I've been married for a long time. My husband doesn't show an interest in me and it bothers me. So I am trying to get to the bottom of it by talking with always turns into a fight and then he says that's why because I Nag and bitch. What do I do?

 

That sounds like a tough situation to be in.

No woman should feel neglected by her man.

 

Itz. Hard to cope but I'mma be ok.

 

You cannot force a man to be interested in you.

 

Depending on how old he is, it could be a medical problem.

 

It might be time to "nag and bitch" to a lawyer.

 

Deep throat him. That always works.

 

Yes! Wake him up by sucking his cock. (love that!!!)
If he slaps you away then pack your bags.
It's definitely over.

 

Is he right, though? Are you nagging and bitching, or are you attempting to communicate?

Lots of people think they’re trying to talk about something, and what they’re doing is attacking.

How do you speak to him when you’re trying to talk about it? Do you use “I” language rather than “you” language? There’s a huge difference between saying “You never touch me any more” and “I feel very disconnected and isolated when we don’t touch each other or make love”.

It’s very hard to speak in language that speaks only about yourself, language that doesn’t carry an inherent attack inside it, but it’s really worth trying. Sit down and think about how you feel, how you’ve been reacting to those negative feelings, and run through your mind how you might discuss those things without saying “you did X”. Instead say, “when X happens, I feel Y.” Y might be “...rejected. I miss you, and the intimacy we used to enjoy.”

Some people overreact when they feel attacked. They lash out, immediately trying to double-down on the perceived hurt, do their best to inflict a worse injury so they can feel like they won an argument.

I don’t know you at all, or the situation past the few words you’ve shared here, but when I’m having trouble with anyone, the first thing I try to do is to review my own communication style with them, and see if a different approach might help.

I hope you come to a resolution that’s healthy for both of you.

 

And if all that fails..... Deep throat...

 

Lol sure you do.

 

Get why the getting is good. Life is to short to be unhappy

Try not to spike each other , during the break . Split on good terms.

Dont go away hating each other
If love is gone most times it wont come back. Go find happiness even if its by yourself. Travel if you can. It does wonders

 

You know what sir you and I think alot a like. That's a very sexy answer. And I sure appreciate the time u have shared.

 

You are so fucking adorbs...yeah you're on to something. But slapping me away and shrugging me off are the same when it comes to such a lustful sex appeal to one another...,.long ago. He leaves. There are times I know he would want some pussy after certain activities.... yet no interest