Anyone... . Why would :-E / wouldn't you? :wink:

 

I would never in my whole life have an affair. Mostly because I believe that a relationship is based on trust. Although I would have a relationship with a married man or a man in a relationship, because I'm not cheating, he is. Although swinging on the other hand, is something completely different but is still having sex while in a relationship and I would be open to that.

 

An affair

Hey I can have an affair just bumping up against a good looking lady in the grocery that is what happens when you reach 75. Seriously yes I would but at this stage in life it takes a lot longer, and very few want JUST an affair. I have a couple of EX's that go for it, with no strings attached.

 

No. I take my marriage vows seriously.

 

No, I would also not have an affair, that goes against everything that a marriage is based on.
Swinging however - if both partners wer into it of course. That is different from cheating.

 

Nope, I would never have an affair, nor would I have a sexual relationship with someone already married or in another relationship.

I'd have serious trouble with the "what if I was the husband/boyfriend and I found out" issues.

I've been there, and I would neither wish it on nor do it to anyone.

 

Have no need to have an affair, We want to have sex with someone else, We Ask..... 99%of the time it's granted.. No emotional connections that way... Pure unadulterated mind blowing sex, then walk away happy people with no strings or baggage.

 

Been there. Done that. Never again.

 

Done it. More than once. But won't do it again, I think. I'm very happy with my bf right now.

The big question however is: Reach Deep, would you?

 

You just had to do this to me. Just when I thought I was out....

Ok... I did have an affair once, and believe me it's not worth it. I was put in the dog's house for months. It thought me a great lesson. Cheat only if you think it's right. :wink:

 

Cheat? Never! Swinging? Hell Yes!

 

I belive that I couldn't cheat on my girl because i love to death to do that & i would kiil myself if i would loose her.

 

done it ... nothing special .. nothing nice .. lets keep it clean .. nicer that way ..

 

I would but I'm not married, and me and my gf are swingers anyway so its not really considered to be an affair to us... besides its nice to be able to do things or have things done that the gf wont do.... lol

 

Right now it's 46% yes & 46% no...I'm shocked. Maybe I shouldn't be with the divorce rate so high now days, but wholly crap, why even be involved or get married if you're going to be unfaithful?

 

That's a hard one to answer Rain. See my wife has cheated on me twice in our 13 year marriage. Both times I was out of the country and they were one night stands, so not really affairs. I have forgiven her and we are fine now, but unfortunately I still have that "well, she did it!!" thought in the back of my mind. So, I just don't know.

 

I would not have an affair, everyone I have been with other than my husband, he has known about and given me the okay on. I am a self professed nympho and many of my friends take comfort in my brand of friendship.

 

i would have an affair if i was in a relationship with a possessive man but only because id be getting the agro for it anyway! if he trusted me 100% i wouldnt betray that trust!!

 

I put yes, but there are certian conditions. If I was in love, then no, I would not. And I'm sort of having an affair right now anyway. I moved to South Korea 8 months ago and have started seeing a Korean girl. I still have a girlfriend back home that I haven't broken it off with yet. I'm going to attempt it this week, but we'll see if my resolve holds out. It was pretty much over in my mind before I left, I just held out to be sure and sure enough, yeah, it's over.

And as to whether I would have sex with a married woman, I've sort of already done that too. Couple of years ago I moved in with the girlfriend of a friend of mine on a roommate basis and the first night I'm there she comes on to me. I've got very few morals when it comes to sex and since I didn't really like him that much anyway, I figured why not. Totally wasn't worth it, she was a lousy lay, but it was some action after a bit of a dry spell, so I wasn't complaining. Too much.

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I dont know how you do it but I would never forgive my GF for that I would leave her on the spot & that she knows :evil: