1. My boyfriend cant tell when I orgasm.. Or when I'm about to. He has to tell me to say when I'm about to.. And its imberassing so I dont..
Is this bad?

2. The first sex I had, it didn't hurt.. We didn't use lube and he didn't cum that much.. I bled a very little. Is
Is that normal?

 

You don't have to yell or scream when you are having an orgasm. I sure as heck don't. If he is doing it right, and hitting all your spots. He will know, because you will be going crazy

Were you a virgin when you two first had sex? My guess would be that your hymen (spelling?) broke. That could very easily be the source of your little bit of blood. Now him not cumming much, is different, he could have already masturbated that day, or he could just not be as excited as other times.

I am no doctor though, I just give my two cents worth and leave it at that 8)

 

I can't relate to someone having a quiet orgasm. People shouldn't have to guess at things like that. I've known guys that come like Marcel Marceau, very stealthy. She's probably just very shy -- you have to help her loosen up a little.

With me, they know.

 

You're going to have to get over the embarrassment if you want to have a healthy sexual relationship. It might take some time, but try to remember that you're in a relationship with him and trust him enough to be sexual with him, so try to be more open with your pleasure.

The first time is different for different women. Some women don't bleed at all when they lose their virginity because they've lost their hymen before hand due to sports or other physical activities. It's normal and nothing to worry about.

 

yeah i didn't have a hymen when i lost my virginity because i rode horseback when i was young and then there was the softball and gymnastics and dance so i hurt because the guy was big but not to the point of me crying or anything

 

answer to your first question.

for guys like me, if we dont think me were ableto make you cum, we feel that we didnt do a good job and are not sure if you really enjoyied it. if you bf want to know if you going to cum there are other ways of letting him know, if you dont want to say it, come up with asignal, like nibbling his ear loube....

 

What's wrong with just telling him? Along the lines of, "OHMYGOD, I CAME LIKE THE FOURTH OF JULY!!"

Of course, he might not believe you...but that's an occupational hazard, I think. Goes with the territory.

 

hi

hi there. how u doing

 

I was going to add my 2 cents but it looks like everyones got it covered,,,,,,,,,some way good advice

 

Not sure why this was resurrected ??

 

^^ This is why it was resurrected. Because furunja is a doofus.