We are trying to find some people to connect with for private sexting, we are just learning, haha, and just to talk too....I have always believed what is right for you , may not be right for me, so do what you want to do.....I have had to ignore quite a few pm's tho....we need to ease into this, and some demand pix or kik and get pissed if you want to chat and say hello...I now, we are newbies...haha

 

Hi !!! We are here

 

It is overwhelming at times and I do try to respond to the intelligent PMs but the sheer number is of them is tough to sort. In turn I'm sure some good messages get missed in the volume. That bothers me more than the "hey babe u into anal" messages.

Many times I'm on here at lunch and my intent is to enjoy the forum for some relaxation myself....or when I have time pop on here and post a few pics so my time is limited.

I get it completely I don't blame guys for messaging it's a porn forum and they want to get off....so I tend to just keep posting photos and let that take care of itself.

 

I wish i had too many messages to respond too.
I do understand how it can get aggravating...i even get those, "nice cock" messages. Ok thats it?? Put that on my profile page not in a pm

 

It's fine to not accept messages. I myself don't have that many people who message me.

 

I like PMs, when I'm in the mood, the forbidden texting excites me!

 

Lol I still get the same questions, and now the occasional troll.

 

I turned mine off because most were the same thing over and over, "hey sweetie blah blah blah pm me". Nobody bothered reading any of my posts to engage in any meaningful conversation. I started a thread answering those same repeated questions but still got them.

 

I largely just don't try. At all. If we don't interact in a manner beyond "nice tits / cock" conversation in the forums, I just flat out will delete the PM. Too many demanding people "send me your kik / skype" or "I'm gonna fuck you like the slutty whore you are".

More guys could learn from @shadowfap in that he can be flirty dirty but also a good person and he knows how to engage very well. So if I'm to hold up an example, he's a great one.

 

it all depends on the guy's first PM... if it is polite and showing that he has read my profile, and is showing interest in me as a human... then i respond... on the other extreme if it is crass and very crude.... i tend to block the user and move on.....

 

You just haven't pm's the right man for online sex . PM me

 

PM me I will private sext with you . I love sexton and helpin a woman learn

 

I do exactly the same gorgeous!!

Ignore the one-liners............if they have nothing interesting to say then chances are they have nothing interesting to offer!!

thinskin

 

I don't think its wrong. we used to chat before a while ago and I can understand why you decided to stop chatting with pm's in general. although I don't think our conversations ever went the way you describe...

 

I think a lot of guys would just love to see 1 message pop up when they log in. Its hard graft for us guys too you know!

 

Gotta love that red box with 1 in it

 

I can go a month without being on here, then I would go like one pic or comment and my PM inbox exploded but rarely did anyone join in on the discussion I commented on.

 

With this many horn dogs around, any sight of a female they'll be going crazy over. Hopefully you disabled receiving messages to help your issue.

 

Absolutely your right that made my wife leave when it got too much, even though as you there was a polite plea of a decorum disclaimer in her signature?

 

I would say most pm titles may indicate the type of discussion the author is interested in.
ie. "Hey sexy" "submariners do it deeper"
"Let's fuck" "I have a load with your name on it"
You may wanna dump those and hit the block button.
This is a forum of fun and aggravation, but sometimes enjoyable. I ignore about half of the ones I get.
Don't ever feel obligated to reply, but if you shut them completely off you may miss something worth your while.
Hey! You never know.