And on a side note.......i love to pleasure myself. That is also sexually satisfying. I mean i can really work my toys or my fingers or watever else i decide to use. It's all so extremely satisfying.

 

@taniadaniels I agree with you here. I have probably said this before but for me it isn't just the lack of sex. I want to feel desired, I want to give her pleasure and I want to have sex with someone I actually care about and love.

That however just isn't possible when you have a partner who pushes your hand away, who always has an excuse ready for refusing sex ( I would be quite happy with a lot more foreplay even if it didn't lead to fucking) and who refuses even to pleasure me.

You would be forgiven for thinking that even if you didn't want sex yourself that perhaps once every 'so many ' months you might be able to force yourself to offer up a hand job and perhaps once every 18 months even a Blow job. But Noooooope !

 

Normally I would give it a 9. But my hubby has been traveling a lot the past few weeks so lately I'd give it a 6, a 10 when he's here and a 2 when he's not.

 

I wish that I could rate an 8 or so but it's actually much lower. I'd say its a 2 or 3 these days.
My wife is MUCH straighter than I when it comes to sexual things.
When I read of some folks and their sexual escapades I feel kind of sad and left out.
I come to xnxx and xhamster to get my fantasy sex 'fix' because my wife just wouldn't understand or role play with me.
If she opened up and became a bit more playful in small kinky ways my rating would soar.

 

Well kinda hard to answer. I could go down to a bar or club and find a hook up easy but I'm picky and my professional life dictates I use much more discretion and that gives me great frustration so about a 3.

 

I would say a 4-6 when we do have sex, but that's once a week or every two weeks. I understand being parents, but if you don't take time for each other. It leaves a sour taste in ones mouth and not in a good way.

 

Before I potentially talk shite, I should say that I've never read a self-help book in my life and my version of positive thinking is more like not thinking. That said, for who I've become sexually and how I can (given the right circumstances), share great experiences or even blow my own mind... I'd have to say an 8. The other 2 reserved for the as yet unknown.

This is not a constant. Last night was fun but not worth more than 4 and my guests deserve the credit for that. I didn't reach the finish line! This afternoon I'd give myself a 7 for my thoughts alone.

Its not for me to question those who stand by their partners no matter what, as every relationship is unique. Some situations demand the utmost respect and others require a serious reality check! That aside, if your dissatisfaction stems from yourself, i.e, you wish you were prettier or your cock was bigger, find some self-acceptance. You don't have to idolize yourself but you will be you forever so may as well work with it. To want to be somebody else is a waste of energy.

If your dissatisfaction is directly related to your partner... Fuck! I wish I'd of thought more about this before I got this far!

 

My sexual satisfaction varies between 5-8 depending on how horny I am and the availability of a partner. I am pretty happy with it.

 

Satisfaction with myself,..about a 5.
Satisfaction with my wife,..easy, ZERO!

 

I all most cry my tears rolle on my chick
Thanks i read it five times.. sob sob

 

4 since I'm single lol
Haven't found that fun friend yet

 

2. But a solid 2

 

A 9, there is always room for improvement !

 

today, I'm a 1 or 2. When I'm not stuck thousands of miles from home, I'd put it closer to 6

 

Initially on reading the question I din't know exactly what number to put my self in, but after reading all the pathetically low numbers I guess I have it pretty good, regular sex at home and lots of masturbation fun. So I'm gonna do an 8.5.

 

I would say 8-9. Closer to 9 lately.

 

Just as Venus said I do not have as much sex as people might think but I put a lot of effort into making sure that sex is quality sex!

I also agree with Bron that preparation and planning are essential!!

If I was completely satisfied then I do not think I would have the drive to explore!!

Thinskin

 

why so far from home and where You are? If You are close to Belgium, maybe I can raise Your number?

 

I am not in a relation at this moment so my number often change form day to day. Some times I am high 7 through 10 and some times I am taking care of my Parents and have no time for play and then it is 2 or 3 and only because I am sooo damn good at treating myself....