonder how I ever got married in the first place. I'm a stereotypical geek/nerd. I used to wear a pocket protector, but I didn't have the glasses until more recently (and they were never the big black frames although one tech and the shop tried to sell some to me the last time I got new glasses).People would probably never guess that I enjoy eating pussy, enjoy eating cum filled pussy (so far my own cum only though), and that I enjoy showing off naked for people who think I don't know they're watching, They probably don't guess that I have a strong desire to feel a hard cock in my mouth and to have it cum in my mouth too. I get such a thrill and find it such a turn on to expose myself to others (especially women) and make them think that I don't know they can see me. After doing that enough times, I will even make sure they realize I know they can see me.

 

With all due respect if I could correct your terminology LOL

1. Toys are as integral a part of the anal, oral and vaginal lexicon, polls show
2. Wife sharing, swinging, swapping, bisexuality are lifestyles
3. Orgies and Gangbangs totally KINKY!

 

Pegging is the "freakiest" thing, in my wife's eyes, that she would do for me. I KNOW she'll do other stuff I would deem freakier than that, though.

 

I am not sure I would use the word freak, but heading in that direction might be an appropriate way to describe it.

 

And in today's society how many of those strangers would actually have the gumption to expose themselves and not throworry judgements???

 

People are people. Most people look at their worst and best, and though they know nothing about the next person, try and gauge themselves, their degree of difference on what they assume is the case. Fact of the matter is that most people are not as freaky as they'd like to believe about themselves, and not any more or less than the next person. About the only real difference is the amount of courage one has to be who they want to be, and try what they want to try.

Essentially, if you had to gauge 99.9% of people on a 1-10 scale, most folks are a 5, myself included. As to the .01%ers? They're so off the charts that they typically cannot function, so don't even count.

If you really want to learn how freaky someone else is, simply talk to them, and give them a good reason to trust you. The only reason that people seem to be more to the plus side of freaky here is that everyone feels anonymous, so trust is not an issue. IOW, what you see here is the average joe spilling his/her guts.

Hush....an alias

 

I'm willing to bet the average person is way freakier than they admit. Most people have to put on a "respectable" facade for one reason or another. Unfortunately, we can't all walk around in assless leather pants every day.

But here's the mind fuck: if everyone does something freaky, does it still qualify as freaky? Or does that make it normal?