for a girl it wouldn't be bad, it would actually be desired, but as a male, in a largely male dominated society being a virgin at this age is something you get made fun of amongst your friends.

it's not that i can't get a girl, i just don't know how to ask for sex. i mean women have rights and we dont live in the stone age where you could just hump whatever. i guess it's an issue of boundaries.

i guess i havent met the right girl yet. i don't know just venting. it's hard to find a girl that you can have sex with that isnt a hooker and doesnt want a relationship and that is attractive to me.

 

I was 24 yo when I lost it. I finally started lowering my standards until I got laid. I lost it to a single, 32 yo woman who was a little chubby.

 

Hard to get sex buddy if that is what you're after, for me my first time was at 23 with a prostitute..I just couldn't wait any longer lol

 

thanks for the replies at least you guys got rid of yours in your early 20s i feel the more i wait the greater likelihood of me settling down with the first girl i sleep with. in other words i'd probably be that 40 year old down the road with a the mid life crisis of not getting enough young pussy when i was young, though that can be changed now.

i just dont want to deal with all the drama if the girl finds out i'm just banging her for the sole reason of banging and nothing else.

i don't know it bothers me some thinking of my pass discretions with women and how many times i fucked up.

recently i was in the summer i was invited to a girl's apartment to stay with her for a few days. she lives 5 hours away from me. i didnt even get any sex at all whilst i was there. even though we slept in the same bed, she had no ac so we were practically naked. and prior to going to meet her she did mention she made the first moves for sex...there was nothing of the sort whilst i was there i tried to make a move didnt feel like i got shot down but didn't know if i should have gone further.

in the end i'm not sure if i got used whilst visiting her or not i didnt even spend that much money on her <100 bucks (the bus ticket there and back cost me more!).

 

we've all been there on the friend zone, for your first time are you against a prostitute?

 

that's the thing i don't think i'm in the friend zone with her, maybe the very comfortable friend zone where a drunken/stoned night would let our inhibitions go wild.

i've thought about hookers, but at the same time it just feels wrong, where i live it isn't legal, plus all those stories of immigrant girls thinking they'd have better life here only to be sold as sex slaves/workers really turns me away from them. not to mention possible diseases etc that i do not want to deal with. though i have friends that have gone to hookers in the past. personally the most i'd want from a hooker would be a blowjob but that would be it. also wouldnt want to pay out the ass for something i know i can get free. so long as i can figure out the magic words to let me in :/ probably has to do with both parties drunk.

 

Living 5 hours away would have the advantage of a stay over but crap how nothing happened last time..do you two text eachother much?

Fair point about prostitutes, its legal where I am and I went to a high class one, for me I had no chance with any girl lol

 

yeah we use to text each other a lot, lately though it's slowed down...i guess she got bored with me...though she did mention sending me a xmas gift a few weeks back.

i also don't want to appear too clingy, i have a friend same age as me with a 40+ year old woman/girl friend and she is THE MOST CLINGY woman/girl i have ever met in my life. like she cannot let him go, always clings to his arms or not let him go out to do anything he likes at all...funny thing is before they were dating she tried to make a move on me grabbing my ass one time when no one else was looking. i am rather glad i didnt do it with her because of what kind of crap i see my friend going through now with her...

i use to think the same way eadz, about no chances with women, then that all changed when i met that girl who lives 5 hours away. she is a model and for some random reason chose me, and mind you i still have to battle bouts of acne, i am not super muscular, a bit on the thin side. but i managed to gain her interests just by being myself. the only issue is she doesnt know how much of a pervert i really am. or at least how much of my perverseness i should let out that would be acceptable to get laid.

ugh maybe she didnt want to be treated like a quick lay and rather me stay with her in her city. i just find it hard to uproot as she lives the province over and i rather not have to brush up on my french.

 

Maybe try meeting someone on this site, Ive never tried it but I always see people looking for sex partners here and since so much people do it it must work. And seeing the kind of people here I think you would find a great sex partner that is into the same stuff you are into.

 

well after all it is a porn site forum, guess people are more open when we all know what it's all about. sadly it'd be tough to talk like this to a girl in real life without going through a lot of slaps, and drinks thrown in your face.

i did meet that girl online too so i know the internet isnt just full of guys pretending to be girls.

 

Mr. bluntx, girls like sex as much and more than you like sex. Girls talk about it and think about it and yes girls go out with the goal of getting a cock rammed in their tight wet twats. You need not worry about having your face slapped or having drinks thrown in your face. Chill the fuck out. Smoke one up. Fuck, smoke one with a bitch. Easiest way I ever found to get laid.

 

i am well aware of that, just they tend to be a little more conservative where i live. girls dont want to be see as sluts or something. but i know they want it, it's just how do i go about get them to take their clothes off eludes me.

 

I can help...

I can help you, my friend. I'm not a woman, but I'm a 26 year old male that has had a good amount of success with the meeting of random women that are mostly interested in sex. There are many factors that play into your ability to pick up these horny women, even if you live in a conservative area. PM me and I'll give you all the advice you need. It'll be with it, I promise.

 

I think if you are waiting for marriage or the right girl it's okay, however you are on a sex site. I won't lie I was in the ARMY, a virgin, visited a massage parlor and paid the girl for sex.

 

You torment yourself to much...just go with it,remember...time is ticking away.More you wait for it,more you will regret it later

 

I'm waiting for the right female. I'm not really into promiscuous sex. You can even find girls on Facebook nowadays.

 

Don't feel to bad I lost mine at 28 and the pope never lost his lol

 

Dude,

You're 26. You are not old. Just lose it before you turn 30. Or don't. How you feel about your virginity is entirely decided by you. The rest of the world doesn't need to know you're a virgin nor would they give a crap if they did.

I wouldn't lose it with someone you've just only met the same night. I'm not ruling out an escort but it's best to get to know someone so that you're both comfortable with each other.

I'm still a virgin but I'm not worried about it. I've resolved to lose it to someone I admire and someone who desires me. The woman I end up with probably wouldn't care that I'm a virgin and if she doesn't ask I wouldn't tell.

 

at times i've thought like that too. maybe it's what has survived me this long but at times i feel like i am missing out on something that could be great. it's an experience i have yet to experience and have been curious about for probably the last 10+ years of my life.

 

Hire an escort but don't have sex with her. It's what I did but it relieved my anxieties.

Sex is bargain-basement cheap. Mutual love is hard to find.