Hello,i just want to ask you for some advice on how to aproach my wife to tell her my biggest sexual fantazy about her getting fucked by some other guy while i am watching...it doesn't need to be fullfiled i just want her to know,or any fantazy at all.
I am asking for advices because we never ever talk anything about sex or sexual fantazies at all.Now i have a girl which i fuck her once a week,and somehow with her we are open and talk about everything related to sex,but can't do it with my own wife.
We talk about everything except sex...we just go to bed start kissing and fucking...and that's all...don't know how to aprroach with this kind of subject.Thank you for replies

 

Why not ask her what she'd like try and see where the conversation leads. Maybe ask during foreplay when she's in the mood for suggestion.

 

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The thing is we do not have some foreplay at all...we just start kissing in the bed and start fucking right away

 

Seems to me revealing your fantasy could be kind of dangerous. If you never talk about sex, I would guess that she is probably a little on the conservative side and hearing that you want to see her with another man might not go over too well. But if you really want to tell her, I would start off real slow, maybe ask her about her fantasies and build up to your fantasy from there.

 

iys good idea but what about if she tells him things r so far about his fantasy !!
i see he shoulda make a lifetime

 

Well yea she is kinda conservative..she doesn't even like sex toys...and i bought it few for us in the bedroom to spice up a little bit...we did use them once and never again..she says "i don't like toys leave them..you are enough" maybe that's a main reason why i got a lover few months ago...with her i can talk everything about sex...dont get me wrong...i like my new female lover...but i love my wife...but i don't know how to kick start our sex life to a new direction...because this way is really boring for me.
For our aniversary i made an apointment for her as a suprise to a erotic massage...when the day came i told her that my gift for her is that i payed for an erotic massage for her in a spa center.And i will drive her there....of course she didn't go

 

If you know that she is conservative, I'm not sure why you would get her an erotic massage.

 

Man up! Take her in your arms and look into her eyes. Tell her how much you love her and make her feel it through your touch. Think passionately. Have fire in your eyes and a smile that she trust's. The message is simply... You have one life together and she is the love of yours. Throw the toys away and start again. Take responsibility for the stale rut and take a leap of faith and confide in her. Gently.

 

Just ask her what she thinks about spicing up your sex life by having a threesome - both MMF (to fulfill your fantasy of another guy fucking your wife) and aMFF (bringing in the girl you anyhow fuck once a week).

 

I can't get past the fact that you're already cheating on her. It would be hard to honestly discuss sexual fantasies while you're lying your ass off about what you're doing.

Seriously, I think this kind of discussion needs to come from a place of trust and truth, and that's not the place you're standing right now.

 

Certainly you need to ask her about this..... odds are, she is who she is, and will not be interested in changing. Ahhhhh, a life time of bland unfulfilling sex. But then, at least you're having sex. How old are you two?

 

I'm not going to pretend to know your situation. All I'm going to say is successful relationships are built on trust and honesty. If your sex life isn't satisfying create an environment where the two of you can have a healthy discussion. Before you can do that though you might consider ending things with this other woman. As I said trust and honesty it would be hypocritical to have that conversation while fucking some other girl on the side.

 

I'm 30 we've been maried 4 years have a nice child etc etc...but somehow the bedroom department year by year is starting to disapoint me that's the reason i wanted new things like toys sex fantisies etc etc

 

Well mainly because of this kind of issues that she does not want to talk about sex and sexual fantasies and some sex toys our own sex went down by the years...and when i met this new girl...she is also married...we are like wild animals...our sex is to the roooof also our communications about sex and fantasies...we tell to eachother every day...again don't get me wrong...i feel nice and i like my lover...but my love is for my wife and our kid i would kill myself for them if i need to...i havr issues only in my bedroom not talking about sex at all...i have started few times then she change the subject...

 

Thanks man for the advice...i will keep it in mind

 

This would be good MFF i really need to see that wife and my lover together...that would be ultimate wish

 

When your wife finds out ( and she will ) you've been fucking a girl on the side, I don't think that would be a good time to approach her. Maybe she's fulfilled your fantasy already and has been making love, not just getting fucked, but making love with a man who shows he cares? You care about yourself!