The 3 questions are as follows:

1) Can somebody explain their reasoning for having a foot fetish? I, myself, have one, and cannot explain it for the death of me. Of all the female body parts there are, the feet were the last things I thought I would be sexually attracted to.

2) Are women more attracted to musicians? Hypothetically, does a 5/10 guy get a few extra points just because he can play an instrument?

3) Not really sexual, but a question nonetheless. Why do women seem to like it when men don't treat them well. I've been in 2 relationships in the past 30 months, the first lasted 24 months and I didn't treat the girl all too well (I wasn't a dick, but I didn't make her out to be my all). The second, lasted 6 months. I openly worshipped this woman, she knew I would do anything for her, so she got 'bored' of me within 6 months.
I know these are but 2 examples, but my friends who treat women like shit are always with one, for long periods of time.


I would be much obliged if people could share their wisdom with me on these subjects. Any experience with the subjects is helpful. Thank you in advance.

 

1. I have no clue. I don't personally like feet.

2. I love musicians. There's just something sexy about a man who plays a guitar. It normally means he's good with his hands.

3. I don't want a man who I can walk all over but on the other hand I don't want a complete asshole. I don't want a man who worships me because chances are he's going to make himself my doormat.

 

1. I don't have an answer but I think a foot fetish is mostly a male thing. I know I get a lot of men who stare at my feet when I wear a shoe that shows them.

2. I love musicians. Yes they get extra points from me.

3. I agree totally with what JezebelinHell posted. When a man is to nice and sweet, it makes him look weak IMO. I like my men to be strong and not let anyone take advantage of him. Not even me.

 

Hum interesting questions I will give my spin on,

1. Some feet and toes really turn me on, and on the same note I know I love to have my feet rubbed and massaged.

2. Yes a player in a band gets more attention from me,
maybe they seem exotic and not easy to pick up so more effort is done.

3. Easy catches are no fun, there has to be a thrill of a chase and win
to really get the blood pumping.

 

1.) The part of the brain that controls the sex organs and the part of the brain that controls the feet are right next to each other. On occasion, those parts are fused in such a way that they have their wires a little jumbled. I'm only being slightly metaphorical here, but this is actually what happens.

2.) In general, skill of any sort is a quality people like in their mates. Skill equated to power when we were still uncivilized, e.g. skill with the spear meant you could be a better provider of food, or skill at making fire meant you could be a better provider of warmth. Today, any sort of skill seen by a potential mate still can give that same primeval attraction, from writing good poetry to running a country. This, of course, also applies to musicians. While it is not the case that every woman will be attracted to a good musician, for those that do, it is likely a leftover side effect from our ancestors mating habits.

3.) No fucking clue. My guess would be that this is a bit of a mixed signal over wanting a powerful man, but one gets a little too powerful for their own good. Once too deep in the relationship, either stockholm syndrome develops or a fear that a breakup will have terrible consequences (he will literally kill me, etc.). This one I cannot claim to be any sort of expert on, and am just winging it based on the stereotypes we see and hear about. The other two I've read up on.

 

Thank you all for your opinions and insight.
I suppose I'll just have to figure this foot fetish out for myself. Lately I've just been having almost uncontrollable urges to feel women's feet, kiss women's feet, suck women's feet etc.

The musician thing is interesting, and I suppose it may very well come from our ancestors. As a guitar player, I may have to utilize this

I'm afraid I knew the answer that would come after asking the third question. It's a shame that really nice guys get the short end of the stick. I really like to make a woman feel as though she's wanted, no, needed in my life. But if this dooms me to failure in relationships, it may have to stop.

Again, thank you all for your insight.

 

To answer your questions:

1. I dated someone who had a foot fetish because he was more of a submissive male. He liked feet because he thought thats the place where he belongs: at the feet of a woman. He likes kissing and worshipping women's feet because he thinks thats the only part of a woman he deserves to touch

2. Yes, I like musicians. Its sexy, and I like being serenaded to. Old fashioned as it is.

3. Well, I dont like men who treat me like shit. I've always liked the men who showered me with compliments and treated me like a goddess. haha